i feel so down..

manl26 · #1 15-11-2009, 12:51 AM

i had a gf for 3 yrs..
today, she told me tt she could not differentiate love n get use to me.

i am so shock.
i gave her my all......

fazer6s · #2 15-11-2009, 01:41 AM

Cheer up bro its not the end for you. Its only the beginning of a new chapter for you.Time to self reflect and get moving.And in no time you will hv another partner.Trust mne cos i've been there.

sentsggirls · #3 15-11-2009, 01:44 AM

is just a temperory pain for now, after a while, things will be better, u will feel lost for a moment but is quite hard to close your eyes as makes u think of all the good times.
perhaps give u and her some time, and things will come back again.

cheers bro.

sexed · #4 15-11-2009, 02:20 AM

Only time can heal the pain....cheer up, bro....things can only get better

sammyboyfor · #5 15-11-2009, 02:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manl26

i had a gf for 3 yrs..
today, she told me tt she could not differentiate love n get use to me.

i am so shock.
i gave her my all......

Time to get some fresh pussy.

silverblue · #6 15-11-2009, 02:31 AM

how often did you have sex with her? Maybe not enough sex?

Boliaoz · #7 15-11-2009, 02:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manl26

i had a gf for 3 yrs..
today, she told me tt she could not differentiate love n get use to me.

i am so shock.
i gave her my all......

I am so shock too. Women / girls dun like men who gave them their all. Start flirting and that bitch will come back to you.

boboi83 · #8 15-11-2009, 03:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manl26

i had a gf for 3 yrs..
today, she told me tt she could not differentiate love n get use to me.

i am so shock.
i gave her my all......

bro,relax...there r still many fishes in the pond...

see see only · #9 15-11-2009, 04:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boliaoz

I am so shock too. Women / girls dun like men who gave them their all. Start flirting and that bitch will come back to you.

Agreed

Relationship is like a game of poker including marriage, the one who care most get hurt = the one who always showed the last card will never win.

Of cos, there are cases that both contributed so-called equally but that's not very often.

"Start flirting and that bitch will come back to you" - well said

of cos somehow must let her know are you're flirting around happliy without her. Very likely she will be crawling back. (However if she no care! time to move on for fresh pussy liao)

Medusa · #10 15-11-2009, 06:59 AM

在这个世界上，不会应为谁没有了谁而活不下去...

so..grieve over it for 1 week is enough...life still got to go on

Big Sexy · #11 15-11-2009, 07:24 AM

gave her your all??

she left you probably because you spend more time
looking for Fl contact here than keeping her
company..

Quote:

Originally Posted by manl26

i gave her my all......

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #12 15-11-2009, 09:57 AM

TS is so 幸福, very insighful replies from No.2 all the way to No.11...you should just heed all these advice & your life will go back to normal in no time.

colins · #13 15-11-2009, 10:31 AM

Wah...3 years, now she suddenly realised she cannot tell if its love or just gotten used to your face. Sometimes women say the weirdest thing but I guess guys can't really use logic to fully decipher words from the heart.

I think besides the pain that you are suffering and nursing, perhaps that comment is a call for some attention from you. Its like 'hey! look here! very boring down here. I'm ready to move on, with or without you!'

Be a man, dun focus on being sad. That is what a pussy does. Go and ask her why she said that. You must be prepared to change as well. 3 years is long enough for most people to get married liao. So whether you have some plans to marry her or not, or when is it gonna happen, tell her your plans.

But seriously, I think you know the reason why she said that as well. Nothing special is coming out of the relationship already. Nobody likes to get used to mediocrity. Take care man

NightHawk88 · #14 15-11-2009, 11:33 AM

Bro,
Try to discuss your relationship with your gf and if she still decided not to carry on further; it is time for you to move on and look out for new relationship. 3yrs is really nothing if the relationship doesn’t work out. In fact, it is a blessing that your gf confessed her true feeling regarding this relationship.

Believe me, once love is gone or faded, there is really nothing much you can do to win her heart and it will be miserable to carry. Your may feel down at this moment but times will heal your broken heart and soul.

I knew how you feel as I have gone through a fruitless relationship with my first gf which last for more than five years before she confessed that she wanted to end our relationship. It is a painful decision, but we have since move on without each other and I’m glad that today we both have a blissful marriage of our own. Our relationship remain a sweet memory of our past in our heart.

Try to live better; gear up your career, spent more time with your family or make more friends. You have just regained your license of “FREEDOM”………..you should fully utilize and live a happy man.

Cheers.

Medusa · #15 15-11-2009, 03:02 PM

when a relation goes far enough but didnt end up in marriage...it become more to a "habit"...habit of seeing the someone at a certain timing...habit of calling and report...habit of having someone by your side..its not weird that a party find the relationship going nowhere after 3 years or more...my friend's gf broke off with him after 7 years...another one is after 10 years...so does it means they are wasting each other time? lots of unexpected things happen at the unexpected time...so 还在一起到底是为了爱还是习惯?