You’ve seen the girl too often when

[whatstuff]

Your reaction to her
-------------------
1) Your didi doesn’t respond as positively as it did when you first saw her (this is the ultimate truth detector for all men).
2) You treat the session with her like a therapy-session instead. You no longer make small-talk but engage and just enjoy venting-type talk, like telling her of your work day, boss, economy, etc.
3) Your mind starts to wonder when you are doing the deed like looking at the room décor, adjusting the air-conditioning (and not ‘cos you want to distract yourself from cumming too early so as to enjoy/last longer).
4) You prefer to cuddle and chat instead of leaving the room after you’ve cummed (This is subjective as some bros really like the GF feeling of cuddling and a smoke after, personally I don’t).
5) You are afraid that she would get angry or jealous if you visit her house and not call for her. So, you end up pathetic creature of GL. You prefer to go to other houses when you want to call for her housemates or call for other girls. You might even avoid going to her house altogether in case her housemates whom you’ve previously called for recognize you and she knows of it. So you end up calling her from other houses and ultimately, a GL wanderer as you have no homebase as such.
6) If you have the habit of calling her from her house, you would wonder if her OKT would get angry or jealous if the OKT knows you call her from other houses. (In my opinion, this is the ultimate benchmark, mate).


Her reaction to you
-------------------
1) Upon entering the room, she either kicks off her shoes in a tired fashion instead of placing it gently in a corner or heads straight for the bed and just flops there. That is, she’s her real-self and she doesn’t bother about making a good impression.
2) She talks too much, especially telling you of her customers, work-day, etc.
3) When her HP rings, she answers it instead of ignoring or turning it off, and even in the first place to begin with.
4) She gives you her HP number willingly without you even asking for it.
5) She wants you to be on top, giving the excuse too early that she is tired or that she prefers it that way.
6) She tells you what and how she likes it. (This might actually an excuse in disguise. Notwithstanding, this ‘excuse’ could instead be a turn-on for some bros).
7) She notices something amiss when you have ‘deliberately’ changed your preferences. (I like to keep a girl on-her-toes. I myself am trying to adopt this philosophy).


I try to maintain a rotating-schedule of which girl to visit next. This is because sometimes I might be unaware that I might be visiting the same girl too often at too-close intervals. I bet some bros have been surprised when their visited girls remember them even after a very long time.

[goodpartner]

I agree to most of your points. So how leh?

I often hear stories from WL that they get paid for a few hours no sex just to chit-chat (therapy, as you put it). Well, actually nothing wrong with that if that's what some bros need, but if becomes some sort of obligations and do it unwillingly, then got problem liao.

[Mankok]

I agree with TS.
I personally experienced these things.

[Cummon]

Originally Posted by whatstuff

5) You are afraid that she would get angry or jealous if you visit her house and not call for her. So, you end up pathetic creature of GL. You prefer to go to other houses when you want to call for her housemates or call for other girls. You might even avoid going to her house altogether in case her housemates whom you’ve previously called for recognize you and she knows of it. So you end up calling her from other houses and ultimately, a GL wanderer as you have no homebase as such.

You even choose houses with cubicles so that she won't spot you if she also happens to be there.

[whatstuff]

Herein lies the problem, as I see it. If you go to a psychiatrist and/or psychologist as opposed to a WL, the goal would be for you to be self-reliant and thus not visit again.

Wrt to visits to WLs, would they advise you not to come again? Maybe...I dunno... I think I understand why some bros go to WLs for 'therapy', maybe 'cos it's like non-judgement and non-medical (i.e. perceived as a mental illness) in a sense - esp in an Asian context like Sg. The problem with this is line of thinking happens when visiting WLs to seek 'treatment' becomes an addiction. Then ultimately, one has to seek true professional consultation from medical professionals. At the end of the day, I think that GL is an illusion.

On sidenote: Have you seen the film 'The Machinist'? - starring Christian Bale? He frequents the same WL as a form of 'therapy'.

Bro Harvest's advise 'How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her' under 'Matters of the Heart' - I feel is good advise.

[olympia2soon]

Hi Bro, I agree with most of your points. So err...we shld not patronise the same WL that frenquently??

[peanut123]

The way around this to treat it as a purely commercial transaction, like it really is. Trouble starts once you analyze it with an emotional view. Then the feeling of guilt starts to crop up, almost like she's a girlfriend. Don't do that.

Treat it as a pure transaction, like going to the hawker center. You may have a favorite stall, but you don't feel compelled to eat from the same stall everyday. You dun feel guilty because there's no emotion attached to having lunch, or to the sweaty hawker behind the wok. It's purely commercial.

It's the same principle.

[max_priest]

That's exactly the point. I regard it as nothing more than romance without commitment if I find the WL's company interesting ... If not, I would adopt the modus operandi - "Fuck & then Fuck Off!" I have yet to fall in love with any WL to date primarily because it ain't easy for me to fall in love to begin with.

I guess there are people who fall in love with WLs either because they are emotional charged or sentimental people. Or perhaps they're weak emotionally or deprive in true love outside the commercial sex arena ...

[wellmanbeing]

yo bros whatstuff & the rest bros

Good analysis on your beaviour if frequent a particular WL too often. Best is not to bring in your emotion inside and out of the room or you're spelling trouble in time to come. 99.99% WL who started selling their body in this business know very well and how to control their feeling toward any cheongster who bonk them. Every minute they spend with you is on purely money terms and it will be miracle if one has found that 0.01% of WL with truth love.

Cheers bros!
wellmanbeing

[zenlon]

Originally Posted by whatstuff

I bet some bros have been surprised when their visited girls remember them even after a very long time.

this is v true. i have visited a girl after not calling her for more than a year and she can still rem me and what i'm doing. i was shock to say the least!

[abisinia]

I guess I just arrived the ultimate benchmark today...
which is, the girl invited me to sit with her among the other girls and to share her dinner...
I must refrain myself from going there again I guess...at least for a while...
but, it was quite interesting to listen to the girls talking...

[xanatos]

Originally Posted by whatstuff

Your reaction to her
-------------------
1) Your didi doesn’t respond as positively as it did when you first saw her (this is the ultimate truth detector for all men).
2) You treat the session with her like a therapy-session instead. You no longer make small-talk but engage and just enjoy venting-type talk, like telling her of your work day, boss, economy, etc.
3) Your mind starts to wonder when you are doing the deed like looking at the room décor, adjusting the air-conditioning (and not ‘cos you want to distract yourself from cumming too early so as to enjoy/last longer).
4) You prefer to cuddle and chat instead of leaving the room after you’ve cummed (This is subjective as some bros really like the GF feeling of cuddling and a smoke after, personally I don’t).
5) You are afraid that she would get angry or jealous if you visit her house and not call for her. So, you end up pathetic creature of GL. You prefer to go to other houses when you want to call for her housemates or call for other girls. You might even avoid going to her house altogether in case her housemates whom you’ve previously called for recognize you and she knows of it. So you end up calling her from other houses and ultimately, a GL wanderer as you have no homebase as such.
6) If you have the habit of calling her from her house, you would wonder if her OKT would get angry or jealous if the OKT knows you call her from other houses. (In my opinion, this is the ultimate benchmark, mate).


Her reaction to you
-------------------
1) Upon entering the room, she either kicks off her shoes in a tired fashion instead of placing it gently in a corner or heads straight for the bed and just flops there. That is, she’s her real-self and she doesn’t bother about making a good impression.
2) She talks too much, especially telling you of her customers, work-day, etc.
3) When her HP rings, she answers it instead of ignoring or turning it off, and even in the first place to begin with.
4) She gives you her HP number willingly without you even asking for it.
5) She wants you to be on top, giving the excuse too early that she is tired or that she prefers it that way.
6) She tells you what and how she likes it. (This might actually an excuse in disguise. Notwithstanding, this ‘excuse’ could instead be a turn-on for some bros).
7) She notices something amiss when you have ‘deliberately’ changed your preferences. (I like to keep a girl on-her-toes. I myself am trying to adopt this philosophy).


I try to maintain a rotating-schedule of which girl to visit next. This is because sometimes I might be unaware that I might be visiting the same girl too often at too-close intervals. I bet some bros have been surprised when their visited girls remember them even after a very long time.

u know when you say her reaction towards me...

somehow i always kena these girls leh... i've never once had a girl who is nice and friendly. truthfully, i've never been rude to WLs. If they ain't comfortable with the stuff i ask, i just move along... and i always get treated like shit...

or maybe i'm just fat..

[zenlon]

Originally Posted by xanatos

somehow i always kena these girls leh... i've never once had a girl who is nice and friendly. truthfully, i've never been rude to WLs. If they ain't comfortable with the stuff i ask, i just move along... and i always get treated like shit...

bro now i'm curious, what stuff do you ask them that they not comfortable with? sounds like something very unusual for GL.

[thaivisitor]

I'm trying to figure out. Shouldn't this thread be in the Adult Discussion section? Or is it that these "reactions" only applies to legal geylang gals that's why the thread is here?

Tee Vee

[autoaim]

bro, for me just treat it as buy n sell.....if u want better interactions, grap a gf...otherwise its a wants and needs