Need advice

seansean83 · #1 22-04-2009, 09:16 AM

Hi all the brothers out there,i have a small problem.When having sex with my gf i have the tendency to go soft when she is riding me.Why is that so?Does anyone face the same problem with me before?Please help as she can hit orgasm easily when she is on top.

Declan · #2 22-04-2009, 09:49 AM

I think its the method she is adopting. Maybe you can tell her to adjust the angle by turning.

pewpew · #3 22-04-2009, 10:01 AM

Can u tahan her weight or is she a burden to u while she is on top? Maybe its because your blood cannot flow to dick thats y it "IA" (no joke)

oOoLyRrAdoOo · #4 22-04-2009, 10:24 AM

Actually i must state that some girls do it wrongly,they shake forward and backwards so much that we guys get sian,(mental is important too)...

Instead maybe if it's true,let her know she can go up and down...

LostALau · #5 22-04-2009, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by seansean83

Hi all the brothers out there,i have a small problem.When having sex with my gf i have the tendency to go soft when she is riding me.Why is that so?Does anyone face the same problem with me before?Please help as she can hit orgasm easily when she is on top.

Could be psychological. Maybe u felt like being fucked instead of u fucking her and your chauvinism got the better of u.

ProjectSawadee · #6 22-04-2009, 11:37 AM

2 possible reason.

1. Cowgirl is not your favour position.
2. Your bro down there don't feel anything so general go soft.

no big deal, turn her around and try other position. Doggie, 69 ETC ETC

cheers
PS

nudesex · #7 22-04-2009, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by seansean83

Hi all the brothers out there,i have a small problem.When having sex with my gf i have the tendency to go soft when she is riding me.Why is that so?

Is she very bony? May be you are experiencing pain cos her "kar ching" bone kept knocking on your pelvic?

purepulp · #8 22-04-2009, 02:00 PM

Gravity?

nudesex · #9 23-04-2009, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by purepulp

Gravity?

You are referring to gravity on the dick or gravity on his GF bums that are causing him pain?

funtasy · #10 23-04-2009, 12:47 PM

Its a mental thing. I dont like this position and I have the tendency to go soft when it happens. I like to be the one in command.

angrybigpenis · #11 23-04-2009, 03:55 PM

Try the following:

1. Turn on some sexy music (can be soft music or any pussy cat dolls music, if that's what turns you on);
2. Ask your gf to mount you with her back facing you, lubricate alot before step 2;
3. Turn her hips and pussy in circular motion, not up down motion;
4. Ask her to bend forward so she is resting her weight on her hands/elbows and not on your pubes, continue more lubrication;
5. As she turns in circular motion, you can thrust in when you feel stronger;
6. Lubricate her anus, play with it (no penetration yet);
7. When sufficient thrusting and lubrication is attained, she will ask you to penetrate her ass with your finger - do so but go slow. Have something to do while she is riding you.

If you are lucky, you may get to dip your sabre into her sheath.

newyorker88 · #12 23-04-2009, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by seansean83

Hi all the brothers out there,i have a small problem.When having sex with my gf i have the tendency to go soft when she is riding me.Why is that so?Does anyone face the same problem with me before?Please help as she can hit orgasm easily when she is on top.

I guess you are psychologically not prepared. Relax and let her play you. Then let her ride you when she is ready. Dont be too tensed, and let her "have" the role of playing you too.

purepulp · #13 23-04-2009, 06:47 PM

I read somewhere before that with the girl on top position, the groin area is less sensitive for the man because of gravity pulling blood alway from that region and ur dick. If it is in missionary position, gravity is pulling blood towards the area and ur dick thats why it is more sensitive.

Another reason could be because u cannot control the motion and what ur girl is doing maybe not be working for you. Think about it, in missionary or doggie, if its not feelin good for you, you can adjust until you feel gd but in girl-on-top, the girl have all the say.. if its not feeling good for her she adjust until it feels good.. who cares about you? thats why will go soft... Unless she is a damn good rider la...

(o)(o) Tuner · #14 23-04-2009, 06:51 PM

If your dick goes limp, that means you dun love her anymore

Cerberus · #15 23-04-2009, 08:18 PM

I face the same problem also.

I do agree with some Bros maybe the gal rides a bit too fast and only in one direction.
My fav position is still missionary.....