help needed!!

[phoenix17]

my husband and I are in early 30s, we've been married for couple of years and I realised that we our sex life are unhealthy. I couldn't find sex enjoyable with him and I could felt tat he had the same feeling like I do. Is there anything i could do to help our sex life getting better.. anyone could suggest?

[Lamepigass]

Maybe its because you have low sex drive. Or you are not physically attracted to your husband anymore. The solution depends on what the problem is.

[Sfan]

Originally Posted by phoenix17

my husband and I are in early 30s, we've been married for couple of years and I realised that we our sex life are unhealthy. I couldn't find sex enjoyable with him and I could felt tat he had the same feeling like I do. Is there anything i could do to help our sex life getting better.. anyone could suggest?

I recommend you talk heart to heart with him, ask him what's wrong

[Ascot]

Let me spend sometime being intimate with you to find out wheres the problem coming from n then take it from there. PM me ur wechat.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Sfan

I recommend you talk heart to heart with him, ask him what's wrong

Agree, is there something that's missing? Or both are too stress out at work? There is more to life than work. Perhaps, it is time to go for a holiday to rediscover yourselves. There need to be a balance. Or are you both living with other family members at home who may be dividing both your time n attention?

Do settle this quickly by having a talk about both of you before things get worse

[icecream2015]

change the pattern on how you do sex with him.

get the kinky side of both of you to come out.

[conquer]

Originally Posted by icecream2015

change the pattern on how you do sex with him.

get the kinky side of both of you to come out.

Why change pattern when you can change partner?

[conquer]

Originally Posted by phoenix17

I couldn't find sex enjoyable with him and I could felt tat he had the same feeling like I do.

The problem is could you find sex enjoyable with other men? or just him?

[icecream2015]

Originally Posted by conquer

Why change pattern when you can change partner?

cos change partner may get disease if you are not careful

[ibanezjem555]

Many toys online & costumes at taobao and aliexpress.
Spice it up !

[letmetellyou]

eating the same dish for several years confirm will get bored.

you can try go overseas to relax and come out different style of presenting the same dish.

[Iwanboomboom]

Originally Posted by phoenix17

my husband and I are in early 30s, we've been married for couple of years and I realised that we our sex life are unhealthy. I couldn't find sex enjoyable with him and I could felt tat he had the same feeling like I do. Is there anything i could do to help our sex life getting better.. anyone could suggest?

You didn't really give enough information for us to help. Did you enjoy sex before? What changed? What is the reason you or him don't enjoy it anymore?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by phoenix17

my husband and I are in early 30s, we've been married for couple of years and I realised that we our sex life are unhealthy. I couldn't find sex enjoyable with him and I could felt tat he had the same feeling like I do. Is there anything i could do to help our sex life getting better.. anyone could suggest?

It has just got boring fucking the same guy the same way year in year out.

Time to expand your circle of sexual partners. There are numerous swinging groups that you can join.

[fuckwaynelim]

ts take the following:

1. honestly talking to your partner, discuss the issue openly
2. wear sexy dress when facing your partner
3. learn new skills, change your sex position and using sex toys
4. consulting with marriage experts
5. engage 3rd parties for sex acts like mmf or mff
6. full swing outside together with your partner
7. look for sexpleasure yourself and bye marriage

[phoenix17]

Originally Posted by Lamepigass

Maybe its because you have low sex drive. Or you are not physically attracted to your husband anymore. The solution depends on what the problem is.

I've nv rejected whenever he wants, instead he is the one who reject me when I want.. as times goes by, it's kinda sick of asking him or tease him for sex