Threesome/Swings

dzack33 · #1 10-02-2012, 10:47 AM

Hi dear readers, I am having a delima of wanting me and my wife for any of the activities but unsure how to make my wife join in... Seek advise how to make her submit to my idea/s... thanks.

regak · #2 10-02-2012, 10:58 AM

Bro - net time u sex with her propose a role play, to make more exciting. Tell her she pretend to be a girl in a bar and u r a random guy. Play seriously, come up to her ask her if she goes here often, then small talk whatever lag. After a while ask her if she has a hubby, which of course she say yes coz she has u. Then you ask if she is getting enough sex from him or if she is in bar bcoz she's horny. Then she say she is horny, and you say (you are a random guy remember) that u can fuck her in the bathroom of the Bar. The you go to your bath room and u do like if it would be out in a bar, don't undress her just unto so u can stick use cock in her pussy. Fuck her and cum like one of these random quick fuck u kno.

That is first step start her fantasy - then play more and more at some point u introduce that maybe she wants to go to massage guy opt massage girl depending use pref and how u wanna play wit wifey. Of course massage turns sexy and still u pretend like u r the massage guy who don't know her and eventually fuck her coz she is horny.

Nxt time u do regular sex, just propose to her that u bring in a massage girl or guy depending on what u look for. then u get it rolling

dzack33 · #3 10-02-2012, 11:03 AM

thanks Bro regak...will take note

CuriousCouple · #4 10-02-2012, 12:11 PM

Well bro I'm not the advise-giving type. But here's something the wife and me learnt. It takes time..... especially if its your wife and not a gf/fb. That difference is a game changer.

Whatever you choose to do, take it at a pace that suits HER (since you are obviously ready by even posting here). Use the experience to open up to one another about sexual fantasies. Not just yours but hers as well. You might wanna experience same room, touching first before heading full - but to each his own.

It's only when you're really secure in your relationship should you try this with your wife. Work and talk things out constantly.... Or not depending on how you deal with things.

Also meeting up with other couples, as a couple, who're into it would help if they can talk about the lifestyle.

If not.... You're better off with an FB.

Just my 2-4cents worth.

Sir CuriousCouple