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Originally Posted by expatamerican
Your question is not clear. I dont cheat on my wife but I do have sex with other women. The need for sex with multiple women is biologically hard wired into men from millions of years of evolution. A few thousand years of religion is not enough to wipe it from our genes. Now cheating implies dishonesty. If women can accept men will want to fuck around and understand that, then it solves the problem. Lucky for me I found such a woman and we have the best most amazing marriage and relationship.
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I have never discussed this with a woman who sees it as nothing more than an excuse a man will use to fuck around.
Can't really blame them since most women cannot see sex as as activity that can be enjoyed without some sort of emotional connection.
Ergo a man fucking some other woman must imply that he has an emotional connection to her. That's their hard wiring.
Truly men are from Mars, and Women from Venus. More accurately though, human beings are still just monkeys that happen to be able to reason, but still subject to same primitive and instinctive urges.
Instinct always wins, and man's instinctive urge is to put his seed in as many females as possible.
What a curse.
I should take a cue from you and do the same with the next woman. I suspect this might mean I may never find someone I can emotionally connect with.
*shrug*
Much else to do anyway.