Asking for colleague's panty as memento

[heatingup]

Dear experienced bros, kindly advise.

I am interested in a charming MILF colleague of mine. We go out for dinner or shopping twice a month.

However, she maintains a wall between us. We didn't hold hands as I don’t dare to initiate nor do anything. She doesn't even want to tell me her bra and cup size when I asked her. We just talk about work, colleagues, kids and future plans.

She is “working hard” with her husband to have another child and thus more so beyond my didi’s reach.

(Background info from http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=74213. Sorry to those who have read the previous thread.)

I am thinking of buying her a panty on our next shopping trip and getting her to remove the one she is wearing for me to keep as a memento. Hehehe. Kinky right? Nonetheless doing it or simply saying it could risk our friendship (or whatever-ship) and all the time, money and attention I have invested in her thus far.

Did anyone of you have similar thought or experience to share so that I can get her panty without damaging positive feelings among us? Or should I just damp the kinky panty thought and focus on the person and continue to “invest” in her, knowing that I am likely to get nothing in return?

I look forwarding to reading all positive contributions especially those who have similar thought and experience as I do.

Many thanks in advance.

Originally Posted by heatingup

Dear experienced bros, kindly advise.

I am interested in a charming MILF colleague of mine. We go out for dinner or shopping twice a month.

However, she maintains a wall between us. We didn't hold hands as I don’t dare to initiate nor do anything. She doesn't even want to tell me her bra and cup size when I asked her. We just talk about work, colleagues, kids and future plans.

She is “working hard” with her husband to have another child and thus more so beyond my didi’s reach.

(Background info from http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=74213. Sorry to those who have read the previous thread.)

I am thinking of buying her a panty on our next shopping trip and getting her to remove the one she is wearing for me to keep as a memento. Hehehe. Kinky right? Nonetheless doing it or simply saying it could risk our friendship (or whatever-ship) and all the time, money and attention I have invested in her thus far.

Did anyone of you have similar thought or experience to share so that I can get her panty without damaging positive feelings among us? Or should I just damp the kinky panty thought and focus on the person and continue to “invest” in her, knowing that I am likely to get nothing in return?

I look forwarding to reading all positive contributions especially those who have similar thought and experience as I do.

Many thanks in advance.

Twice a month shopping or dinner means something's cooking liao, just wake for it to cooked. If liddat you can continue pursuing and definitely bring up the panty thingy since you already ask about cup size liao, if she show angry face, you laugh it off say its a joke lor.

But on the other hand, it seems no problem with her and her hubby, maybe you should just back down on exploring any further porgress in the relationship, unless you are sure you want to be long term with her ...

[Falcon Warrior]

It's a high risk move asking for her panties. If you really want to test the waters try it out in the form of a tease. However, if you are not the sort that teases her alot, best not to try it.

[lacoruna69]

Is she comfortable about you asking her intimate details like her bra or panty size? She might not answer your question but it's safe as long as she's not angry.
Maybe for a start, you asked her whether want to visit those lingerie shops on your next shopping trip with her. La Senza is quite good.
Just bring her in lor. See her response and carry on from there.
Dun bring up the exchange panty idea as this is quite dangerous at this stage.

[humpcheepang]

Originally Posted by heatingup

......However, she maintains a wall between us. We didn't hold hands as I don’t dare to initiate nor do anything. She doesn't even want to tell me her bra and cup size when I asked her. We just talk about work, colleagues, kids and future plans......She is “working hard” with her husband to have another child and thus more so beyond my didi’s reach...
....Many thanks in advance.

First, try to have some body contact, maybe like touching or holding her hands, before you think of this "panty" kinky idea.

On the other hand, she is still happily married and is trying to have another baby. Bro, please drop your idea of ruining someone's else marriage. She is merely treating you like a Hong Yan Zhi Ji and someone close to confide with. Just treat her with respect and like a close friend.

[Kuroi]

Straight away ask its abit of awkward ba?

Guess dude gonna do step by step to avoid the slightest failure that we don't wanna hear

[Cum_Luver]

u will get a straight NO unless both of u hv something on b4...

[some_]

no way unless she want to continue playing games with you

[glamourist]

are you crazy? beyond your didi's reach?
& you want ask for her panty as momento.
it's time for you to do a behaviorism & mental make-up check.

[Cum Getter]

go for it bro... a married women wont be goin out wit u if she's not lookin for something... its a gd excuse not to use condom cause if she get pregant u can claim its her hub one n wash hand

Go to her house and steal lor

[heatingup]

I wish to hear more comments from readers before I post an update.
Thanks to those who had posted their comments.

[SGFT]

Bro,

i would suggest you not try the panty thing first. If she is really looking for something more, don't think she will be telling you about her and the hubby trying for another kid. Don't be a home wrecker.

I had an experience like that before and it is not worth the risk because it can screw up your working relationship if it goes sore.

Only try it if you have other signals to confirm that she treats you more than just friends, because i don't think your lady friends will freely give you their panties just like that either.

Just my 2 cents worth.

[covenn]

gdness....cant believe u r crackin ur head becoz of a pair of panties....

[Red-Card]

Have you done a self evaluation on your chances of moving a step further with her? The fact that she's still working hard with her hubby makes me felt uncomfortable with the situation you are in.