Do you have a secret Girlfriend?

[icegirlfriend]

I think I am his secret girlfriend.

Do you keep any secret girlfriend?
How do you treat her?
Are you sincerely in love with her?

[waiwaiz]

u r juz another fool in love.......suggest u squeeze as much money as u can from him...haha.

Sorry no i got no secret gf.

[icegirlfriend]

Originally Posted by waiwaiz

u r juz another fool in love.......suggest u squeeze as much money as u can from him...haha.

Sorry no i got no secret gf.

Yeah. I think too much.

I should keep myself with more choices.

Nice one.

Thanks!!!

[feelmetonight]

Dear TS,

I used to be a secret girlfriend.

You must have some reasons to stay with him. Be it love or money.

He does not love you. If he does, he wont keep you secrectly.
You are wasting your time and life. And you are hurting other innocent people.

I wish you can leave him asap. Why don't you do this test yourself? If he really cares about you, he will find you back and be fair to you. Be it love or money.

But you probably wont leave him so soon. you will be tortured by his image, his sms, his phone calls and all the happy hours you used to have. You may say you dont mind. But really? Are you willing to sacrifice your youth and time to someone who cant even respect you?

What happened to me after leaving him?
I spent one week drinking. And I couldn't sleep well for the following 2 weeks. Then I went to thailand to learn Muay Thai. Haha. Then I met new guys. Then the cycle goes on.

Like my friends always say: 一切都是浮云.
Everything is nothing. All shit are bullshit.


Wish you all the best.
Cheers

[captainamerica]

Originally Posted by feelmetonight

Dear TS,

I used to be a secret girlfriend.

You must have some reasons to stay with him. Be it love or money.

He does not love you. If he does, he wont keep you secrectly.
You are wasting your time and life. And you are hurting other innocent people.

I wish you can leave him asap. Why don't you do this test yourself? If he really cares about you, he will find you back and be fair to you. Be it love or money.

But you probably wont leave him so soon. you will be tortured by his image, his sms, his phone calls and all the happy hours you used to have. You may say you dont mind. But really? Are you willing to sacrifice your youth and time to someone who cant even respect you?

What happened to me after leaving him?
I spent one week drinking. And I couldn't sleep well for the following 2 weeks. Then I went to thailand to learn Muay Thai. Haha. Then I met new guys. Then the cycle goes on.

Like my friends always say: 一切都是浮云.
Everything is nothing. All shit are bullshit.


Wish you all the best.
Cheers

y su cynicial?

hu knoe the fukture? he may leaf hiz ger ger phu you

[icegirlfriend]

He always try to find time for me and I never ask anything from him. I trust him.

Or I am just a fool.

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

I think I am his secret girlfriend.

Do you keep any secret girlfriend?
How do you treat her?
Are you sincerely in love with her?

y u still need to think to be his secret girl friend ??!!

still not confirm ha ?

[see see only]

Secret girlfriend ? & FB ..... hmmmmm is really a thin line in between neh, or sometime almost similar.

But somehow if we are involved in such an adult game ... basically there is no rules ... just "enjoyment"

Except for 1 rule which include the real r/s as well: happy ... you continue not happy you say bye bye


But i do agree love is usually involved

[waiwaiz]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

He always try to find time for me and I never ask anything from him. I trust him.

Or I am just a fool.

sorry being blunt in my 1st post calling u fool. Sound like hes a married man.........m i wrong? if not y must keep secret. Not sure how long u into this, u wont feel much now, but when come to day like xmas, valentine.....u will definitely feel the pain.......gd 6

[prccuntlover]

ditch him
he an animal trying to have the best of both worlds
have a wife and family life
have secret tryst with you..
you may not know he may have other so called secret girlfriends as well...

i hate two-timers cos myex always think of her previous 2-timer is great...must abe a damn joke ...two timers are asso...

having a steady gf wife and flinging is different from 2-timing...

[icegirlfriend]

According to him, he is single.

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

I think I am his secret girlfriend.

Originally Posted by feelmetonight

You must have some reasons to stay with him. Be it love or money.

He does not love you. If he does, he wont keep you secrectly.
You are wasting your time and life. And you are hurting other innocent people.

I wish you can leave him asap. Why don't you do this test yourself? If he really cares about you, he will find you back and be fair to you. Be it love or money.

But you probably wont leave him so soon. you will be tortured by his image, his sms, his phone calls and all the happy hours you used to have. You may say you dont mind. But really? Are you willing to sacrifice your youth and time to someone who cant even respect you?

He must be married or happily attached somewhere.

Feelmetonight said it rightly ... if he truly loves you, he won't keep you hidden.

I was a secret girlfriend before too.
I put him through the final 'test', he failed miserably abeit all his countless profession & 'demonstration' of love.

Be kind to yourself. Leave him.

Do you want to continue to be his best kept secret???

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

He always try to find time for me and I never ask anything from him. I trust him.

Or I am just a fool.

Love blinds hearts; renders logic useless and all advice void. If you trust him to the point of utter devotion, then what we say is redundant.

If you harbour doubts to the relationship to the extent of thinking that you are the secret girlfriend, then just quit the relationship. All his words and actions do not elicit total trust from you, which may just be your guts telling you to bail. Even if you can justify all his words and actions to be of satisfaction to you, the doubts you have now will still come back to haunt you, especially if you expect more from him. Rather than suffering in the long run, you might as well take a break from the relationship to cool your head.

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

Do you want to continue to be his best kept secret???

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

I think I am his secret girlfriend.

Everyone should be allowed to have their secrets. But icegirlfriend, I would advise being in the know than kept in the dark about secrets that concern you. Rather than think, act to verify your thoughts. Saves you a lot of guesswork and stress. Plus you can plan your next move better.

[hickeybites]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

He always try to find time for me and I never ask anything from him. I trust him.

Or I am just a fool.

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

According to him, he is single.

Something is off somewhere if u are feeling like a secret girlfriend or possibly feeling like a fool...
It's totally different if u know from the onset what u were getting into & both parties are mature about things & set the rules straight.
It's another if one party is led to believe certain things...

Instead of saying that you trust him, perhaps ask yourself - Is he worthy of your trust? Can u say for sure that he is trustworthy?
(I may be reading too much as your posts are rather short & not detailed -- and it's presumptuous to just jump in & fill in the blanks myself.)
However it seems that u feel that he's not "showing" u off openly as his gf?
Again, I'm proposing that u ask urself what U want... instead of just thinking of what he may be thinking/ whether he loves u etc etc... Not easy I understand. But try...

Everyone's terms & definitions are so different: FB vs FwB vs GF/BF vs Lover etc. But ultimately it's about YOU need & want ...

[waiwaiz]

Originally Posted by icegirlfriend

According to him, he is single.

then why secret affair? doubt u can answer also....... R u two are consider couple liao or u yourself think too much.

how long u being together? Juz started?