Classy Swinger's Session?

Nuglut · #1 02-02-2011, 04:22 PM

Hi All -

I was thinking about organizing a classy swinger's session for this coming Sat. Here is what I propose:

> 4 or 5 star hotel with a suite or equivalent room.
> Good wine and liquor.
> Music to set the mood.
> All paraphernalia provided (although couples encouraged to bring their favorite f-toys)
> All details appropriately coordinated between members by me, with anonymity preserved.

I would like to limit it to 5 couples. This way there is a good vibe between everybody while still allowing for swapping. Couples who have swung before and are comfortable would get first priority. Newbie couples would also be considered of course but participation (not just observation) would be required as this is not a voyeuristic session. I think it would be appropriate for some light screening (a description and picture of the couple sent) to ensure that dynamic is positive and the couples real.

I would suggest the event commence at 9pm, and go till the last guests leave.

I am happy to take other suggestions as well.

We all lead busy lives, and the issue historically has been that it has been tough to nominate somebody to lead and organize, as there are many dynamics that need to be considered to ensure a good swing party. But I would be happy to take the lead in this case.

I think the fee per couple would be nominal, probably 100 bucks, but I need to give this more thought. I will pick up the rest of the tab.

I have recently broken up with my GF, and in the interest of full disclosure, will be coming single. But given the rest of the couples, and the need for people to take a break, I don't think this will spoil the swing dynamic at all.

If couples are keen on this, please confirm on this thread. If there is enough interest within 24 hours, I will get rolling on this.

Thanks in advance.

tookara · #2 03-02-2011, 08:16 PM

good that you're honest. but for 5 couples needs a big (read expensive) room

Cookies & Cream · #3 03-02-2011, 08:32 PM

Make it 3 couples just prefect.

win13win · #4 03-02-2011, 08:42 PM

Sound good .... Nice and big suite + good wine, $100 each where are enough? Willing to pay $500 for it but I won't be in singapore until mid feb. Next party I will sure join in ok hahaha

Nuglut · #5 04-02-2011, 07:24 AM

Thanks for the posts and PM's.

At this point, two couples have expressed interest. I would like at least two more to go move forward with this. In case I don't hear anything in the next couple of hours, I will postpone the event.

I think scheduling it on CNY weekend is also part of the issue.

But we can always give it another shot at a later date.

Regards.