Didn’t know that so many bros are facing the same plight.
Just to share my 2cents: Newly married for 4 years with a 18mth old kid, recently found out my wife been hanging out with her new office colleague, went out with him jogging, dinner, drinking, and even to his house. She’s apologetic and still will accommodate to sex (to reduce her guilt) upon my request. But I find it so disgusted. Didn’t touch her since the incident, more than happy to give the other guy the chance to pleasure her instead.
For the sake of the kid I will hold on. Meanwhile venture out for massage for quick release from time to time with ever different chicks to fulfil my own desires. 那就各玩各的!
