How to get wife into the mood to have sex

DegenerationX · #1 11-12-2007, 03:05 PM

Bros, need advice on the above. A short intro of what is happening so that you guys have an idea. My wife is not working and recently, she has been addicted to mahjong. Everyday, she will go to her friends house to play mahjong after having dinner with me. And she will only come home at about 2am. She does this everyday, 7 days a week. When she reach home me always make advance to signal that i wanted to have sex. but she always pushes me away saying that she is veri tired after the mahjong session. We haven have sex for the past 3 weeks!

Any bros have solution to this?

Pearl · #2 11-12-2007, 03:10 PM

Cut her allowance bro. No money cant gamble lo.

Other than that, hard to reform a gambler.

secreta · #3 11-12-2007, 03:11 PM

wah, I can be her kaki and persuade her to do her wifely duties.
but u got a big problem my friend.

actually it is hard to find people available to play everyday!.

what would happen ultimately is that her group will not be able to sustain for a long time. things will be back to normal soon

aczeta76 · #4 11-12-2007, 03:22 PM

errhhh..

Sorry to throw spanner but you sure she went for mahjong and not some other ECA? Better keep an eye on wifey

bangbangben · #5 11-12-2007, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

errhhh..

Sorry to throw spanner but you sure she went for mahjong and not some other ECA? Better keep an eye on wifey

Sorry TS, but i share the same sentiments too... Better be safe then sorry...

well... another way out is to do the same to her instead... why not u join me for KTV everyday till 3am and reach home at 4plus... see what's her reaction then... :P

colins · #6 11-12-2007, 03:42 PM

I think before you try out negative motivations, have you tried talking to her with regards to this change in her and see what she says? I dun think its just an issue on sex leh, no feeling of closeness of cos no sex.
Long-term wise, its going to create a lot of relationship problem (tension) and even health problems so it may be good to consolidate your position now.

DegenerationX · #7 12-12-2007, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by aczeta76

errhhh..

Sorry to throw spanner but you sure she went for mahjong and not some other ECA? Better keep an eye on wifey

initially I thought like-wise too. But she was in a mutual friend's house playing mahjong. Ocasionally i would just drop by the place n watch them play. so I think she is not involved in other ECA.

superbia · #8 12-12-2007, 09:01 AM

Maybe you everyday go there and take turns lor .. 1 round each, see whether she frustrated or not ... or like bros say, go out late and come back later than her see what she says ..

humpcheepang · #9 12-12-2007, 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

initially I thought like-wise too. But she was in a mutual friend's house playing mahjong. Ocasionally i would just drop by the place n watch them play. so I think she is not involved in other ECA.

It is time for you to look for your own ECA outside

Jus kidding, I think you both have to sit down to talk or matter will turn worse. I believe you both do not have kids yet, so it's time to increase some family members.

Niceman · #10 12-12-2007, 12:13 PM

You dun ask b4 she about to sleep. Let her sleep, make sure u wake up in the middle of night.

While she deep in sleep, caress her, pull down her panty, and ruba ruba, get her into the mood and she all yours dude.

While deep in sleep, normally, she dun care or too tired to care about your doing. kekeke... normally works for me

DegenerationX · #11 12-12-2007, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Niceman

You dun ask b4 she about to sleep. Let her sleep, make sure u wake up in the middle of night.

While she deep in sleep, caress her, pull down her panty, and ruba ruba, get her into the mood and she all yours dude.

While deep in sleep, normally, she dun care or too tired to care about your doing. kekeke... normally works for me

Hmm......maybe should try this tonite

mwmf · #12 12-12-2007, 12:45 PM

But if like this she no service you leh ... may take a while to get wet for her or maybe not ... I think better solve the root of the problem, her gambling every night ...

that is really too much, maybe tell your in laws lor ..

ahpaul25 · #13 12-12-2007, 02:12 PM

Don bother her lor.....then u go find yr own entertainment, when she finally ask, look at her, say finally u notice me liao huh......thought u wish to gamble rest of yr whole life.....Show her who the BOSS now!

Marlb0r0 · #14 12-12-2007, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Bros, need advice on the above. A short intro of what is happening so that you guys have an idea. My wife is not working and recently, she has been addicted to mahjong. Everyday, she will go to her friends house to play mahjong after having dinner with me. And she will only come home at about 2am. She does this everyday, 7 days a week. When she reach home me always make advance to signal that i wanted to have sex. but she always pushes me away saying that she is veri tired after the mahjong session. We haven have sex for the past 3 weeks!

Any bros have solution to this?

a real tai tai leh

Castrol · #15 12-12-2007, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Bros, need advice on the above. A short intro of what is happening so that you guys have an idea. My wife is not working and recently, she has been addicted to mahjong. Everyday, she will go to her friends house to play mahjong after having dinner with me. And she will only come home at about 2am.

lidat i think you wont see her completely in february due to chinese new year mahjong marathon.