How do I initiate sexual topics with my online female friends?

[haikim999]

Qns as above... Recently have been chatting up with some ladies on tinder... How do I initiate sexual topics with them?

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by haikim999

Qns as above... Recently have been chatting up with some ladies on tinder... How do I initiate sexual topics with them?

Start with cracking some sexual content jokes and see how they response.

[haikim999]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Start with cracking some sexual content jokes and see how they response.

Any examples of sexual jokes? Can ask how big r their breasts?

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by haikim999

Qns as above... Recently have been chatting up with some ladies on tinder... How do I initiate sexual topics with them?

Hi, ai sio gan mai?

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by haikim999

Any examples of sexual jokes? Can ask how big r their breasts?

Aiyoh.. no wonder you are having problems.. cannot so direct one lah.

eg, when they express some unhappiness, jokingly ask why? you have sexual frustration issit? and see how they reply.

[larue]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Aiyoh.. no wonder you are having problems.. cannot so direct one lah.

eg, when they express some unhappiness, jokingly ask why? you have sexual frustration issit? and see how they reply.

Yah, the key is to be funny first, and build up to the point where they know you are interestedly in them sexually. Until the point where sio gan is understood to be a key pillar of the relationship.

No need to ask ai sio gan mai cos that’s freaking weird.

[haikim999]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Aiyoh.. no wonder you are having problems.. cannot so direct one lah.

eg, when they express some unhappiness, jokingly ask why? you have sexual frustration issit? and see how they reply.

I matched with this chio atb on tinder...

So was chatting with her just now...

Asked her abt her past relationships and whether she had sex b4, she said she's nt a virgin...

Also asked abt her sex drive, she said she's nt very much into sex n doesn't masturbate regularly..

Wonder hw to get her to send me her nudes and have sex call..

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by haikim999

I matched with this chio atb on tinder...

So was chatting with her just now...

Asked her abt her past relationships and whether she had sex b4, she said she's nt a virgin...

Also asked abt her sex drive, she said she's nt very much into sex n doesn't masturbate regularly..

Wonder hw to get her to send me her nudes and have sex call..

Haha . . good progress. but don't over push.

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by haikim999

I matched with this chio atb on tinder...

So was chatting with her just now...

Asked her abt her past relationships and whether she had sex b4, she said she's nt a virgin...

Also asked abt her sex drive, she said she's nt very much into sex n doesn't masturbate regularly..

Wonder hw to get her to send me her nudes and have sex call..

From my experience if you want to progress towards the real thing, keep the online sexual innuendo as playful as possible. You don't want to be seen as desperate. NEVER. Always keep it light and non-aggressive. Make them curious enough to actually want to meet you in person.

The goal is first to find out what encounters she would be open of having. Then bring your conversation outside of the dating app into other chat app.

If she doesn't seem to be keen. You better change target.

I have had a case where a girl agreed to move to other chat app. And the first thing she replied was tease photo of her crotch. 🙈
She initated it. BUT after sexting, the conversation never continued. It ended there. Probably she was just bored and trying to get off that evening.

On most cases with other women where things did develop into meetups leading to actual sex, my previous online conversation with them barely involved sexual talks. You want to use this early online connection to be as charming as possible. So much that the women would be comfortable enough with you to actually wanting to fuck you.

When I was younger, I made terrible mistakes in being too candid, and the woman backed off and told me that she is not THAT open.

Most women don't want to be perceived as sluts. They want to believe that everything 'just happened' naturally. It is our job as men, to dutifully provide those reasons. Be it the mood, the ambience, the experience.