Is she for REAL?

[yefeng]

My fellow sg brudders, i been chionging KTV for a no. of yrs also, so not tat green towards PRC KTV girls' techniques. But hear me out 1st as i need your collective wisdom to make a decision.

On my 1st trip to a budget KTV, i meet this SYT. We only chat as i was high and its her 1st week there. She cannot get used to the place n was talking abt it the whole nite. Being drunk, i end the night when the place close. The following nite, i went down as my pals r there. We sit n chat n drink again the whole nite. I was her 3rd customer. After tat i suggested she take care of me as i am drunk. She did. We went to h81. We fucked then i rushed to work. As i walk her home, realise she didn't even ask me for a single cent!!i didn;t tip her at the KTV, i didn;t offer to pay her for sex. She also didn;t ask. I promised her hp,a date on tues and sweet talk stuff at the h81. Then ended. 1 week pass, i sms her. She didn't have her own hp or line. So called her frend's line. Commented no $ in card liao, so i top up her sister line for he. $28 only. Then after tat following day call me let me know she woke up, going to work liao. Then ask me why tues i didn't date her out. I said i busy n forgot. Then at 4 am, call me say she off work going home liao. Still suspicious of PRC KTV gals ma, so i didn;t think too much of it.

Fri nite went down sit her again. Didn't sit much with me cos full hse. But still got come in n chat n drink with me. End up she dead drunk. Come in also close eye rest. I got tulan, next morning scold her say she after work get drunk no go super with me. All these via sms. Then sat nite frend with his gal who is the sister of my gal. Explain to me she dead drunk last nite n stuff. So forget it. Mon went to work, call me as she off work n gathering at the dorm with her fellow KTV gals in the dorm. Playfully ask me buy breakfast for her. As on my way to work, i did and send to her home below. She was so happy n touched. Then i super happy also. GFE super strong. I only bought mac set meals for her n frends. 5 sets. Next day good pal sms me say say waa...buy breakfast for gals leh..hehehe.

Then wed nite went down with same buddy as he meeting his gal. I ask frend to see if she the fuck around type for $$. Buddy comfirm no. Double check with her sis for me also same. Work, go dorm zzz type of gal. But got 1 younger guy always keep dating her n she always refuse. SO happy la...tat nite bought her a hp n line. Cheapo 7-11 lousy hp. Then send her home. Every1 happy. Fri nite sit her again, didn;t get drunk this time. Smart liao. Keep her promise, go eat supper with me n her 2 frends. No fuck again. So i just send her to her dorm. Was a bit pissed, so sms her wat a man needs and stuff. No reply. No calls. Then at nite call her again to arrange for date. No accept. Haizz...then went down on Wed nite, i didn;t wanna sit her so i didn't sit any gal. Her sis did come in to find my frend. But she also come in even though i never requested her to come in. At 1st play cool, she come in,i go out. Then her sister comment why like tat?? So nevermind. In the end still sit with me although i never tip her at all.

So continue sms and stuff, she say i weird temper. Sometimes hot, sometimes cold. I sms reply say she lousy lover cos i am a man. Need sex. And she everytime no free. So escalate..and quarrel. Play cold war. But still not sure she got zzzz ard bo despite my informanats say no. Then Went down on fri nite again, play cool, get another 2 new girls. She totally ignore me even though she saw me in the toilet. I also ignore her. Then nite ended. We didn;t even talk or speak to each other. Feel bad, so call her, ask her wanna eat supper bo. She said at dorm liao...so i tao bao some food for her. Went to her dorm below. She try on a skirt her frend bought and she like. with label attach somemore. Ask me nice or not. I said nice. Then we kiss. Wanted to hug, but push me away again saying still got her frends some coming home liao. As we are at the stairs, i push her to the wall n say sorri, Then fast french. Then ask me for $$!!! Ask for $20. I immediate turn off. Say i dun have. True as i only got $58 on me. She say dun believe. She only want the $20 for the skirt. I gave her wallet to see. Only 1 x $50 note. I gave her, she dun want. Only want $20. Slightly tipsy, i insisted n gave it to her. Then she said following mon she going to pick up work permit n after tat check up. Very fast 1 then we can finally go on a date as she always zzz then wake up at 5pm go work.

Mon come. Call me at 7am...say cannot zzz. scare needle. Then wanna ask me like dun dare to ask something abt the bloodtest that i had as i have fuck her and ask if i am okie...or something like tat cos cannot speak clearly. All i know is she scare needle n draw blood. Reassure her okie, no worry then sms a few more comforting sms. Happily waited until noon..then to evening....then to nite. CCB...no date no call from her. WTF! tulan i sms her. and mass bomb her hp from 12 noon to 5 pm. Then she called 2 times, i dun answer. Then sms me say i like crazy...msg she only say go out on date with me after her things settled and not when she wake up go on a date with me.

CB...damn tulan. Somemore end of month liao..so no more $ until payday to go down. Today whole day no sms from her or any call. usually weekdays she will call me to chat cos no customers from 6pm to 10 pm one. All these time, she did saying she not earning enough to pay her $600 agent+dorm fee. Only ask me help her pay ONCE only at start of r/s in a playful manner and did not mention it again. I keep asking her to take leave 1 day, but she keep saying not earning enough to pay her $600 fees so dun want to take leave. Haiz...i dunnoe is i kena KC liao or wat. So is she for real or not? How to be even more sure she dun zzz ard to earn $$$ type? AFter the last sms from her, i didn;t call her n she also didn;t call me the whole day today which is the 1st time for the past few weeks.

I really wanna determine if she got zzzz ard or not type and i am clear headed not to spend any $$$ on her. So any advice brudders? Until now she has never said i love u or she is my gf or lover or anything like tat. When i press her wat are we, she said wanna know me better 1st. Wa lao...damn confuse liao. WHat shall i do? I know i will go down again at payday but is to sit with the new girls tat arrived and definitely not her. Once i mention she treat me as a customer nia she got pissed out n keep suaning me that i said myself i am a customer at zhuhai nia. haha..EIther she damn pro at mind games or wat i dunnoe. SO lost now...she's from Kunming. So help bros...how long to play cool? or is it game over liao from the last date request sms?

[sammyboyfor]

Don't mess with whores. They're nothing but trouble. If you need sex, just fuck, pay, LEAVE.

[see see only]

Ok TS,

Chances are she is new in the trade and desperate enough to be KTV gals.

So for someone new in such trade, they need a or better say any boat that she feel ok with, to give her a sense of security in this new place. Anyone she thought that can protect her at this moment. (But they always ride on the cow and look for a horse constantly)

But once she manage to find another bigger boat, she wont even say goodbye to you, bro. Unless you started to pour your $$$$$ on her -- to challenge other "carrot"

Sincerely for a woman, especially SYT (still very immature) to go into this trade, she will KC any willing "carrots" regardless age until enough for her to "tahan" a long while at least, or else what make you think that woman join this trade.

So TS enjoy your free sex as long as you can ... remember your limit

[crazytiger]

I know I risk kena ZAP for asking this but I'm just curious. All these years I have been to KTV only once and that was a farewell treat for a colleague of mine many years back, so please pardon my ignorance.

After reading all the KC-ing stories here, I somehow wonder, what are the reasons for bros here to patronize those KTVs, to meet up with friends for a drink, a weekly kinda thing or it's a planned trip i.e do bros here go down to hoping to KC somebody. Having read so much on this, I only understand one point, there is a high price to pay and many times it looks likes the gals are all well prepared. Most of the times, the guys ended up being KCed big time and unable to climb out of the dark pit any sooner or not anymore.

Knowing the fact that these gals are here for quick money, love may or may not be in their priority, not in the top most at least. Why do some bros here still feel that they are for real, putting in there real feelings, ended up feeling that they have been KCed, worst, feeling that they are being cheated by the gals? Well, to be fair, there are real cases whereby bros here got married with the WLs, but how many such cases are we talking about here.

For TS case, for all cases maybe, I don't know, isn't patronizing KTVs just like any dinner appointment with some friends, the only difference is the absence of KTV gals. Like I mentioned above, it looks like a planned trip - TO INVOLVE IN A KC. Why do majority of the bros who patronized KTVs, got KCed and choose to play along and ended up being played.

I presumed they know that this is just a game, why do they still choose to plunge in deep into it? Sorry if my words are too blunt, but I'm just curious about the main objective(s) if any, behind these KC games. Free sex or lifetime partners or other reasons??????????

[alan0338]

BRO TS already get kced. he care about the gal and thats why he mass bomb sms the gal and so interested to know whether she sleep around or not? he is another bro hoping to be the special one again

TS, seriously, its like what bro see see only say, she is keeping a lookout for bigger fish while hanging on to you. let loose man, there are plenty of gals there, the traditional words from my old bird friends cheonging for years. no worries about getting no gals, only worry about getting no $$$

you are already kced by her and you know it, soon you will try to be a hero and accede to her request to pay her rent if you still carry on,cos if you dont pay, sure you will get much more worse treatment from her than now. good luck bro, hope you know how to U turn.

[NewMike1304k]

Isn't this a constant story? Guys go to KTV or HC to have fun. They meet with a girl who catches their attention. They then want to be the one and only guy for the girl. In order to get the "special" attention, they are then willing to spend their time and money on them. And so goes the merry go round.

No matter how alluring and how well a girl treats you, the chances of her trying to be your future wife and one and only is slim. She is here, in this line to make money and she will fly to the next bigger ATM. Even if the outing is a weekly one or pre-planned, just remember, you can have a regular girl to play with inside or outside. But once the night is finished and the fun is over, it is back to the real world. If she wants money, give her only what you can afford to lose. After all, she will be asking from many others. No matter how pitiful she is, there will be others who are willing to pity her.

These are the sad but hard facts of life. Give her something, ask something from her, do her and be done with her.

[Xorien]

Originally Posted by yefeng

My fellow sg brudders, i been chionging KTV for a no. of yrs also, so not tat green towards PRC KTV girls' techniques.

Had a hard time reading your thread, very cramped.

You say you are not green to their kc but it appears you only think that you are not green to their techniques. KTV is all pay and play, not pay and get troubled.

Put another way, you are a chiongster and have probably bedded quite a few gals. How many of them have told you you're the first or they very seldom go out on sessions ? That they go out with you cos of good feel ?

Bro, pull back.

[dominic7]

seriously, sammyboy is the last place to look for love advice

[owl888]

Bro, move on since your damage doesn't appear to be too much.

There's always a another flower for you to deflower within this big forest of flowers!

[newbieboy]

Originally Posted by yefeng

Somemore end of month liao..so no more $ until payday to go down.

she obviously struggling between $$ and KC, and usually, $$ wins.

one thing to note... i think if you are struggling to make ends meet at month-end, KTV isn't for you. once man got savings, woman will come. build up your warchest first.

[colins]

bro yefeng, is this the same girl who has given you the std?

[etct88]

Originally Posted by colins

bro yefeng, is this the same girl who has given you the std?

wow, you the doctor? hee hee....

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by yefeng

message removed by bigsexy.. DONT QUOTE THE WHOLE POST unnecessarily!

Bro, no need to write essay. You already know the answer. I repeat it to you, you need to stay away from her. She make you mentally unstable and next step is to clean you of your money. Is that what you wnat bro?

[Big Sexy]

you know it is a long message and you still quote the whole post????
DO NOT quote the whole post unnecessarily.

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

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Bro, no need to write essay. ?

[Triple-X]

she's playing the fishing game with u.u just got hooked!