Chiong fatigue

[peeboy75]

Sorry if this is the wrong platform for discussion. Have been a chionger for 23 years, starting from age 25. Have chionger all the domes plus legal scene and MLs. Recently just feel that the excitement of chionging no longer there.. Feels just going through the motion. Plus the quality of chiong scenes also seem to be going down.. Any serious chionger also feel the same way? I'm a more Conservative chionger, which means that raw/ AJ etc more heavy stuff is out for me to give more excitement... Seems like chiong fatigue has set in... Anyone feel the same way?

[KVX10]

Similar effect I am feeling. No more excitement. Not really looking forward to it when friends jio also.
I have been going to ktv nightclubs and ML for about 18 yrs already. Feeling quite bored of it.
The scene as TS mentioned is nothing to shout about for me anymore.

[loneyheart]

Not even interested when reading a good FR nowadays

[Holeliness]

People get burnt out from work but you guys get burnt out from chionging

[skids]

Originally Posted by peeboy75

Sorry if this is the wrong platform for discussion. Have been a chionger for 23 years, starting from age 25. Have chionger all the domes plus legal scene and MLs. Recently just feel that the excitement of chionging no longer there.. Feels just going through the motion. Plus the quality of chiong scenes also seem to be going down.. Any serious chionger also feel the same way? I'm a more Conservative chionger, which means that raw/ AJ etc more heavy stuff is out for me to give more excitement... Seems like chiong fatigue has set in... Anyone feel the same way?

Nowadays the feeling is so tired, waste of money and can’t get satisfaction, compared to 20 odd years ago, from HC to GL whore house then night club and bars, today’s process is so mechanical, some a few moves only she said she came, last time the Malaysian’s say I came too fast, now the PRC / viets says I took hell of a time to come, some after a few rtfs ask me not to come anymore, hahaha , therefore I am quitting soon

[Sfan]

I know how that feels. It’s actually not just cheong fatigue. It’s often physiological as well. I believe as you grow older your body produces less testosterone so you naturally feel less horny. You may also not be physically up to it too.

As you get older the actual sex becomes less important.

For me it’s more of looking at ladies nude and maybe intimate touch only

[789550]

Yes. I have the same hollow feeling after all these years.

Need to rekindle the newbie's excitement again......

[ejectjoy]

Originally Posted by Sfan

I know how that feels. It’s actually not just cheong fatigue. It’s often physiological as well. I believe as you grow older your body produces less testosterone so you naturally feel less horny. You may also not be physically up to it too.

As you get older the actual sex becomes less important.

For me it’s more of looking at ladies nude and maybe intimate touch only

The testosterone level indeed may go down. Hence the frequency of sex may be reduced. A few years ago, I could have three or four times a week. Presently, two (or max three) times will satisfy. Keeping yourself fit and healthy is also key to a satisfying sex life.

The sex intensity and passion level are probably maintained as I seek out Massage Ladies who selectively offer fj. These ladies are adequately pretty, sexy and horny. When they develop a strong chemistry with me and we mutually understand our trigger points, the sex intimacy and passion reach a very high level. I have three such MLs in rotation. The experiences are wonderful thus far, even as I aged.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by skids

Nowadays the feeling is so tired, waste of money and can’t get satisfaction, compared to 20 odd years ago, from HC to GL whore house then night club and bars, today’s process is so mechanical, some a few moves only she said she came, last time the Malaysian’s say I came too fast, now the PRC / viets says I took hell of a time to come, some after a few rtfs ask me not to come anymore, hahaha , therefore I am quitting soon

I think the key point is attitude of the other party, whether is gf / fb / wl.

Having been a cheongster for more than 20 years, I had my fair share of women, whether they're ex-gf (even ex-wife), ONS, WLs, KTV gals, fish-tank, Amsterdam RLD boutique shops, China / SEA street-side FLs, etc.

Those that try to hurry me up, saying I took longer than their other normal customers, made me "lose focus", took more time to cum, hahaha. While those who put in a little efforts in sai-nai / coordinating, I may cum faster than being rushed, hahaha, and of course, the GFE feeling & service is definitely more enjoyable, no question about it!

Therefore, I think the service quality in the cheonging scene has dropped! The issue is not with the men! By the way, I quit sg 20 years go, majority of my sexual experience is outside of sg, therefore, I'm sorta out of touch with the cheonging scene in sg...

[whitebull]

Maybe male menopause, it involves a drop in testosterone production in men who are age 50 or older.
It’s often affiliated with hypogonadism.
Both conditions involve lowered testosterone levels and similar symptoms.
If you’re a man, testosterone is a hormone produced in your testes.
It does more than fuel your sex drive.

[sgjoey]

Tongkat Ali supplements, taken over a few months may help. There is some research that says that this substance actually does raise testosterone levels over time.

[Meta2021]

I still very keen leh.

[DeusExMachina]

TS have to understand this is natural progression of one's journey in sexual realm. Our mind, body & soul need to function as one to achieve the best of our abilities. As time pass, all this tends to diminish in return you start to feel less positive about yourself.

[TaureanBoy]

Originally Posted by Sfan

I know how that feels. It’s actually not just cheong fatigue. It’s often physiological as well. I believe as you grow older your body produces less testosterone so you naturally feel less horny. You may also not be physically up to it too.

As you get older the actual sex becomes less important.

For me it’s more of looking at ladies nude and maybe intimate touch only

Agreed, looking at ladies nude and they're touching themselves is exciting too!

[AUDIFANSG]

Drop in testosterone level is probably one of the major cause. I have been researching TRT( testtosterone replacement therapy) and will prob do it when i reach mid 40s.