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Originally Posted by naemlo
It is crazy to borrow money to get married.... and worst, no money still pay 10K for dowry. 
Guess your wife after birth is having "mental/emotional disorder".... over protecting her baby and not according to her wish, she will break down. Your sis who is used to her normal life now has to adjust to your wife's demand which definitely will cause conflict.
It is a difficult situation which there is no right solution. Just have to talk to both parties and tolerance is needed from both side. |
Thanks bro Naemlo! yes i know its crazy to borrow money to get married but i have no choice...... as she was carrying my kid early 2011. My parents didnt accept her and we went through alot to be together. She wanted to leave me and said she will take care of the kid herself but i begged my parents to approve her and went ahead to hold a wedding in Vietnam. Yes the 10K was like a dowry to let her mum do business.
Indeed i guess theres no best solution, they simply ignore each others presence now. My sister just go straight to her room when shes back.