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Originally Posted by volcano
so are u meaning that u marry ur wife when the relationship is not build yet???
u sounds that all VN gals look bad,if thats the case then why u marry one and had to give urself so many restrictions and rules to it??
from my opinion,not all VN gals are bad,maybe just happen that those u know are.i have been together with my wife for 5 years.i have never restrict her on money issues,she has free access to my account through the ATM card and i have given her a supplementary card of 20 mills credit.she has never use her sup card and ATM card before although its always in her wallet.she attends school from 7.30am to 3pm...spends less then 200k per day which includes her 2 meals outside,motorbike parking,groceries bought back for dinner.
not all are bad,i am sure many bros here have excellent wife as well.
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...I mean relationship building takes a while. Any damage is a setback.
Yes, there are bad & good one - no doubt. It's good to be cautious & watch the surrounding - frens & relatives behaviour especially. It just that I happened to see a few of such cases in real.
If one is already into one such marriage, be wary is better than not.