[combatwombat]

Married with 2 kids for about 7 years. Here is the sex timeline:

Before marriage - once or twice a week
Honeymoon - everyday for 2 weeks, twice a day morning and night
After marriage - once every week
After first kid - maybe once every 2 months
After second kid - one year one hand can count.
Current situation - doesn’t seem interested in sex anymore, usually both of us dead beat after a long day at work and the entire evening taking care of the 2 kids. I did try to ask for sex on Fridays or on weekend nights, but same shit, say tired la, need to do laundry la..etc. After awhile also sick of asking. Just DIY or outsource to ML/FL every other week for release.

We are still on loving terms but just the sex part seem to be a chore for her after having kids, I do feel a little guilty after eating out but what to do, still a man with needs, no where to release.