The Dichotomy of Guys and Gals preception in SG

[Haudreay]

Dear Bros and Sis of this forum,

WALL OF TEXT!

There something to get of my chest, hoping that Bros and Sis here agreed with me. Mainly the bros. Sis not so much. Everybody has the rights to their own opinions, that is why there is this divide, there is this differences, there is this dichotomy.

But, honestly opinions-wise from the bottom of the heart everybody is looking for people to agree with them, Frankly who in the blue hell would like to work in a company, live in a family, go out with friends who disagrees every single of your opinions???

I am typing this after bonking an FL, and we exchanged conversation and information in between. She was telling me that in PRC, boys are treated more precious, gal are not so pamper like the SG sys. Hence, I do feel that they are more liberal in that sense. They are drilled to their head that sex is part and parcel of their relationship. That is very diff in SG.

In SG educational sys and media, expectation is sex after marriage. Even when it is not in some cases, the expectation is that guys need to have the financial and to treat them like a god ness (AKA golden cheespie)before a guys daily necessity is being satisfied. Hence a guy needs to look a certain way, went to a certain school, have a certain career so that they are in a better position to get a daily necessity satisfies in life. So golden cheespie uses sex to try to get hitch, and after being hitch, buy a property and be indebted for the next 30 years. Most guys of this forum does not want this route and try to get out of this system, that is why we look for FL and such, and these people agrees with me.

We also discussed abt sex drive of man and woman, and shortly that is the time I went for the second bonk. Well, she was telling me that out of a hundred woman only 1 or 2 have super high sex drive, one they matches with men. Men have to stimulate a woman like kissing and other intimacy to get them going. Women are not like us getting turn on but looks instantly.

How lucky do you have to be to find a wife with the sex drive that can match you??
But PRC gf or wife, would satisfy their bfs/ husband needs without using it as a bargaining condition for something else. I know she is speaking up a world for PRCs gals, but I belive that is some truth in that. Yes many SG guys KC by PRC into splurging on them, but that is b coz you treat them like a golden cheespie like what a SG gal expect of you, hence they see the opportunity.

Flipping the coin the other way, after saying all this I am not taking anything away from having a regular family and all the merits of having a faithful relationship, having children raise them to become respectable human (son or daughter). And I know of the dangers of fooling around in this time of my life, and the more I do it the worse future in would have in my old age. I understand reaping/sowing cause/effect karma yes, I do understand these things.

And turning the argument the other way, would I like my daughter to grow up to be a FL? preferably not. But do feel that like a loser dad if my daughter sleeps around with her friends? Neither do I, as long as she is happy with her life.

But the current society are being engineered by our political forefathers as such that they promote the gold cheesepie mentality. Hence, the point I am trying to make is that due to golden cheesepie mentality, and the average needs of an male, <this dichotomy>, commercial sex is here to stay man. SBF is alive. Fl price is going to rise up due to rising demand.

The dichotomy is where SG gals demands and SG guys demands are not matchable.

An afterthought for readers,
If an average SG guy, can find an accommodative SG gals (accommodative to his needs) and not so demanding of qualities that do not mattered. Would he still eat out ? Probably he would, for a few times but not a habitual thing for him.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by Haudreay

Dear Bros and Sis of this forum,

WALL OF TEXT!

There something to get of my chest, hoping that Bros and Sis here agreed with me. Mainly the bros. Sis not so much. Everybody has the rights to their own opinions, that is why there is this divide, there is this differences, there is this dichotomy.

But, honestly opinions-wise from the bottom of the heart everybody is looking for people to agree with them, Frankly who in the blue hell would like to work in a company, live in a family, go out with friends who disagrees every single of your opinions???

I am typing this after bonking an FL, and we exchanged conversation and information in between. She was telling me that in PRC, boys are treated more precious, gal are not so pamper like the SG sys. Hence, I do feel that they are more liberal in that sense. They are drilled to their head that sex is part and parcel of their relationship. That is very diff in SG.

In SG educational sys and media, expectation is sex after marriage. Even when it is not in some cases, the expectation is that guys need to have the financial and to treat them like a god ness (AKA golden cheespie)before a guys daily necessity is being satisfied. Hence a guy needs to look a certain way, went to a certain school, have a certain career so that they are in a better position to get a daily necessity satisfies in life. So golden cheespie uses sex to try to get hitch, and after being hitch, buy a property and be indebted for the next 30 years. Most guys of this forum does not want this route and try to get out of this system, that is why we look for FL and such, and these people agrees with me.

We also discussed abt sex drive of man and woman, and shortly that is the time I went for the second bonk. Well, she was telling me that out of a hundred woman only 1 or 2 have super high sex drive, one they matches with men. Men have to stimulate a woman like kissing and other intimacy to get them going. Women are not like us getting turn on but looks instantly.

How lucky do you have to be to find a wife with the sex drive that can match you??
But PRC gf or wife, would satisfy their bfs/ husband needs without using it as a bargaining condition for something else. I know she is speaking up a world for PRCs gals, but I belive that is some truth in that. Yes many SG guys KC by PRC into splurging on them, but that is b coz you treat them like a golden cheespie like what a SG gal expect of you, hence they see the opportunity.

Flipping the coin the other way, after saying all this I am not taking anything away from having a regular family and all the merits of having a faithful relationship, having children raise them to become respectable human (son or daughter). And I know of the dangers of fooling around in this time of my life, and the more I do it the worse future in would have in my old age. I understand reaping/sowing cause/effect karma yes, I do understand these things.

And turning the argument the other way, would I like my daughter to grow up to be a FL? preferably not. But do feel that like a loser dad if my daughter sleeps around with her friends? Neither do I, as long as she is happy with her life.

But the current society are being engineered by our political forefathers as such that they promote the gold cheesepie mentality. Hence, the point I am trying to make is that due to golden cheesepie mentality, and the average needs of an male, <this dichotomy>, commercial sex is here to stay man. SBF is alive. Fl price is going to rise up due to rising demand.

The dichotomy is where SG gals demands and SG guys demands are not matchable.

An afterthought for readers,
If an average SG guy, can find an accommodative SG gals (accommodative to his needs) and not so demanding of qualities that do not mattered. Would he still eat out ? Probably he would, for a few times but not a habitual thing for him.

Good opinion piece.