Keep calm. Do not be confrontational. Use positve engagement instead. No pressure. Give it some time for her to calm down
Then find a good time. Build up the mood. Roses, music, fine wine, her favourite food, plenty of smiles even if inside you are crylng..
Gently lead her from small talk to issues you want to discuss, no holds barred, even discuss about her bf, an open talk, nothing too small or big to discuss, ultimately, only realities to confront...
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