Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

[McWoof0]

Bro suboy..

Can intro ur 1st GF to me.. hehe

[suboy]

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After 3 serious relationships, decided to just have fun. Met a local gal I got to know from chatline. She lied that she works as an admin asst but is a KTV hostess. Took her out partying and some of my friends who frequent KTVs recognise her. She loves scratching my back all over when we bonk and after each bonk session, my back will be full of scratch marks for days. Then she started her BDSM stuff. Started piercing my nipples with her nails and making me scream in pain and slappingh me. She told me she is a sadist. One day she told me she wants to tie me up for her to slap, pierce my nipples and drip candle wax onto me. Since I want to keep my BDSM desires a secret I didn't go for it cos she knows some of my friends. She would call me every few days after her work at the KTV in a very high state(on party drugs) to pick her up for supper or partying and then to the hotel to bonk. I couldn't take it anymore so dumped her.

I started going ouit with one of her party friends who is a Burmese and works as a nursery teacher here. Still not getting my BDSM fix, I taught her how to tie and gag me up. All she would do was to tickle and lick me. We did it a few times when we realise she wasn't into this. Trouble was she wanted a commited relationship so I had to ditch her too.

All the other GFs and partners were totally BDSM no-go so these were the only BDSM experiences I ever had and not much at that......

[suboy]

Sorry noob question, how does the points/power thing work here?

[ZtoAZ]

Originally Posted by McWoof0

Bro suboy..

Can intro ur 1st GF to me.. hehe

second you, but i want the second one .. hehe

[submarine]

Originally Posted by PeterCetera

Bro Submarine,

Perhaps you may share more information about the scene in the Phillipines, if you are so inclined.

I've never been there, but am surely interested.

Where is the best places to go in your opinion. Manilla? Angeles City?, Cebu?, Makati? etc.

Also, is the general atmosphere like Pattaya (relaxed party atmosphere)?

I hear safety is a concern there as well.

Please share what you can if you have the time.

It will be my pleasure to share. However, it will be certainly out of topic in this thread.

Basically, the places I favour in the Philippines are Makati and Baguio.

Baguio is a nice holiday destination up in the highlands, very cool and relaxing. At the same time, Session Road (its main shopping and nightlife stretch) can be wild and happening. Not in a femdom sense of course (doubt anyone over in Baguio knows about femdom) but you can go crazy bar hopping and bar-fining there. One thing that makes Baguio stand out is the vast number of Korean establishments there. Reason being many Koreans used to go to Baguio to learn English (and probably remains the situation now). Yes surprising, but I was amazed myself seeing the number of Korean videokes and eateries (videoke is what the Filipinos call karaoke). Of course, I am sure there are the odd few Koreans working there but the main attraction would be the local girls, who are usually very friendly and chatty, with most of them coming from the nearby villages.

I remembered a few friends and me having the time of our lives in one of the videoke bars, spending less than USD50 each for approximately 7 hours of singing and touching. I did not bar-fine anyone but a few of my friends did, and it was a blast considering the prices that they paid. In fact, it is not uncommon for a big group of people (e.g. 15-20 'tourists') booking the entire bar and having fun with about 30 girls for the whole night for USD800 thereabouts. That's like 1.5-2 girls for every hot blooded male. These girls typically earn only about SGD 20 a night. Give them a 500 pesos tip (around SGD 15) and see how well they pamper and treat you. Yes Baguio is a really good place to go, and safety is not a major concern since Session Road is full of people and foreigners alike.

Makati is a city within Manila itself. It is probably the most prosperous place in the entire country where the rich and famous go to be seen and to see. Prices here are not worth it, especially when compared to Baguio. However, it is still very affordable if you come from a country like SG. Many expats are based in Makati, and safety is never compromised. You see security guards at almost every road junction and major building entrance. I would say go to Makati for a chill, and then slowly make your way down to Baguio, or even Angeles City (never tried this place before but heard good things about it).
Most Philippine escorts in SG or other countries probably had some experience in the Makati scene before venturing abroad. And the girls I talked to (working girls and escorts) said openly that they came to Makati to work as it was the place where the money was (at least in the Philippines). Yes, it's very easy to talk to the girls there. No airs about them and sincere. Of course, all of us have to remember that sweet talkers are normally good liars as well, but for the fun of it, who cares, especially when we are just out for a good time in the Philippines, another land of smiles...

[submarine]

Originally Posted by jonah11

Bro, for some reasons which I really don't know, I can't upz your points. I will try to do it again.

Anyway, I realized this mistress ke-er is somebody that I had tried 1 year ago. Yes, she has some experience. She got her assets and looks that can make her a tease queen.

Thanks for your effort. No problem at all.

Wonder where is Bro Robertchua? He needs to update the chart lol

[suboy]

Originally Posted by ZtoAZ

second you, but i want the second one .. hehe

Sorry bros. It was so long ago, lost their contacts liao. We weren't on good terms when we broke up, how to intro even if I still got their contacts?

If you are into heavy BDSM, its just not possible in a real relationship. Light sensual teasing yes but heavy stuffs like hard caning/whipping/slapping, CBT, urine in the mouth, golden shower, anal plugs, strap-ons, cuckolding, etc are simply out of the question, haha.

[suboy]

Originally Posted by jonah11

Bro, your pm mail box is full.

Sorry, my mailbox only had capacity for 10 pms at first and I couldn't clear them in time. Now its been increased to 260+ so perhaps you can resend your pm.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by submarine

Thanks for your effort. No problem at all.

Wonder where is Bro Robertchua? He needs to update the chart lol

Bro submarine, I am around. Actually, anyone can update the list.

[robertchua]

Originally Posted by suboy

Hi, came across this thread a few days ago and it was like hitting a gold mine! I love BDSM, particularly femdom but all my life I kept it to myself. Just like all bros here, we want to keep it secret for the same reasons.

I am not interested in vanilla sex with hookers/KTV/HC gals so I don't engage them and I didn't know some provide BDSM. I didn't have the guts to ask for it either. All those bros here who asked and influenced these gals to provide BDSM, you guys are great and I really mean it!

The only Dominitrix I know of is a friend of my GF who works in a spa/HC. Her name is Eve. Was told she provide her service in the massage room but now due to frequent AV raids, she stopped doing it there. She does it in hotels now. She also sells her used undies online. She is not a true Dom because she provide FJ too. One thing that surprised me is that she secretly checked out some of the guys that bought her undies just to see how they looked like. Seems she has a fetish for having her worn undies worshipped to the extent that she even wanted to see who they are. My GF happened to chance upon an occasion when Eve was preparing for BDSM session. These girls openly talk about things they do with clients and the more juicy it is the more they love talking about it. Since BDSM is not a common thing, they get very excited and curious. This is my GF's account:
Eve came into the staff room to prepare for the session. Her slave was already tied up in the massage room. His hands were tied together and strung above his head with the ropes tied to the ceiling post used for back-stepping. His legs were also tied together and he was gagged with tape. She changed into black bra, panties, camisole and boots in the staff room and was going through the different sizes of cane and whips to be used. She chose the longest cane. She asked the girls if they want to take a peek. The doors are wood but there is a small glass window. She will hang a towel over it but will leave a small gap for the girls to peep, one at a time. I was already rock hard listening to her account but the thought of having female spectators made it even harder. Something like Jap Femdom videos where a group of girls will take turns torturing their slave while the rest will laugh and cheer at the slave's suffering. Then she left to start the session. A few girls stood outside, relishing the chance to take a peek. When Eve started caning her slave's ass, it was startling as she did it with full force and the sound of the cane was quite loud. One of the ladies cluelessly asked," What did the guy do wrong to make Eve so angry as to whack him like that?". Everybody laughed at her and somebody told her that he is having the most pleasurable moments of his life. The clueless lady then said "lidat shiok meh?". back to mthe action. The slave moaned at every stroke while gagged. She caned him continuosly, stroke after stroke with all her force. She will stop to walk in front of him, letting him see her in her sexy outfit while scolding him and then she will go behind him to continue caning. Then Eve stopped and called the lady at reception counter informing her to ask any of the girls if they would like to "da" meaning beat in Chinese for $50. Some of the girls were reluctant but one of them, a slim, petite, girl in her 30s took up the offer, thinking "da" meant HJ. She went in and soon realised the truth and proceeded caning anyway. She didn't use her full strength so Eve taught her how to cane with her full strength and she really whacked him with all her might. After countless strokes, Eve told her to stop and she left. Thereafter the glass window was fully covered and nobody knows what happened after that. After it was over, the blood stained cane was brought to the staff room where all the girls had a look at. One girl asked Eve how she brought herself to punish her slave so mercilessly. She said that she will think about all the things that stressed her and take it all out on him as a form of stress relief.

Being a newbie here, I don't have a FR to write about and sorry I dont have any CTC to share but I hope my account from the other side, from the point of view of the Dominitrix and the HC girls make an interesting read.

I really wish to try Eve out but its impossible for me. Sigh!
Sad to say my only BDSM experience were the mild and sensual types which I had with some of my past GFs and female friends. From my experiences with women, I realise there is a dominant and sadistic streak hidden in most of them, its only a matter of how mild or extreme and how much they dare to show. Trouble is, in normal relationships, too much risk involved so nobody, is willing or have the courage to use this hidden potential. Due to that, most people like me, always thought that BDSM will only remain a fantasy. Seeing so many bros here having their fantasies fullfilled is really an eye opener and I hope that I can do the same too.

Bro suboy, thanks for your sharing. I have upped your points when you first posted this.

This means we have 27 dominatrix (including 3 overseas dominatrix) and 5 TS:

(A) From www.collarme.com, we have a total of 12 dominatrix comprising of:
1. Mistress Minky aka Minky ($400/2hrs) - from Little Quaint Dungeon
2. Mistress Francesca aka MissFrancesca85 aka Rachel from Rachel stables ($200/hr) - from Little Quaint Dungeon
3. Miss Fiona aka NoirRascal ($400/2hrs) - from Little Quaint Dungeon
4. Miss Cruela aka mizzcruela ($250/2-3hrs)
5. Mistress Shannon Ohio aka MistressOfMind ($500/2hrs)
6. Mistress Kimmee aka Kimmee ($250/2hrs with subsequent hr at $100)
7. Mistress Maxim aka Amazingasia ($200-$250/2hrs)
8. Miss Len aka divinemercy ($400/2hrs)
9. Miss Bitchevon aka bitchevon (not a pro-domme so ask at your own risk)
10. Miss Unice aka Unice
11 Mistress Sophie L aka mistresssophieL ($150/hr)
12.SM Queen Ke Er aka queenKeer ($100/hr) - leaving in April 2011 though so be quick to catch her!

(B) For FL in SBF, we have 2 currently:
1. Mistress Sin Cee Cee ($200/90min - promo price)
2. Mistress Wu Ze Tian ($150/hr)

(C) For other FL, we have 3 currently:
1. Mistress Lara ($500/hr) - An Australian model based in Bali
2. Mistress Xiao Yu ($600/3hrs)
3. Mistress Xiao Yu's friend, Mistress Lina - aspiring dominatrix that may need some guidance for now

(D) From HC, we have a total of 4:
1. Sophie from ? HC
2. Pearly from Youth HC
3. Jess from Youth HC
4. Eve from ? HC

(E) From GL, we have a total of 3:
1. Cindy, L28H37 (GL150)
2. Yingzhi, L18H05 (GL150)
3. G88, WH08 ($50) - previously a showgirl at Bangkok's Soi Cowboy

(F) For TS, we have a total of 5:
1. Mistress Carmella ($400 per session) - from Philippines
2. Mistress Destynee - from Little Quaint Dungeon
3. Mistress Catrina Lee - from Little Quaint Dungeon
4. Mistress Daphne ($400/2hrs) - from Thailand
5. Mistress cqueen (FOC) - Please read this thread to know "her" better
http://sammythe.guru/showthread.php?t=113380

(G) From overseas, we have 3 dominatrix coming to Singapore:
1. Mistress Suniya (Thailand) - 18th to 25th April 2011 ($200/hr)
2. Thaidomina's Mistress Nurie and Mistress Jasmine - Postponed?

(H) In Singapore, we have 1 Prison Roleplay event by Little Quaint Dungeon happening on 6th May 2011 at $200 per person

[suboy]

Originally Posted by robertchua

Bro suboy, thanks for your sharing. I have upped your points when you first posted this.

Thanks robertchua!

I am impressed with the way you seek out what you want. You really bring out the true meaning of the phrase "Go for it!"
I have always toyed with the idea of asking for BDSM from working girls but never dared to. Now I will if I get the chance

[robertchua]

Bro suboy, life is unpredictably short. Who knows what tomorrow will bring? Dun forget that it is only we who hold the key to our own BDSM happiness. So ask away, nothing much to lose but everything to gain.

I am looking forward to Mistress Suniya's thigh high boots next week.

[Nara]

For what's worth...retribution;

Had a session arranged with mizcruella this ultra rainy day. asked her whether place need 2 ICs. She said no need. me believer. listen to her instruction. was told to go to a eunos area tri**81hotel. Went. arrived on time. was told no per hourly. only full day.
cruella didn't believe need 2 ics NOWsadays. was told to try nearby 81.

Nevermind, cruella suggests she cut tribute but i book full day. i counter suggest i pay her usual 250 tribute. she book room. Then she say she never bring IC out one.

prefer not to show ic is one thing but never bring IC is super hong gan if kenna spot check. limpeh no choice. no chance to get really wet. but still wet wet return home.

see, i woke up. dats why robert's suggestion is quite good...especially on rainy days. at least the club he intro got proper dungeon to hide intofuck me!!!

[robertchua]

Bro Nara, sorry to hear about your wasted trip today. It is still raining even as I am typing this now. How come all the rooms are fully booked? I do know a few places in GL that requires no ICs. Not sure if either yourself or your dominatrix are keen though as they are very run-down.

Perhaps it is best to remind our dominatrix to bring their ICs just in case in future?

[Nara]

thanks robert.
i mean to say ms cruella told me she makes it her principle in life
NEVER TO BRING IC.

And cheap hotels she makes it clear on her website never to go and from my open minded experiences from Ms Ke-er. maybe cheap hotels really better dont go

its alrighti may not always have luck but will keep trying and sharing. as always.

trying to engage subjava on collarme. she's a paid slave. her responses damn slow.

You have fun!!!!