Advice pls...

[hi2u]

I think this is very personal.
First of all, you got to find out the reason why, what is the reason behind her fucking another guy. Got to keep reminding self to think logically. Yes she is wrong for fucking another guy behind your back, but the reason behind, could be due to yourself.

[acidicavex]

Sorry to hear your situation if she would have consider making the guy wear protection. Maybe I will forgive her at least she is still responsible to me. As for the rest of the kinky things they do. If I choose to forgive that mean in future I also have the right to do all those to her more to be exact.

No Hard feeling and no offence to any sis reading. Since she let him fuck her raw plus all those stuff that could only mean seeking your forgiveness is just to pacify you. Cause to me she already have no regard for the marriage she can risk and jeopardize and risk contracting disease and spreading it to u by letting the other guy fuck her raw and every other things. I guess she have no more respect for the vow u both make. Frankly I don't even want to know what went wrong btw me and her. She let him fuck her raw who know how clean is the guy. And if a gal let another guy other than her husband of bf fuck her raw and willing to let a guy do kinky stuff with her in public My best bet is she is already putting in emotional involvement with the guy.


End of it your call bro u are facing her everyday we are just reader. Good luck in whatever action u take.

[wells]

haiz..sad to say there will be no trust left. how to carry on if there is trust issue?

[Yiupo]

Thank bro here for all the advice..

It is that the things that she done still remain fresh in my mind. Esp during when we have sex. Everything they do will just come up.

Funny thing is. Before this happen, i used to think of hotwifing.. Mmf, eip etc. And i get super turn on by it. But now it happen she fuck another guy behind my back. It is diff to take it.

Just cant accept the thing she do to other is the same she do to me, and the mental part which she fell for another guy...,, but now all is fine i think so..

[saintmouse]

bro, regardless which directions you take, its going to be tough on you.

just a suggestion for thought... have a open chat with her and understand what she plans to do next since she already confess to you.

it will be a long road to recovery... look ahead once you made the decision to let go & move on. even you muster courage to continue life with her...look ahead too...no point humping on the past events

look after yourself

[chokdee1987]

I've heard countless stories of friends getting cheated on by their gfs. It's always the same - I'm so sorry. I want to come back to you. You're the best guy I've ever met. Tears and more tears.

The fact that she slept with another guy on more than 1 occasion shows that there is either a problem with 1) the relationship OR 2) the cheating spouse's character.

From what I've heard, cheating is hardly a one-off occurrence. That was why I ended my relationship with a really heavy heart. Once the trust is lost, it will never be back again. Not saying that you shouldn't try to make it right but if it's not working, never avoid the step of separation for whatever reasons. Both parties would be, unfortunately, happier that way.

All the best bro.

[rhlks]

Agree with littlepok, especially about the medical for the Both of you...