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asdfghjkl · #16 02-03-2005, 12:47 AM

listening to advices is important right now..

notti_boi · #17 02-03-2005, 12:52 AM

think u should speak to the women... let her decide who she wants... then u will have to spend the time trying to ask the other guy to give her up.

Phucker · #18 02-03-2005, 01:09 AM

frankly speaking, the gal is either undecided or she wants the army guy, or else she wouldn't do this kinda shit in the 1st place.
my advice to your fren is fuck care abt the cha bor, even if she comes crying back to him, get rid of her lah. never trust a woman who betrays u.
might sound stern, but if she can do it once, there's no guarantee that there won't be a 2nd time. he deserves better.

asdfghjkl · #19 02-03-2005, 01:15 AM

phucker had said the right thing.. never trust her if she had betrayed once already.. who knows when is her second time..

WWEF · #20 02-03-2005, 01:24 AM

No one exactly is at fault here.....if die die have to find fault then i think YOU and the girl is at fault.
U should have known if the girl is the "zao sai" type......why still intro guys to her? Especially that your friend, her BF, is below average, as u said.
Most ironic of all, u actually intro a "i like to sian other ppl's GF" type of friend to a "zao sai" girl.
What a combo hit u have gave to your poor, close friend.

That kind of girl, sooner or later will "zao sai" one what.....
But die die the 3rd party is u intro 1....actually u damn suay....

Not say give u advice, cos if me kanna also blur like u....But this is wat i will do....
Divert his anger to the girl, instead of the 3rd party....
Tell him she is not worth it.
Say sorry to him, 4 intro such a friend of yours....
tell him sooner or later this will happen anyway....
Of course, all of the above is extra, if u can still intro a better GF to him...

Take care bro, i have got a bad feeling that once he has finished with the both of them, he might have a go at u. No kidding......at least that's what i think...Be pepared to face his anger after he is done with them.

Finally bro, like in SB forum, give contacts also must test water a bit 1st wat....Or else contact give to wrong ppl like AV how....Somemore in real life sia.....be careful who u intro to yr friends next time....
Hope u learn from your lesson.

WWEF · #21 02-03-2005, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Phucker

but if she can do it once, there's no guarantee that there won't be a 2nd time. he deserves better.

I think it should be " if she can do it once, then guarantee there will be a 2nd or 3rd or blah blah times." Hehe

casannova03 · #22 02-03-2005, 02:02 AM

If the gal really wants to go with ur army friend, then ask you other blood brother if this is the type of gal he wants for a GF or even a wife?? No matter how pretty she is or how good ur blood bro may think she is, there are a lot of better ones out there ...its just that he din have the chance to meet the one yet. Advice ur blood bro that its no use crying over spilled milk and tell him that he have to let the other two F....Rs see that he can carry on with his life without the gal....and of coure if the gal can do it to ur blood bro, he can do it to the arm friend too...so ask him to get on with life and meet more ppl!!

Hope this helps.....

Castrol · #23 02-03-2005, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by rahl

Two, its unfair to make judgement on anyone involved unless you know the case deeply. Things like relationship, where feelings are concerned, are very hard to rationalise like black and white.

It sounds to me like the army friend and gal are just getting together and developing something. Is the main concern now to inform shadowlunar and ask for his opinion?

You might ask, why didnt the gal tell the bf about her new relationship. Wont she not know about his past and his bad temper?

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hell no judgement from me, just condemning the army friend whom threadstarter may have trusted.

doesnt matter whatever feelings or relationship. whatever love connection they may be developing is not something i give a shit about.

i'm talking about the betrayal.

why didnt she tell the bf about her new relationship?
you mean like this; "hey, i am having a relationship with the new guy who went out with us before, do you mind? at least he is OUR friend....."

the only thing i agree with you is, we do not know the case "deeply".
what is written, is what i read, is what i respond/reply to.

cheers!

l3atu · #24 02-03-2005, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

If the 3rd party isn't your army friend, there will be someone else!! It seem that their relationship is not that strong.

Tell your friend that even if she don't leave him for another guy now, it will be a matter of time that she will leave him for another person. As long as she is not married to him, she still have her right to choose who she wants to be with!

This, I agree with you.

Thread starter, tell ur 'bloodbrother' the fault lies with the gal having an itchy CB....wanna hammer ? Hammer the gal.

rahl · #25 02-03-2005, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Castrol

i'm talking about the betrayal.

Well, I dont think its a betrayal. One gal finds another guy she likes better...betrayal?

In any case, no harm done bro. Just my opinion anyways. Cheers.

Castrol · #26 02-03-2005, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by rahl

Well, I dont think its a betrayal. One gal finds another guy she likes better...betrayal?

In any case, no harm done bro. Just my opinion anyways. Cheers.

i understand, bro. just different schools of thoughts.

to me, there are billions of bushes and boobs around, dont have to touch a friend's girl, even if she asks for it.