Fb with my ex

CandyBunny · #1 28-07-2012, 10:32 AM

I want to be fb with my ex boyfriend but he seems to be afraid that it would hurt me as he knows that I still like him.
We talked about it before but nothing happened.
We do not meet up anymore so how to hint him non-physically and indirectly?

Big Sexy · #2 28-07-2012, 11:57 AM

he obviously doesnt fancy a shag with you anymore.
why dont you find yourself a new fb?
i am sure there are load of takers in the forum..

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Originally Posted by CandyBunny

I want to be fb with my ex boyfriend but he seems to be afraid that it would hurt me as he knows that I still like him.
We talked about it before but nothing happened.
We do not meet up anymore so how to hint him non-physically and indirectly?

DO_YOU_BJ · #3 28-07-2012, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

he obviously doesnt fancy a shag with you anymore.
why dont you find yourself a new fb?
i am sure there are load of takers in the forum..

Lolzzzz wahahaha super direct, super uncensored, super duper spot on

JadedAngel · #4 28-07-2012, 03:15 PM

Crude but FACTS. Move on

Harop · #5 28-07-2012, 03:33 PM

Sis i agree with bro Big Sexy. Usually a guy, at least for me, won't resist a shag from a presentable lady. If he doesnt even wanna have sex withnyou, probably he really think having sex wif you is a chore... sorry to say this sis but i think you should move on to another guy tomsatisfy your physical needs. Im sure there are tonnes of bros here in this forum willing to give u a good time.

this is my 2 cents worth so i hope u dont mind me expressing my thoughts.

SeeNoEvil · #6 28-07-2012, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by CandyBunny

I want to be fb with my ex boyfriend but he seems to be afraid that it would hurt me as he knows that I still like him.
We talked about it before but nothing happened.
We do not meet up anymore so how to hint him non-physically and indirectly?

For a guy to turn down NSA sex or simply don't jump into it. It means there are major issues that he has with you!

JadedAngel · #7 28-07-2012, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by CandyBunny

I want to be fb with my ex boyfriend but he seems to be afraid that it would hurt me as he knows that I still like him.
We talked about it before but nothing happened.
We do not meet up anymore so how to hint him non-physically and indirectly?

He is not the last man on earth gal.

jj_jj · #8 29-07-2012, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by CandyBunny

I want to be fb with my ex boyfriend but he seems to be afraid that it would hurt me as he knows that I still like him.
We talked about it before but nothing happened.

You are doing this for the wrong reason.
Do you think you can patch up with just sex?
If so, then the r/s isn't worth much at all cos sex is just part of the equation.

Wouldn't it be better knowing why the r/s ended?
What could be done better the next time?

End of the day, it's what outcome you want.
If it's just sex, then so be it, your choice.

gamior · #9 29-07-2012, 10:13 AM

at least he is a nice guy, he knows that you like him and he doesn't want you to fall deeper into it. most guys wouldn't turn down a ons

CandyBunny · #10 29-07-2012, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Harop

Sis i agree with bro Big Sexy. Usually a guy, at least for me, won't resist a shag from a presentable lady. If he doesnt even wanna have sex withnyou, probably he really think having sex wif you is a chore... sorry to say this sis but i think you should move on to another guy tomsatisfy your physical needs. Im sure there are tonnes of bros here in this forum willing to give u a good time.

this is my 2 cents worth so i hope u dont mind me expressing my thoughts.

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Originally Posted by SeeNoEvil

For a guy to turn down NSA sex or simply don't jump into it. It means there are major issues that he has with you!

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Originally Posted by jj_jj

You are doing this for the wrong reason.
Do you think you can patch up with just sex?
If so, then the r/s isn't worth much at all cos sex is just part of the equation.

Wouldn't it be better knowing why the r/s ended?
What could be done better the next time?

End of the day, it's what outcome you want.

If it's just sex, then so be it, your choice.

We did not come to an agreement of yes or no but did not reject the possibility. Just that the existence feelings is an obstacle now.

And no I'm not doing this to patch up. He's just a special guy whom I'm willing to do this with.

CandyBunny · #11 29-07-2012, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Harop

Sis i agree with bro Big Sexy. Usually a guy, at least for me, won't resist a shag from a presentable lady. If he doesnt even wanna have sex withnyou, probably he really think having sex wif you is a chore... sorry to say this sis but i think you should move on to another guy tomsatisfy your physical needs. Im sure there are tonnes of bros here in this forum willing to give u a good time.

this is my 2 cents worth so i hope u dont mind me expressing my thoughts.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SeeNoEvil

For a guy to turn down NSA sex or simply don't jump into it. It means there are major issues that he has with you!

Quote:

Originally Posted by jj_jj

You are doing this for the wrong reason.
Do you think you can patch up with just sex?
If so, then the r/s isn't worth much at all cos sex is just part of the equation.

Wouldn't it be better knowing why the r/s ended?
What could be done better the next time?

End of the day, it's what outcome you want.
If it's just sex, then so be it, your choice.

We did not come to an agreement of yes or no but did not reject the possibility. The reason is the existence feelings.

And no I'm not doing that for a patch. He's just a special one whom I'm willing to do with.

CandyBunny · #12 29-07-2012, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by gamior

at least he is a nice guy, he knows that you like him and he doesn't want you to fall deeper into it. most guys wouldn't turn down a ons

Precisely...

tansy · #13 29-07-2012, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by CandyBunny

We did not come to an agreement of yes or no but did not reject the possibility. The reason is the existence feelings.

And no I'm not doing that for a patch. He's just a special one whom I'm willing to do with.

No agreement means no. Since you said he is a nice guy, probably he doesn't know how to break it to you that he doesn't want it.

MAYBE the possibility is there but MAYBE not now.

Sis, just move on. Plenty of guys out there. You will meet somebody special again.

efftee · #14 29-07-2012, 10:04 PM

Yup, would have to agree with most people here. Perhaps being fb would bring you good in the short term, but it's going to be a very superficial satisfaction, because deep inside, it might make you feel worse.

Just go out, have fun, and don't do things that you would regret too much

Keyword is 'too much'

Botakhead · #15 30-07-2012, 01:06 AM

Sister, please do not interpret the situation as though it's in your favour. In the end, you'll always be in the one whose loss is the greatest. You got to learn to let it go, once the r/s is over, never look back.

If there is anything going to happen, you'll be the one to be blamed. It is good to look far and beyond in search of a better future.

Wish you have woken up and moved on.

Take care.