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Originally Posted by Bbtt332023
We both also not the outgoing type, don't go clubs or have much experience. Yeah, loser I know.
But we did go staycations, cuddle, sometimes nude and she gives me occasional hand jobs. She was saying she wants to have sex only after marriage, but once we started discussing marriage she was open to it. but only capped. But like I said, couldnt get her wet and she doesn't know what makes herself wet, so a few tries and it's too painful to even go in. I never insisted anything so it stops there. Otherwise, intimacy remained the same, hugging, touching, handjobs.
Big incident ah, quarrel lor, until involve my side of the family. Being stuck in between is the main issue I guess. While wounds are fresh, our sex life (or lack thereof) got become a source of argument once also.
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This isn't about being a loser or anything. Just naivety in BGR.
If you wanna have sex with her you gotta bring up treatment for her vaginismus.
If not, just carry on.
You can probably blame her upbringing for her condition, probably her parents.
You can also blame your own parents for your naivety, but that's another story.