[expatamerican]

It is one thing to have a fantasy. That is ok, everyone has fantasies. But you seem to not know the boundary. You crossed that when you followed this woman into a lift. That is stalking. As a father of a daughter and a step daughter and husband to a wife and brother to sister, if I found you were doing that to any of the women in my life you would wish for the cane compared to what I would do to you.