Getting a "sister" or BFF

[mrtbreakdown]

Most handsome and tall guys are able to get a pretty girl to makeout with them easily, given the "gullibility" of many youngsters in modern days...

The REAL Singapore challenge is...

Can you get a beauty to be your "Sister" or BFF ? The one who really gives you her HEART and CONVERSATION when you really need someone to confide in?

Most men just want to fuck. And fucking is cheap and can come and go easily. After many years, all men remember is just boobs, asses and vaginas and pretty faces... but do you know...?


'Good Women remember the Good Men who listen to them, to comfort them emotionally, to help them when they need help, to give them handmade gifts and to bring them to places and have good memories?'


The truth about life is the body is just a living corpse. When your candle is burnt-out, your "handsomeness" will just fade and be forgotten, unless you are able to make a good difference in the lives and life of a special lady who make the effort to be there for you.


And are you there for her?


If you believe in just sex and nothing else, then of course, your ultimate goal in life is purely just to feel "DICK SHIOK" and nothing else...

men who are above the average will know how to WIN over a girl's heart before taking the train to her tunnel.


And the destination is always what the men wants, not the journey...sadly



Good luck to all Singa Bros.

[justdifferent]

and the point of this post is?

you make it sound like women are a conquest, either for physical or emotional needs. they are not.

why would it be a challenge? does it matter whether you win the heart or the body of someone? if you view people and relationships as a challenge..

-are you able to get someone to sleep with you?
-can you make someone fall in love with you?
-are you able to get someone to be your bff?

that's a really sad life you're living there then. in this world where we already put on masks due to politics at work, with relatives whom you see once in a blue moon, with clients, etc., why would you not be genuine in your relationships and friendships?

[Taisho75]

Have u thought of it another way?

What are u trying to achieve with ur post? You want men to be bff with pretty women? The problem with this is can the woman treat the man as a brother/ bff only? There is a chance the other party might fall in love with u. It happened to me before.

I treated a lady nice and be her bff, be whatever u wrote here in bold. After some time, she asked me if I am got interest in her as she feels I too nice to her and she feels different when she with me. Anyway that time, I not interested in her at all.
Told her I only treat her as a very good friend and if she needs someone to talk to can get me anytime. After that time, I never see her again.

So it not as simple as u think. Things will go wrong any time unknowingly. There are girls who take advantage of guys who treat them well and men have to know where to draw the line between bff or being taken advantage of.

[bigangry]

i think you are in the wrong forum.

[clinton]

ts you live in 1915 not 2015

[LonelyVDay]

I guess you experienced too much MRT breakdown until you cannot think logically.

Men and women both need sex.
That is it!

[discordpiggy]

YAWNz!!!!

wah! the mrt logo is RED!

[Spikerman]

Originally Posted by LonelyVDay

I guess you experienced too much MRT breakdown until you cannot think logically.

Men and women both need sex.
That is it!

haha good point.

TS's point is asking people to enjoy the journey smell the roses enjoy the scenery and not just focus on the getting to destination ?

TS is from a man or lady's pov ?

[arcde23]

ya agree with some of the points OP posted, used to have an awesome FB but she married off to Aussie some years ago.

So hard to find someone that can click with u in your thoughts .

Um i am a bro and straight btw lol

[tshirt]

When I meet the girl like this clip, I can't control myself seeing her beauty.


All I want is to make love to her wor,...

[VoicesWithin]

Searching for answers. Found this thread.

Can a guy have a female bff?

Got to know this lady 2 years ago. We got along very well. We can chat for hours everyday. When we meet, we have lots of fun drinking and partying. When we quarrel, we fight like dogs. Then make up again. Somehow we connect. Spiritually and emotionally.

A year ago, we decided to be bff. Fortunately or fortunately, she is very hot. A looker 9/10 kind. Classy. A profession. The rare combination of brains and beauty. Go work, every few days got people beo her kind. She told me. Our mutual friends too think she is the most chio.

To be honest, when we bff each other she did look plain and auntish. We are not young. She is a mother. I befriended her bec our personalities click, not bec of her looks.

The thing is, both she and me are married with kids. Not to each other. My wife is aware of her presence and vice versa for her hubs. They have no issues with our friendship and outings.

She and me want to stay as bff. I like her as a friend and she likes me as a friend too. We share our thoughts and secrets on a daily basis.

But recently she started dolling herself up. And she started looking ravishing. When i go out with her, I put my hand to guide her waist. Then detected she was not wearing a bra. It stirred something inside me. I have to admit, I am starting to be attracted to her. The auntish bff I befriended suddenly became a sex siren.

Then it happened. On our last outing, we kissed each other. Frenched.

I am now lost and confused. It is very clear to both of us we do not want to have sex. I do not want to cheat on my wife. I want to keep her as a friend always. Same for her. But now, we have screwed it up by starting something we both dont want. Sigh.

What do I do now? Can a married guy have a female bff?

Advice anyone? Best if it comes from someone with a female bff. TIA

[sexcision]

Lol, friendzoned say friendzoned lah. Why come out with such long post to save ur face of being friendzoned.

[HardToStop]

I think this is very common. Given the ease of communication in this era.
I have a lot of bff. My friends all have bff. What's the problem again?

[ongkp]

Wow.... better don’t play with fire 🔥.

[cutecuteboy]

Upgrade to BFF(WB)?

I mean it’s consensual between two adults ain’t it?