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Originally Posted by littleleroy
Hi bro, paiseh i nv eleborate, its like brunch party with the villagers. In the night dinner another small party, like you said its like tentage. I didnt get back the ang pow, my in-law kept them and said most of the villagers didnt give ang bao. :S  |
Sorry to be frank, I think your parents in law take you for granted. I do not know how many relatives and friends your parent in law invited but 10K is too much. Like other bros had say, if you still continue to give their parent in law allowance, they will think that you will support them for the rest of their lives. I told my BX that i can continue to help your family until we had our first kid. I will stop giving them anymore allowance cos I had to think of our baby.
In Singapore, it is not easy to bring a a kids like in VN. In Singapore we talk a lot on education. This will kill you in the future.