2025 goal setting

[aristodemus690]

Let's not think with our little bros and instead take a break from scrolling the endless threads looking out for thirsty FRs until you cannot take it and make a booking yourself.

Instead, think about what your plans are this year - what is the angle you're going for? What's the most bang for your buck? What would allow you to look back in fondness when bro @HornyMan asks you for your report card at the end of the year?

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I'll go first.

Goal 1: Since I started only in Oct last year, I'm still open to trying new places out and getting a better understanding of what I like and don't like. So I'll put aside some money ready for landmines (and to continue writing more FRs to be shared freely).

Goal 2: Trying to unlock ML from CAT 1 spa to go further. Especially those that are known to be cold or dao. I find this to be more interesting than going for those that offer FJ straight up.

Happy to hear your goals, your thoughts, and chat about them.

[thatpoorguy]

My goal is to exert control using the big head over small head. To pay $30 - $50 max for HJ and not give in to ML crazy extortion. Also to ban all shops above $60/hr no matter how good the ML is.

Got one ML taunt me when I refuse to pay extra 30 to roam. Essentially $80 for HJ. Her exact words: 你就那么差那30块吗？I left without any add ons.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by thatpoorguy

My goal is to exert control using the big head over small head. To pay $30 - $50 max for HJ and not give in to ML crazy extortion. Also to ban all shops above $60/hr no matter how good the ML is.

Got one ML taunt me when I refuse to pay extra 30 to roam. Essentially $80 for HJ. Her exact words: 你就那么差那30块吗？I left without any add ons.

just tell her 30 bucks is hard to earn.

[justin69]

Originally Posted by thatpoorguy

My goal is to exert control using the big head over small head. To pay $30 - $50 max for HJ and not give in to ML crazy extortion. Also to ban all shops above $60/hr no matter how good the ML is.

Got one ML taunt me when I refuse to pay extra 30 to roam. Essentially $80 for HJ. Her exact words: 你就那么差那30块吗？I left without any add ons.

I experienced this at Jalan Besar, and what I did was to endure and made her HJ till black face.

[kennese2006]

haha, what was your worst landmine?

i'll start. had a bro introduce me an ML, said she's one of the prettiest. i took his word for it. i forgot immediately that bros here varies in age. alot. so the ML that bro intro was in her late 30s, with typical aunty body shape. cui max. she looks passable but really too aunty. the first time i ever rejected ML. i went back to double confirm with bro. bro said she's okay for a heartland mall look. but her physique really cannot lah.

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Let's not think with our little bros and instead take a break from scrolling the endless threads looking out for thirsty FRs until you cannot take it and make a booking yourself.

Instead, think about what your plans are this year - what is the angle you're going for? What's the most bang for your buck? What would allow you to look back in fondness when bro @HornyMan asks you for your report card at the end of the year?

---

I'll go first.

Goal 1: Since I started only in Oct last year, I'm still open to trying new places out and getting a better understanding of what I like and don't like. So I'll put aside some money ready for landmines (and to continue writing more FRs to be shared freely).

Goal 2: Trying to unlock ML from CAT 1 spa to go further. Especially those that are known to be cold or dao. I find this to be more interesting than going for those that offer FJ straight up.

Happy to hear your goals, your thoughts, and chat about them.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by kennese2006

haha, what was your worst landmine?

Bro... I'm fortunate to not have met aunty landmine yet. I don't know if I know how to walk away or not.

My biggest landmine this year was my most recent visit. I'm still recovering from it.

Eat 30 mins + expensive $100 HJ top roam / $150 HJ full roam. She's not much of a looker either. They were advertising here, but just taken down recently.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by thatpoorguy

My goal is to exert control using the big head over small head. To pay $30 - $50 max for HJ and not give in to ML crazy extortion. Also to ban all shops above $60/hr no matter how good the ML is.

Got one ML taunt me when I refuse to pay extra 30 to roam. Essentially $80 for HJ. Her exact words: 你就那么差那30块吗？I left without any add ons.

Bro well done. I think that'll help to narrow your scope a lot more.

For that lady, not you lack the money but use this phrase back at her bro. '你就那么差' not worth $30 extra.

Anyway its over hope your goals for 2025 allow you to find gems.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Bro... I'm fortunate to not have met aunty landmine yet. I don't know if I know how to walk away or not.

My biggest landmine this year was my most recent visit. I'm still recovering from it.

Eat 30 mins + expensive $100 HJ top roam / $150 HJ full roam. She's not much of a looker either. They were advertising here, but just taken down recently.

I walked away so many times until no need to think. Her face or body cmi just say you cannot accept. They will beg you and persuade you just don’t care. If you pay money and still can’t get someone decent looking to hj for you then you will feel like a damn failure.

[Bbtt332023]

Originally Posted by kennese2006

haha, what was your worst landmine?

i'll start. had a bro introduce me an ML, said she's one of the prettiest. i took his word for it. i forgot immediately that bros here varies in age. alot. so the ML that bro intro was in her late 30s, with typical aunty body shape. cui max. she looks passable but really too aunty. the first time i ever rejected ML. i went back to double confirm with bro. bro said she's okay for a heartland mall look. but her physique really cannot lah.

Real life bro or bro in this forum? This bro still going around recommending or not? Hahaha. Need to blacklist his recommendations d.

[Axel88]

I had 1 super regular ML that i used to visit twice a week or at a minimum of once a month for 3 years from 2017 - 2020.

She RTC'ed in 2020. She was the perfect package (to me) of service/looks/genuineness and we had really good chemistry. Till today she is the only ML i ever genuinely cared about (as a friend and no i am not one of those roberts that anyhow throw money at her).


I have spoken alot about her in this forum in other threads (her name is Amy ex-muzi spa).

Came close to replacing her in 2021 when Abby (ex-golden wellness) came back to SG but she too sadly disappeared shortly after.

Its been 5 years and still trying to find a replacement for her in my rotation list.

So in 2025 my search continues.

[jacky43]

Mine goal in Snake year. Spore welcome ang mo char bo. Many r willing to adapt into local culture. Actually, I do not think much of this red dot. No matters. Befriend 1 and for single local guys. Marry 1 and live in BTO flats.

[Mobile88]

My goal is to find ML like Coco from balestier (RTC already)
The one that came after Carrot.

Miss her much for that price for that level of looks.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

If you pay money and still can’t get someone decent looking to hj for you then you will feel like a damn failure.

HAHA WORDS TO LIVE BY. Yes I felt like a damn failure. Now looking to redeem myself. Kena chop until blur.

[aristodemus690]

Originally Posted by Axel88

I had 1 super regular ML that i used to visit twice a week or at a minimum of once a month for 3 years from 2017 - 2020.

Bro don't yall still keep in contact? Or people move on with their lives already?

[Axel88]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

Bro don't yall still keep in contact? Or people move on with their lives already?

Both the wechat accounts i have have not been updated in a long time so probably no longer in use also. Probably she also moved on already.

It was also my fault, kind of took her for granted also and never asked for her own personal wechat.