Marrying A Thai ger

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by norice

This is an excellent forum, I'm learning alot! What is your opinion regarding my proposal? Would Thai girls accept my proposal or do they want permanent committment?

well bud u can learn from forums. u can listen to what ur friend tell u about stories. pple like us will share our experience but when comes to the real things u will face it and had to deal with it not know what is coming to u.

well there decent girls who do not wanna engage or marry just long term relationship for how long god knows. soo hard to answer ur question. 2nd going after decent girls is like going after a girl u like. makes no diff at all.

unless u talking about working girl to them. if u willing to feed them they more then willing to be with u. again god know how long will they be with u. if u know what i mean. there is good working girls who really dying to be married if they are very serious with u.

Originally Posted by norice

I've heard so many horror stories when foreigner tried to breakup their relationship with a Thai girl.Does Thai girls accept long engagement?

well yes especally farang. pls go download the virgin trade in one of the thread about thai movies.

some links for u.

FRT - Farang Rak Thai
Phen Chaloemphol Noy Chaloemphol Bangkok Thailand Prostitute you need to beware of



think i have answer ur question on long term engagement.

Originally Posted by norice

I did extensive research in budgeting for fooling around in Bangkok, If I have a llived-in female companion, her usual going rate for monthly salary will be approximately 20,000 to 30,000 per month. As a butterfly, I will be spending approximately 40,000 to 50,000 per month, which consist of going to soapys, gogos, gel/lotion massage, FLs, and karaokes. I have several friends in Bangkok and Pattaya that pays 20,000 to 30,000 per month to their lived-in girlfriends. But their girlfriends were fomer gogo dancers! My longterm girlfriend will be 110% nonworking girls!

well feeding a ex working girl may not need to be very costly. provided she really love u. we men are an asshole we wanna give them the best and show them we have money.

to be frank a family living expense are very low is about 4k baht. u can basically feed 4 to 5 mouth in the family for 1 mth.

of course that only put food on the table if they have more they will buy motor, make bigger house.

there is alot of things to said about living in a villiage. anyway to me 10k baht a mth is more then enough. as for non working girls no comment this u have to find out more on urself since when u are there then u able to know u can do it or not.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Waseh~

This is the most useful pictures in this forum other than nude pics of chiobu.

Really good for you to show us how it look.

But have to say the translate piece really like like an ordinary A4 paper.

If bring the cert back in sg can ROM again to get a proper sg cert?

Hmm..Bro... remember to buy 4D ok? The photo alot of number, i think this weekend one of them might tio beipio!

Proper sg cert i duno leh, as for the numbers, yes i bought the week i came back. haha jump number consecatively for 1 week!

didnt kanna but well, i tried :P

[theUnforgotten]

IMHO , If u arleady registered in thailand , You dont need to go ROM again to get singapore cert. You may only required to get a certified translated copy.

For ICA purpose, the cert in Thailand and certified translated copy are acceptable.

Btw if u (touch wood) happen to get seperated and divorced, If u have thai cert u can seperate under thai laws, With Singapore ROM cert u be subject to women's charter provisons.

[norice]

Norikasan,

Your right once again! Theres no way that I'm going to settle down with a former working girl because they already have a taste for money and fast life. If I decide to settle down, I definitely will settle down with an educated, conservative and humble Thai girl, if I can find one! I'm Korean and I feel that Asians have definite advantage over Caucasians in marrying a nonworking Thai girl due to our color, culture and demeanor! I'm not prejudice over Caucasians but based on my experience, Thai girls are more keen on marrying Asians over Caucasians. Therefore, in Bangkok, majority of my Caucasian friends are married to former bar girls! I don't stand out in Bangkok because I'm Asian, but if Caucasion walks with a Thai girl, lots of Thais will stare and ridicule at the girl because they think she is a prostitute!

I said before, I have insomnia and I have hard time sleeping. So I'm very familiar with sleeping pills and I want to answer some of your questions. In Bangkok, you can't buy sleeping pills from legitimate Pharacys due to police interaction and FDA law! You must visit hospital or clinics for Dr's prescription. I believe before 2002 or 2003, you can legally purchase sleeping pills from Pharmacys in Bangkok. Strongest sleeping pills you can purchase in Bangkok is Dormicom. I would recommend you trying Halcion sleeping pills. Three years ago, I had lasik surgery at Rutin Eye Hospital in Bangkok and I had hard time requesting Dormicom sleeping tablets from my eye surgeon. She wanted to see my passport, before prescribing Dormicom! Currently, my favorite sleeping pill is Ambien CR.

[norice]

Pussyman,

Well I'm not a rich man but I have money aside to assist my longterm girlfriend monthly if she really need. I don't mind giving her 20,000B per month. I hope to find a fulltime working girl (nonbar) and I want to supplement her income because we all know Thai pay scale is very low. I would say, over 90% of my married friends in Bangkok still gives wifes' families 10,000 - 30,000B a month.

[dom01]

Thanks for the info, brudders... Very informative.

[norice]

Norikasan,

I believe the Doctors in Bangkok charges 600 - 900 for an office visit!

Color of skin doesn't matter to me, I want my mate to be attractive, slim, nice legs and not flat chested.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by norice

Norikasan,

Your right once again! Theres no way that I'm going to settle down with a former working girl because they already have a taste for money and fast life. If I decide to settle down, I definitely will settle down with an educated, conservative and humble Thai girl, if I can find one! .

not all ex working girl are like what you think. at least not the one I know. know this girl for a couple of years and finally went with her to her home town to meet her family. I have read many horror stories here that when u go dinner with them, they will kutok u jialat jialat, esp if they had been a working girl before and they will also ask many people to join in (including her "pii chai"). Their brothers and sisters and mom and dad will also ask you for money and gifts. Luckily for me no such horror stories. Her family is a decent lot, brothers and sister also very nice and respectful. She did gathered many people to have dinner, like about 10, including sister's bf family, wtf... and as a guest, i thought they are supposed to treat me but made me pay instead. Luckily only like 1500B ....so cheap....met another girl (decent, educated uni girl) in BKK, her mom gave her $$ ask her to treat me dinner.... guess this is the difference between a well to do family and a not so well to do one....

[norice]

Norikasan,

How can you handle the Bangkok's awful smog? I will check out the bus system in Bangkok when I retire there permanently. My choices of meeting girls are health clubs, schools, hospitals and shopping centers, when I retire in Thailand. But the best method of meeting an attractive educated Thai girl is through networking! I have 4 more trips to Bangkok before I retire so I must get busy and start networking!

[Peter_North]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Hey pp, I think the origin of the thai girl also make a difference. Like if her family from bkk or from some farm villages etc. I think their culture will be slight different also.

Your description seems to point towards the upbringing of the girl. The threat of poverty is real with some of the girls, so don't blame them if they happen to adopt a pragmatic attitude towards foreigners. For these girls, security comes in the form of "money", so it's difficult for them to have developed the refined notion of love during their early years. That is to say, if you don't mind at all that the girl is with you because you are able to provide her with material assurances, then I think the emotional part would have been taken care of.

As for Bro Norice, his criteria are reasonable with the supply of girls in Thailand, except for the boobs thingy. I think you may have to send her to doctors for a boob job.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

:Sometime, I feel like keeping a map of bangkok in my pocket to act as innocent tourist just try to talk to them and ask for direction in the bus since the jam take quite a while.

that is a great way to meet girls. just ask Jun|ch|!

one time when i was there at the airport, knn want to take public bus but the dunno which bus to take so see which nice airport girl there waiting for bus also just ask her. knn she also dunno so anyhow go up one bus. all the bus goes to the city anyway...hehe...

then when alight from the bus, saw some chio bu and ask for direction to MRT in english...knn they dont understand what i am talking about so have to speak thai...hehe...

then got one time nothing to do just hang around shopping centre. need to top up my mobile so just target one of the chio mobile sales girl and bought one top up card from her....pretend to ask her to top up my mobile phone...hehe...so many ways to meet girls!! no need to go agogo or massage parlor to meet girls!!

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

that is a great way to meet girls. just ask Jun|ch|!

one time when i was there at the airport, knn want to take public bus but the dunno which bus to take so see which nice airport girl there waiting for bus also just ask her. knn she also dunno so anyhow go up one bus. all the bus goes to the city anyway...hehe...

then when alight from the bus, saw some chio bu and ask for direction to MRT in english...knn they dont understand what i am talking about so have to speak thai...hehe...

then got one time nothing to do just hang around shopping centre. need to top up my mobile so just target one of the chio mobile sales girl and bought one top up card from her....pretend to ask her to top up my mobile phone...hehe...so many ways to meet girls!! no need to go agogo or massage parlor to meet girls!!

speaking of that, i remmebered too 1st few yr ago , i was on the way to jatujak market with a friend on holiday, was at thai cultural subway, den saw this girl and her friend quite cute. so i grabbed my friend's cam and walk to her, ask her if she could help takea picture of me and my friend (bluff la, subway got wad nice to take lol)

after that, i took the cam back and asked if u could take her pic! she giggled n yea i did. after tt engaged in small chat and found out she alos on her way to jatujak, so instead of 2 person we go 4 people. end of day got her number and kept in contact for a while. Happened tt she is a uni grad in accounting working at SM tower for microsystems lol.

after a while we got together for around 2 mths only.. haha after which i still decided to choose my current wife..

anyway tts also a way to know girls!

[<<<SUCHINDA>>>]

Calling bro everywhere.......KIV this thread for future reference.....you are getting to this step soon

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

So how??? When take picture how close can we get or is appropriate? Like can I put my hand on her shoulder? or waist? stand close to her? or just stand that like a log? I think maybe whoever friend taking photo for me and her should auto say "come stand closer, close up". Good idea leh but that is if got friend lar. but if alone also can i think.. ask her take for me alone and then i volunteer to take for her alone and then say "hi, very nice pic of you. maybe i can send the pic to you later?" haha. GIME your contact number now! So being a tourist we do have some advantage.

Ok come another serious talk... so bro during that 2 months with her, how close did you get with her? Did you both hold hands? kiss? sex? involve money?

only money involve is cab fares and movies and dinners lo LOL
this 2 months only hit jackpot once nia haha, and tts towards the end of the r/s :P
we're still good friends now though, occasionally i'll pay her a visit at her office at prompong and have lunch whenever im there (ofcuz without my wife knowing la, just in case she gets jealous over no reason)

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by <<<SUCHINDA>>>

...KIV this thread for future reference.....you are getting to this step soon

For some, maybe too late..

Oh well, maybe 2nd chance or mia noi?