How to satisfy him?

angelwing · #1 03-07-2005, 10:47 PM

I guess it would be appropriate to post here as this is sex related.

For the past few months, my bf have not "come" when making love with me. We make love about once a week (if there's any). He told me that he did not DIY.
He did experience the sensation of cumming, but just couldn't come! I did not experience this problem before. Previously, he have sex with his ex 4-5 times a week!

He told me his ex likes to watch pornography (His ex is from the US)
I asked him what I can do, he told me he can't tell me what to do, I will have to figure how to make him come. He suggest that I go watch pornography and learn. Well, I have no idea where to get those.

Previously I do not have such a problem, my ex was pretty satisfied with me. I really don't know what I can do to satisfy him. Any help guys? Oh, and if you have suggestions on how to cheer up a guy, do include it as well. Thanks!

#2 04-07-2005, 02:59 PM

Do you do it raw with your bf or you using condom? When he's getting the sensation of orgasm, does he stop? Or pull out wank himself? Or does he pull out and you continue to wank him? Or maybe pull out and you blow him till CIM.

Think he is shy in telling you what you can do, try intoxicating him with alcohol. As for porno, download form internet or order from jb.

Finally, dont expect him to be the same as your ex, both may be males but each have their own likes and dislikes. Have you tried oral? Have a variety of positions, moan and groan gal.... Basically it's how far are you willing to go with your current bf? As for cheering up a guy, easy lah, DONT NAG hurhurhur.... Be submissive. Hope these works for you. Still got lots of suggestions but too many to list here lah.

pete_i_ · #3 04-07-2005, 03:08 PM

Basically, you got to tell us more abt the progress when u and ur bf making love, then probably we can find out the problems and helps u. Problems can be u or ur bf, mayb u dun like to suck his d**k or u dun allow him to lick, or the method of sucking is wrong, the sensation for him is not rite. Too many unknown problem. If u shy then PM me lor, if not u can write out and many other bros can help too.

pete_i_

ricardo · #4 04-07-2005, 03:13 PM

not an advise just sharing what i like as a guy. i let my lady to dress up for me ... i dont like see them in nude ... i like to see a little ... for example ... my partner bought a new sexy dress showing off nice clevage ... we plan for a nice dinner where she would wear that dress couple with a sexy lacey bra (as the dress will show part of it) ... throughout the 2 hour dinner ... i cannot get my else off her .... by time we got home ... i almost explode liao ... well that's how i like it.

singexpat · #5 04-07-2005, 03:15 PM

could due to stress, work levels, even diet..
try to find out wats brothering him..

sis anglewing, as u mentioned, its onli this couple of months rite which means in the past, he did "come" rite??

naemlo · #6 04-07-2005, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by angelwing

I asked him what I can do, he told me he can't tell me what to do, I will have to figure how to make him come. He suggest that I go watch pornography and learn. Well, I have no idea where to get those.

Previously I do not have such a problem, my ex was pretty satisfied with me. I really don't know what I can do to satisfy him. Any help guys? Oh, and if you have suggestions on how to cheer up a guy, do include it as well. Thanks!

So does he has problem cumming on other gers???

If no then he is sick with u.

ultra88man · #7 04-07-2005, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by angelwing

I guess it would be appropriate to post here as this is sex related.

Previously I do not have such a problem, my ex was pretty satisfied with me. I really don't know what I can do to satisfy him. Any help guys? Oh, and if you have suggestions on how to cheer up a guy, do include it as well. Thanks!

Every man is different. You are his galfren you should try to get to "know" him yourself. I believe all the bros here have got good intentions to help but at the end of the day, it is between the two of you to make it work.

another thing to ask yourself ... has he already had "enough" of you ? which could also be possible ... sorry, if it is ...

sg_boytoy · #8 04-07-2005, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by angelwing

... For the past few months, my bf have not "come" when making love with me. We make love about once a week (if there's any). He told me that he did not DIY.
He did experience the sensation of cumming, but just couldn't come!

Got sensation but no cum, your BF probably impotent. Is he in a very stressful job, school, NS unit, etc?

Wang Ye · #9 04-07-2005, 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by angelwing

I guess it would be appropriate to post here as this is sex related.

For the past few months, my bf have not "come" when making love with me. We make love about once a week (if there's any). He told me that he did not DIY.
He did experience the sensation of cumming, but just couldn't come! I did not experience this problem before. Previously, he have sex with his ex 4-5 times a week! He told me his ex likes to watch pornography (His ex is from the US)
I asked him what I can do, he told me he can't tell me what to do, I will have to figure how to make him come. He suggest that I go watch pornography and learn. Well, I have no idea where to get those.
Previously I do not have such a problem, my ex was pretty satisfied with me. I really don't know what I can do to satisfy him. Any help guys? Oh, and if you have suggestions on how to cheer up a guy, do include it as well. Thanks!

Heehee I am most willing to teach but may have to do pratical

But seriously looks like he wants you to be advanteous in sex.

ie. when you blow him look him in the eyes, suck his balls while rubbing his shaft. Tickle his cock with your tongue once in awhile when you blow him. Cover his cock with kisses before you blow him.

Suck his nipples, finger his asshole etc.

Foundle his balls when he humps you. Milk his cock when you ride. Hug him when you do it missionary.

Hope all this helps.

#10 04-07-2005, 05:03 PM

Suck him dry when he is at the point of no return!

nakamara · #11 04-07-2005, 05:22 PM

or did he cum in you w/o u knowing? den he claim that he nv cum?

#12 04-07-2005, 05:25 PM

Are you hum enough for him? If not maybe you should change your outlook to be more hum-licious?

Lone_Wolf · #13 04-07-2005, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by angelwing

For the past few months, my bf have not "come" when making love with me. We make love about once a week (if there's any). He told me that he did not DIY. He did experience the sensation of cumming, but just couldn't come! I did not experience this problem before.

When u say did not 'cum' I assume u mean ejaculate. Not trying to cold water your relationship with your BF but one possible reason could be he had already "cum" earlier with someone else. The testes need @ 24 hrs to replenish the sperm so while a man can have the sensation of cumming....there will not be much sperm for 2nd shot.....much less for 3rd shot ....and nothing for 4th shot etc.... (just like the system here for reputation points .....u need to wait 24 hrs before u can up another person)
Look out for signs whether he 2-timing u.......don't want our sister angelwing to be hurtbroken.

Itto Ogami aka Lone Wolf
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Can hire me to put things rite if that bastard hurt you.

#14 04-07-2005, 06:23 PM

Sis angle. what guy want is we be more daring/open on the bed. Just try to bj him, stroke him, talk dirty while making. Try some new pattern, differenct angle will have differenct effect. (same for us too).

ps: beware of wolf.

Lone_Wolf · #15 04-07-2005, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by lurfuk

ps: beware of wolf.

U refering to me?