How far would you go for your sick gal?

W1ck3dSecret · #1 05-12-2012, 07:59 PM

Believe everyone would say is TLC.

Why he never even ask if I am feeling better today? Why never care about my well-being?
Felt bo song when he talked back to me. All I need is very simple comforting words. Sighed ... ...

Sorry peeps! I just need a place to vent out my frustration.

Vex! Vex! Sick! Sick! Feeling so lousy now .... I need a good rest.

nuclearkid · #2 05-12-2012, 10:01 PM

Since you need to vent, guess it helps to know that someone is picking it up.

Keep you mind off things and have a good rest.

jasdude · #3 05-12-2012, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by W1ck3dSecret

Vex! Vex! Sick! Sick! Feeling so lousy now .... I need a good rest.

Some people don't show it as good as others. Some people can't talk that well but make up for it in action. Don't worry, I am sure he has you in his heart.

Take care, rest and get well soon gal.

promster · #4 05-12-2012, 11:49 PM

There may not be a definite right or wrong, but rather two people who see things differently and need to see each other's point of view.

Promster

flowbow · #5 05-12-2012, 11:59 PM

Sometimes guys find it hard to express concern, be it in words or actions, but that doesn't mean they don't feel concerned for you

I've experienced that a lot of times and found it to be quite true for certain guys.

Take care and get well soon babe.

unsung80 · #6 06-12-2012, 11:58 AM

Time to dump him and move on to a better guy that is mature and takes the effort to understand your feeling. No point hoping he will understand you one day, for now he can't do it for sure. Hope you feel better now.

W1ck3dSecret · #7 06-12-2012, 02:57 PM

Thanks peeps!
It's always nice knowing someone outta really care :

Just returned fr clinic. Doc & I we are hoping I can recover before weekend is here.

see see only · #8 06-12-2012, 03:18 PM

TS,

Maybe first, you may want to ask your bf or ???? .... what does he mean by "sick"

For example, i take flu and minor fever as a normal breakdown of a human body and not serious enough to be considered sick ... unless for more than 2 days ...

Everyone's interpretation is different

sammyboyfor · #9 06-12-2012, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by W1ck3dSecret

Believe everyone would say is TLC.

I would cancel all my appointments and spend my time nursing her back to health. I'd even make her black chicken soup.

Stitchboy · #10 06-12-2012, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by W1ck3dSecret

Believe everyone would say is TLC.

Why he never even ask if I am feeling better today? Why never care about my well-being?
Felt bo song when he talked back to me. All I need is very simple comforting words. Sighed ... ...

Sorry peeps! I just need a place to vent out my frustration.

Vex! Vex! Sick! Sick! Feeling so lousy now .... I need a good rest.

Hope u will get well soon. Since u r unhappy with him, mayb it is time to think about seriously about yr relationship. Since u r complaining, it means that u really mind of him not caring abt u.....

esssinine · #11 06-12-2012, 04:03 PM

Everybody sees the world thru their own eyes and value system.

When he falls sick does he whine and manja ?

Or does he suck it up and go thru it stoically?

If he is those strong and silent type and grins and bears it thru the pain then he would think everyone should do a ditto.

So dont be overly disappointed if he doesnt fuss over you big time

sadbaby · #12 06-12-2012, 04:40 PM

sometimes guys not very good at showing concern, so girls will all the more ask for it, to the extent small small illness also complain sick (not saying urs is small illness) so at first maybe the guy give a bit, until ultimately nv give or dont show concern alrdy..

i saw a quote ytd, vr meaningful.

"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, does not mean they don't love you with all they have"

Get well soon!

W1ck3dSecret · #13 06-12-2012, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by see see only

TS,

Maybe first, you may want to ask your bf or ???? .... what does he mean by "sick"

For example, i take flu and minor fever as a normal breakdown of a human body and not serious enough to be considered sick ... unless for more than 2 days ...

Everyone's interpretation is different

Yesterday was my second day. If he wanna define sick the way u mentioned, I got nothing to say.

W1ck3dSecret · #14 06-12-2012, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I would cancel all my appointments and spend my time nursing her back to health. I'd even make her black chicken soup.

Very sweet of u

Thumbs up!

songsonglah · #15 06-12-2012, 05:02 PM

I will take afternoon off from work, if cant take urgent leave, cos in my position (bopian, salaried worker) a lot of the day's work has to be delegated in the morning.

Once at home, it will be 100% my girl's time. I won't be cooking anything as I suck at cooking. But, running errands and buying food is no problem for me.