What's wrong with me?

Testor · #1 28-03-2011, 02:39 PM

I'm a virgin in my very early 20s, just hired a FL for the first time hoping to learn some tricks. Turns out I couldn't get an erection. It wasn't the FL's fault; she's nice and rather pretty, the blowjob and handjob was good and I could see she was really putting in the effort. I don't think I have health issues either: I have an exceptional sex drive and average about 9 times a week. Just last month, i did 7 in a day, 6 of them in a single sitting.

Any advice? I have very good reason to believe my gf is finally going to let me bed her on her birthday and I don't want to end up insulting her. I'd rather not take Viagra if possible since I have issues with my heart.

lucky23 · #2 28-03-2011, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Testor

I'm a virgin in my very early 20s, just hired a FL for the first time hoping to learn some tricks. Turns out I couldn't get an erection. It wasn't the FL's fault; she's nice and rather pretty, the blowjob and handjob was good and I could see she was really putting in the effort. I don't think I have health issues either: I have an exceptional sex drive and average about 9 times a week. Just last month, i did 7 in a day, 6 of them in a single sitting.

Any advice? I have very good reason to believe my gf is finally going to let me bed her on her birthday and I don't want to end up insulting her. I'd rather not take Viagra if possible since I have issues with my heart.

nothing wrong w you..just u are to desperate to please...meaning not relax enough.. ur brain need to relax...

MdmVodka · #3 28-03-2011, 06:01 PM

maybe because you are TOO used to masturbation?

Pilot Preceda · #4 28-03-2011, 06:06 PM

you too kan cheong la bro...
just relax...

Testor · #5 30-03-2011, 05:16 AM

Is that it? Too kan cheong? Haha. Like that a bit hard to overcome leh. I don't think I'll ever be able to relax in such a situation. What do you guys do to relax?

@MdmVodka: Probably not the case, because her handjob was better than mine.

bongbong · #6 02-04-2011, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Testor

Is that it? Too kan cheong? Haha. Like that a bit hard to overcome leh. I don't think I'll ever be able to relax in such a situation. What do you guys do to relax?

@MdmVodka: Probably not the case, because her handjob was better than mine.

Bro testor.. don't worry nothing wrong with you, i also got this type of problem before calling for FL. Is a physiology problem, maybe you are not relax enough and also scare of getting std or anything, so unable to errect, but if u meet the FL 2-3 times you get use to her, you will able to do it.

cqueen · #7 02-04-2011, 04:52 PM

Nothing wrong with you. I am sure your hard cock is wet, strong and juicy if you can mast and cum so many times in one day.

Trying to relax is not as easy as one likes it to be. The adrenalin rush to your horny cock is something that is not within your control.

You may want to tell yourself that being nervous and apprehensive is just being natural, and dun try to overcome it.

This was exactly what my slutty tongue tell my nervous samster to do when he came to experience his first goodwill erotic bj with my warm tongue.

First, my slutty tongue reassured his hard cock via sms, when he was on his way to my place, that its only natural his hard cock may feel anxious with a tingle of sexcitment and uncertainty.

My slutty tongue then started to arouse his wet cock a little by asking him if he could just stain his underwear with a bit of his precum so that my slutty tongue can get to lick and taste his stained precum underwear when I pull down his pants to lick it.

Immediately. his cock did get semi hard (cos he texted to tell me so) and the increased hardness made his crotch area a bit uncomfortable. My slutty tongue again reasurred his hard cock that this is a good thing and he should now unzip his pants to feel the wetness of his cockhead and rub it against his underwear to stain his precum there (of course, he was driving).

The foreplay continued till his hard, wet, juicy cock finally appeared at my door step for my warm tongue to engulf and deepthroat deeply till he moaned n groaned n begged me not to stop cos he had never experienced such high, erotic anxiety before.....

Such early foreplay does help any nervous hard cock to relax to a good extent as it serves to "distract his anxiety" away.

You may want to suggest to your Fls to try using this method to tone down your anxiety level.

Cheers.

bongbong · #8 02-04-2011, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by cqueen

Nothing wrong with you. I am sure your hard cock is wet, strong and juicy if you can mast and cum so many times in one day.

Trying to relax is not as easy as one likes it to be. The adrenalin rush to your horny cock is something that is not within your control.

You may want to tell yourself that being nervous and apprehensive is just being natural, and dun try to overcome it.

This was exactly what my slutty tongue tell my nervous samster to do when he came to experience his first goodwill erotic bj with my warm tongue.

First, my slutty tongue reassured his hard cock via sms, when he was on his way to my place, that its only natural his hard cock may feel anxious with a tingle of sexcitment and uncertainty.

My slutty tongue then started to arouse his wet cock a little by asking him if he could just stain his underwear with a bit of his precum so that my slutty tongue can get to lick and taste his stained precum underwear when I pull down his pants to lick it.

Immediately. his cock did get semi hard (cos he texted to tell me so) and the increased hardness made his crotch area a bit uncomfortable. My slutty tongue again reasurred his hard cock that this is a good thing and he should now unzip his pants to feel the wetness of his cockhead and rub it against his underwear to stain his precum there (of course, he was driving).

The foreplay continued till his hard, wet, juicy cock finally appeared at my door step for my warm tongue to engulf and deepthroat deeply till he moaned n groaned n begged me not to stop cos he had never experienced such high, erotic anxiety before.....

Such early foreplay does help any nervous hard cock to relax to a good extent as it serves to "distract his anxiety" away.

You may want to suggest to your Fls to try using this method to tone down your anxiety level.

Cheers.

good guide bro..

cqueen · #9 02-04-2011, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by bongbong

good guide bro..

errr.... a little correction here hor. U mean:

Good guide, slutty tongue....

arsenal_84 · #10 02-04-2011, 06:08 PM

store your bullets and don't visit an FL anymore...once you get used to frequents bj, sooner or later your little bro will lose the urge to get erected.

cqueen · #11 02-04-2011, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by arsenal_84

store your bullets and don't visit an FL anymore...once you get used to frequents bj, sooner or later your little bro will lose the urge to get erected.

Sure or not??

My married ex frequent fun buddy had been enjoying my goodwill free erotic bj for almost 15 years before he migrated to Perth.

He never fails to fuck my mouth when he is back to Singapore to visit his relatives and his cock is as hard, wet and juicy and horny like before.

arsenal_84 · #12 04-04-2011, 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by cqueen

Sure or not??

haiz i don't know is it me or i'm used to good bj...
nowadays i prefer to wait for a familiar FL with solid bj skills than to go try other new faces...

i was never a fan of bj until this girl literally gave me a good tongue.
from then on, i had some issues with round 2 if i don't get a bj before doing so.
guess is about time i reduce the frequency of chionging FLs, sometimes law of diminishing returns do occur together with increasing age.

nottituck · #13 17-04-2011, 01:23 AM

you have performance anxiety issues lah. dont worry about it.
it happens to many bros once in a while. stress can also be blamed

Frankiestine · #14 18-04-2011, 08:17 PM

I think you putting too much pressure on yourselves to try and get a erection. Learn to relax close your eyes and just let the FL do the work. Btw does that mean you are now half a virgin now that you got just half the package?

Xgenre · #15 18-04-2011, 10:28 PM

Is your gf a virgin too? If so, why not lose your virginities to each other? More meaningful. If she is not, well continue to lose your virginity to her too. Tell her it's your most precious gift and she must be responsible for it.

Years later, it will still be a wonderful memory of how you fumble your way through.

Better to lose your virginity to someone meaningful than to outsource it out. You won't want to receive a sexually transmitted disease in return for your virginity right?