Have you guys ever experienced this????

[jjjho]

Hi,

Have any of the guys here ever experienced when you are trying to know or "hit on" a girl that you just met from somewhere...... and you are trying to know whether she is still single or not and ask all sort of questions to "test water".....?

From my own personal experience, some girls-in relationship ones, always refer to their bf as....... *Senior or friend* and never just tell it straight as their BF.... Errrrrmmm... are they trying to hint that they are still available for the taking or just that is how girls talk?


Cheers

[gustavo]

The way i see it bro, ladies are d same as us men, we always up for anything 'interesting' if u knoe what i mean. If shes fine wif the flow of things, jus go wif it bro.

[notti_boi]

whether they are attached or married, if they are also fishing like you, it makes no difference, unless you are looking for something long term.

[burningicez]

Y give up forest because of a tree?

[Daniels]

Depending on how well you know the girl. If only superficial acquantance, can't expect her to tell you bout her private life. If she really has a bf but denies it, maybe hinting or maybe just is a private person ?

[Glidiator]

Because they want to hide somethimg from you and to make them more interesting hehehe

[corin]

As a guy, it does feel good if you "know" someone likes you. The more the merrier, makes your ego boost up. Same goes for girls la... Like our bro says, the girls are just fishing just like you are...

But somehow i realize, back in the younger days, girls like courtship more... movie la, go arcade catch toy la.. spend time with each other doing nothing la.. all those bo liao stuff... Now at my age (not say i'm damn old or wat), the ladies prefer more straightforward approach. Dinner, communication, quality time cos everyone is working...

Not sure about your age group, i guess 20ish or sub20 even... I feel girls generally act differently in different age groups

2cents :P

-C

[Newborn]

i do feel shy whenever try to start a conversation with any girl that i interested...huhuhu..eventhough i do have sweet face..heheeheh...still shy

[see see only]

Ha ......... becos she do not know you well enough


As some guys will dump the girl immediately if they found that she is still single (especially those above 26yo, worse for those above 30yo)

......... Single (& at the so-called marriage age) = chances to be tied down & get messy no no for some guys and me as well ..... wahahaaha


But TS,

The best is not ask at all, enjoy the moment with that chic, i guess they call it "happy 就 好" then see how lor .......

[jjjho]

Yup thanks for all the replies BROS ^^