Advice needed! Married woman interested in me.

[Johnbass]

Wu Yiah Boh?
Why I don't have this kind of kangtao?
TGIF loh!
I also want to bring a married woman to movie later...
Got simi nice movie to watch now?

[smking]

First of all, why do you agree to go out with her? Really treating her as a friend or do you also have the thoughts of banging her?

She say as a friend, you both cannot do "it" why not the upgrade from friend to become friend's with benefit

[MrHengHeng888]

confirm la, SEX is always on our mind. It's normal, we are men. BUT u better be careful. DON'T be a f**king asshole that can break up her family...
u take care.

[Doldrums]

My advice to you is to just be yourself and do what you feel you want to do.

If you're the flirty type, you can say

"wah lau don't be so horny leh, i know im too attractive".

Or be very obvious and tell her how you really feel

"i know you like me but i don't want to break up your family" end with smiley face.

still proceed to meet up with her, date her normally and see how she reacts.

I would leave it to happen naturally, if she still gian you, why deny yourself? If she has guilty conscience and stops contact or cold shoulder then its still good, u didn't do a single thing to break up anyone.

Seriously... i think you don't need to ask us what to do, just go with the flow and be yourself.

[badboynani17]

Originally Posted by simmy

Hi All,

Hope can get some good advice here.

Went out with a married woman for chatting and movie. Just treated her as a friend. After that, she texted me to say she likes me and that as friends, we cannot do "it" and asked me how? I think she is hinting something.

I am single and older than her. She has a son in primary school. She looks kind of shy but sexy.

So I am confused now. Should I continue this with her? It will be considered an affair. Will I have bad karma? If proceed, how should I advise her on the rules of the game?

I do not want to do anything to hurt her marriage. But since she wanted to go out with me, it means she is somehow disillusioned with her marriage right?

Thanks!

Brudder, ask yourself what do you want from her? A true friendship or friendship with benefits? If the latter, then be prepared to face consequences of being a homewrecker. Are you married too? If not, you may be married in the future and do you want the same thing to happen to you too? Think about it.

I once rejected a girl friend who wanted to have sex with me. She was pretty and nice, but I treasure the friendship more than anything else. I never regretted rejecting her cos she remains my friend till today.

If you haven't do anything with her, I salute you for restraining yourself. Keep it that way. All the best!

[jj_jj]

TS,

She already is "open" to any moves from you.
I guess you are not ready for such stuff if you "care" about her marriage.

Have a great Fri everybody

[i32D]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Wu Yiah Boh?
Why I don't have this kind of kangtao?
TGIF loh!
I also want to bring a married woman to movie later...
Got simi nice movie to watch now?

How about watching SL bang your wife...
Free somemore...
TGIF loh!

[MattJB]

My advice, meet her husband, be friend with him.
Who knows its his fetish to let some other guy to fuck his wife.
If negative, move on.

Like that shd be no bad karma la..

[joncheong]

don't wait already, married women are experienced and know how to enjoy themselves, meaning it is a mutually benefit thingy where either of you don't need to spend time initiating positions etc...once clothes off, it's action start!

[SeanTeoh]

Originally Posted by SupremeMaster

You must asked yourself what you want to do with her?

True better set guidelines

[fisherst]

Ask yourself if your wife acts the same way towards another men, what would u do?
Then weigh the consequences n make a decision.

[Evil33]

Originally Posted by joncheong

don't wait already, married women are experienced and know how to enjoy themselves, meaning it is a mutually benefit thingy where either of you don't need to spend time initiating positions etc...once clothes off, it's action start!

Not only that they don't have any expectations from a relationship . They also want to be descrete and have fun.

[TheGreatOne]

Aiyoyo you all...

Brudder only need a platform to brag he is wanted by pretty milf, like that also want to disturb, tsk tsk...

If you are genuinely concerned and care for her marital status, i suggest you go ask the best person - her husband, swee?

[FritoLay]

Originally Posted by MattJB

My advice, meet her husband, be friend with him.
Who knows its his fetish to let some other guy to fuck his wife.
If negative, move on.

Like that shd be no bad karma la..

Good idea

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by badboynani17

Brudder, ask yourself what do you want from her? A true friendship or friendship with benefits? If the latter, then be prepared to face consequences of being a homewrecker. Are you married too? If not, you may be married in the future and do you want the same thing to happen to you too? Think about it.

I once rejected a girl friend who wanted to have sex with me. She was pretty and nice, but I treasure the friendship more than anything else. I never regretted rejecting her cos she remains my friend till today.

If you haven't do anything with her, I salute you for restraining yourself. Keep it that way. All the best!

Yeah, agree, what goes around comes around. U view this married woman as someone who u can communicate with like friend or juz attracted by her look & gd figure, she is juz a "tasty juicy meat" to u, do it but must able to face d consequence be it's gd or bad, can handle it well.

Some can only be friend, soul mate, some can only be fwb, fb