fall for a married women

[tsk123]

Hi there, decided to post here as I believe I will receive genuine reply as compared to other forums.

Recently I realized I have fall for one of my colleague. she's married, with 2 kids, the eldest is almost 20, and to be honest she doesn't look like her age(she's older than me by 14). she is not really that sexy and chio kind, but what Im really attracted to is her character. recently she confessed to me saying she has fallen for me too. but the problem is I already have a gf, and we are getting married soon.

im getting a big headache now. Im trying to treat her as my close friend, but everytime I will think of her. we consistently pm-ing each other almost every night. I really don't know what to do. can anybody enlighten me on what should I do?

thanks in advance.

[justl00king]

By right, she's married, u going to marry, can't do it, can only remain friemds.
But by left, anything goes, can be FB, just do it?

So gotta decide, u wanna have the blue or red pill?

"You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes." -Matrix

[conquer]

Why not choose both -- marry your girlfriend while keep the affair with your colleague.

[jnudes]

If I am you I will marry the gf and quit the current job in order to avoid her, block and delete her from social media contact. Will try to find a new job at other company. Nothing good will come out by getting close with a married woman in the long term. Things will turn very ugly in the end if the husband find out and the same goes if your gf happens to find out one day.

[tsk123]

Thanks for the comments. Both of us have talked about it. We are keeping our infatuation for each other (I believe this is what we are feeling currently) in the virtual world. We really enjoy being together, and once in a while being out till late night. Of cos nth has happen to us. It seems like we are walking on a thin line, but I can't just quit my job and avoid her suddenly.

[demonhunter]

I will go for the 20 yr old if shes a daughter

[sanuuk]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

I will go for the 20 yr old if shes a daughter

Please la.....he prefered MILF than young grass ler!

[Summerhillt]

Lol wtf you going to marry than kena this type of things. Sibeh sway or sibeh heng is how you see it. But do your gf a right thing lah. Stop all these nonsense and treat your wife right. Shes going to be the mother of your child.

[boycott]

Her being your colleague, does your GF know her personally?

If want to eat, better don't get caught. Eating a married colleague is very risky.

[randyrockhard]

What is it that you're looking for?

If you see a future with the married woman in the long run, then you should do everything that is within your means to achieve it. And along with that choice comes the responsibility for every single shits that may come your way.

A very angry husband for one example is a very BIG problem, which conceivably could be life-threatening in most cases.

My mom has very wise words of advice on this matter. She said there are 2 ways to look at it, either from the lust or love point of view.

First, if you are going to risk your life, it better be for a damn good pussy, not just some rotten/destroyed/loose pussy that has given birth and endured years after years of pummelling by her husband's cock. In fact, I argued with her that no pussy is worth dying for. I still believe it to this very day.

Second, if you say this is about love. Just learn from the lessons of spare tires in cars. You have 4 working tires but always 1 spare tyre in the trunk, right? Just in case one tyre got flat?

Meaning, you could love somebody 100% AND THEN have another 25% more for the spare. It doesn't mean you shouldn't love that main woman 100% though. Love her completely, including taking care of her feelings too. So if you really wanna keep another woman, the main woman MUST not know about it. --- just like spare tyre which is kept safely & separately from the view of the other 4 tires

Most important thing is that the spare woman must KNOW her position in your kingdom. That she is just your spare. 25%, nothing more and nothing less. If she could live with that, then fine. If she doesn't then don't do it.

Not worth it.

[voluptuousvenus]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

What is it that you're looking for?

If you see a future with the married woman in the long run, then you should do everything that is within your means to achieve it. And along with that choice comes the responsibility for every single shits that may come your way.

A very angry husband for one example is a very BIG problem, which conceivably could be life-threatening in most cases.

My mom has very wise words of advice on this matter. She said there are 2 ways to look at it, either from the lust or love point of view.

First, if you are going to risk your life, it better be for a damn good pussy, not just some rotten/destroyed/loose pussy that has given birth and endured years after years of pummelling by her husband's cock. In fact, I argued with her that no pussy is worth dying for. I still believe it to this very day.

Second, if you say this is about love. Just learn from the lessons of spare tires in cars. You have 4 working tires but always 1 spare tyre in the trunk, right? Just in case one tyre got flat?

Meaning, you could love somebody 100% AND THEN have another 25% more for the spare. It doesn't mean you shouldn't love that main woman 100% though. Love her completely, including taking care of her feelings too. So if you really wanna keep another woman, the main woman MUST not know about it. --- just like spare tyre which is kept safely & separately from the view of the other 4 tires

Most important thing is that the spare woman must KNOW her position in your kingdom. That she is just your spare. 25%, nothing more and nothing less. If she could live with that, then fine. If she doesn't then don't do it.

Not worth it.

This is eye opening. Really good advise for someone falling inlove with a married person. Every relationship will reach the 'boredom' stage. So even if you leave your current gf for the married woman, time will come that u will get bored of the MW and think about your Ex GF. You might even regret leaving her because she is now happily married with another guy and you ruined your chance of a happy & stable life.

(Im talking to myself too. Trying to convince myself to forget about some married guy i almost fell for). Thank you!

[lawry]

My view is this.
You go marry your gf and be that old women fuck buddy.
And while you're fucking that old women. Let me fuck your wife song song!
Like that you happy?

KNN I don't know why a lot of love to fuck people wife bastards
Let me fuck your wife.
You song boh?
Unless you're willing to let your wife or your gf get fucked by other people.
Karma

[cuntjigger]

Russian Roulette...just de matter of time n out goes da bullet! Better be good n marry ya gf..4get abt da married woman, u will be squeezed dry by her as she must be a hungry cougar judged by her age! Hahahahaha..

[Dittonos]

If you love your gf..why would you want to involve in another married woman? Unless you don't love your gf at all. If you marry her, eventually you will stray anyway..give her a break and lifeline for someone who will cherish her.. as I know Two of you will eventually Cross the line and break the thin line. I have been there, ended up screwing two women life..and both hates you forever.. you don't want those loves you to hate you..you want them to care and be there for you..

[voluptuousvenus]

Well it's but natural to like something we can't have.

Once it's yours, you will get tired of it too.