Lost and sad... Pls advice

Nannan · #1 11-09-2010, 10:03 AM

This is my real story and I am quite lost not knowing what to do. I was happy with my gf tht I know for 5 mths. She was everything to me in which everything statin that she is what I wan as a partner. Everything went well till few days back she told me something that makes me lost and wonder. I brought a new house and will TOP in 2 yrs. I asked her to move in with me. But her reaction was weird she insisted she will not move in with me.... Shortly after she force me to delete all e pic I have of her by sayin if I don't delete them she will break up with me and told me she love me but I will never be e one she wan to start a family with. But she is willin to spend a few years with me.... I am very lost and confused.... Pls advice... Cos of her I stop all my player lifestyle. I am currently workin and starting my own company and she is still schooling. Is that an issue too!? Pls advice very lost../

too_hot · #2 11-09-2010, 10:31 AM

err...how young is she?? still schooling like in uni? please dun say JC/secondary school hor....

Nannan · #3 11-09-2010, 10:57 AM

She is 21 and I am 27

CLee2 · #4 11-09-2010, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Nannan

This is my real story ... Cos of her I stop all my player lifestyle. .../

Bro, what bullshit are you talking about ????

Your posts in the past 3 months showed that you were happily screwing around, wanted to take part in masturbation parties, organising 3somes with your 20 yr old Korean/Chinese girl ...... and now you're saying "you've stopped your playing lifestyle" ????

what tricks are you up to now ? Trying to get girls to meet you by dangling your new " apartment " as the carrot ?

Clee2

Nannan · #5 11-09-2010, 11:10 AM

Sigh this is a multiple users Acc. I also know what u said... Pls advice and not rub salt on wound. Ps not keen in woman at all if that's make things better and clear

sammyboyfor · #6 11-09-2010, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Nannan

Pls advice very lost../

The title should be "Lost and sad... please ADVISE.".

and the last sentence should be "Please ADVISE. Very lost.".

"Advice" is a noun.

Tell your girl to fuck off and get yourself a new girlfriend.

sammyboyfor · #7 11-09-2010, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Nannan

Pls advice and not rub salt on wound.

Should be "Please ADVISE and not rub salt into the wound....".

"Advice" is a noun.

alan0338 · #8 11-09-2010, 11:40 AM

No comments since multiple users account, dunno the next post will be from who again.

And by the way, u should be prepared for boss to correct ur advice and advise..

Oops, he is already here the moment i post, so fast

Nannan · #9 11-09-2010, 12:22 PM

Sigh.... But it's so hard to pull outof e relation...cos I feel that I am emotional attched to her.... Should I just continue as long as we can?

joew2005 · #10 11-09-2010, 12:24 PM

Hi TS,wat is the nationality of yr 21 yrs old gf ?
All is not lost 4 u ma ..... u hv not even hit past 30.
don't be so nagetive la .....

sammyboyfor · #11 11-09-2010, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Nannan

Sigh.... But it's so hard to pull outof e relation...cos I feel that I am emotional attched to her....

You're not "emotionally attached"!

You're just high on pussy juice.

Get over it and spend your time doing something useful instead. Pussy worship will get you nowhere in life.

Sweetprcbabes2 · #12 11-09-2010, 12:47 PM

how come 27years old can get apartment without ROM ?

I am 29years old, i barely have 2k of pure savings, credit roll 15-20K, one full buttock of debts.

RealEstateGuy · #13 11-09-2010, 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Nannan

This is my real story and I am quite lost not knowing what to do. I was happy with my gf tht I know for 5 mths. She was everything to me in which everything statin that she is what I wan as a partner. Everything went well till few days back she told me something that makes me lost and wonder. I brought a new house and will TOP in 2 yrs. I asked her to move in with me. But her reaction was weird she insisted she will not move in with me.... Shortly after she force me to delete all e pic I have of her by sayin if I don't delete them she will break up with me and told me she love me but I will never be e one she wan to start a family with. But she is willin to spend a few years with me.... I am very lost and confused.... Pls advice... Cos of her I stop all my player lifestyle. I am currently workin and starting my own company and she is still schooling. Is that an issue too!? Pls advice very lost../

Brother, my initial take based on what you provided is she is just not that into you. She has been hanging around you because you are a man of convenience ie for finanicial help, psychological support while she is in school, etc. and recreational sex ie F buddy. But she doesnt see you as the man of her dreams. She did not tell you earlier because in her mind the relationship was to fade upon graduation. It could be there is another guy in backing or someone she is pursuing a real relationship with.

If you have more information, post it. Can analyze that for you brother.

Nannan · #14 11-09-2010, 02:33 PM

I work for my own business thus I had e spare cash to buy e apartment

btw she just say she will be with mr max 2 yrs after she work or know a better man she will leave... Sigh

Horseman1972 · #15 11-09-2010, 03:01 PM

Haha my same sentiments w Clee2...He's probably trying to get girls to meet him by dangling his new " apartment " as the carrot...Well he prob trying 2 get lucky w those naive n gullible gals in here who falls into his trap after his pathetic story...Sorry bro u sound more despo actually...Try harder lol