How to overcome the urge of doing raw?

[intelcore3]

Raw to me is a turnoff. Now that brother describing his experience does not turn me on but scares me.

I had a model friend that press me for raw as she likes the feeling of cum inside her.

I told her to shave and go pantyless, which she did, so well i did raw with her as she did her part.

That being said, it is still a big NO NO.

[newscapegoat]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

It happened to me once, not in a dream but in real life!

The WL was really damn mischievious & a real teaser. The moment we entered my room, she started the teasing, by sexy dancing & taking off her clothes like in a strip-tease show. Then she helped me undress, and in the process, caressing / teasing my dick all the time. Then showered together, all the while, her sexy dance & teasing never stop.

After wiping ourselves dry, she continued teasing again, this time, in standing doggie, she grabbed my dick and put it at the entrance of her wet pussy, and rubbed it up & down her pussy & in between her thigh. I jokingly told her, I can't stand the temptation much longer & may poke raw into her. She teased futher by replying, "oh, I'm scared". And then suddenly, she pushed herself back such that my dick really poke into her pussy!

I pumped her a few strokes, then withdrew, and then asked her, "u not afraid? I'm not wearing condom u know?" Then she challenged back, "who's more afraid now?" And then she pushed me ontot the bed. We were playing happily on the bed again. When at the position she was sitting on me in cowgirl position, she simulated the action of riding & pumping me. So I happily played along, I even pretended to moan. Then she suddenly grabbed my dick & insert into her pussy and continue riding & pumping, again, I wasn't capped yet! I thought she was just teasing me for a short while, so I happily played along, but in my mind, I was telling myself, play a short while is enough. Gotta wear cap after that.

Little did I expect, she seem enjoying & looks engrossed in it, her eyes were shut, she started moaning. Then I reminded her, "hey, I'm not capped yet, better put it on before we get too carried away!" But she didn't care, she continued riding faster & pumping harder. I wasn't expecting it, I dun think a WL will genuinely get passionate during a paid session. In any case, I tried to get up, wanting to stop her so I can get the cap & put on, but she pushed me down with quite some strength and continued riding fast & pumping hard. Then I felt her pussy juice flowing out, her pussy kinda tighten & grabbed my dick rather tightly, I even felt a kinda "sucking" feeling on my dick! Her moans got faster & louder, and suddenly, with a longer moan I felt a "sucking" on my dick, apparently, her pussy was "sucking" my dick, I felt the sensation of my soldiers being "sucked out"! That's whn I came & shot my soliders into her!

After that, she kinda collapsed & laid on top me of for a while, hugging me, my dick still inside her pussy. After sensing her catching back her breath, I told her, "hey, I'm not capped, I shot my load inside, u know?" Then she kinda woke up, "oh! ya! shit!" I asked her why din she allow me to stop her so I can put on a cap? She said she dunno.

Next few days, I was constantly worried, can't eat well, can't sleep well. Even a mosquito bite, or some itch here & there, I was also worried that I kena STD. Eventually, I told a close fren. I called the WL, then he spoke to her, ask her why she did tat. At 1st, the WL was only worried about getting pregnant. When we mentioned about STDs, she got even more frightened / worried. She then came to my room, and after some talk / discussion, I'll give her some $$$ (slightly less than SGD 50 equivalent), she use the $$$ to see doctor / go for a check-up. After the initial tests showed negative for pregnancy & STDs, she has to wait about 3 days for results of blood test. With the results of the initial test, she was somewhat relieved, came back to my room to "report" to me. This time, her relief got her mischievious again, she started teasing me again, then capped me before continue teasing me further. This session, she didn't want me to pay her. After her blood test results showed negative too, again, she came to "report" to me, and the same thing, and again, she didn't want me to pay her. She said she's happy & relieved that we're safe. 1 week later, she went to the doctor again, and the doctor asked her, is she crazy? going so often.

Shortly after that, I had to travel away. About 1 month after that session, I went to the hospital for a check-up / blood-test. Phew! I'm clean & healthy. But the nite b4 collecting the blood test results, I almost couldn't sleep at all ! Few months later, I had to do my coy's annual medical check-up. I was also rather worried. Even 1 year later, for the next annual medical check-up, I was also worried I'm infected with some STD, that it takes several months later to be detected.

The stress & uneasiness of mind is definitely not worth the enjoyment of doing raw!

I agree that the stress that follows is not worth it.

I once had a fuck buddy who was quite havoc.

She was outgoing, loved to party, and loved sex even more.

Whenever we had sex, she loved it in the ass, and had to either finish off with anal penetration, or she had to get an orgasm while I was fucking her in her ass first, before we changed positions or did something else.

When she had her period, we would do it raw in the shower with the water running. She always insisted that I come inside her. She loved feeling my come shoot inside her and flow out, and so did I. At the time, the feeling was always damn shiok.

After about a year, I got tired of her partying and we stopped meeting. I found out from friends that she used to party harder, and even had threesomes before.

We were friends since poly days, so we had many mutual friends who were not aware of our fb-status. About 6 months after we split up, I heard from friends that she's always been sick. Like she'll be frequently down with flu, or fever, and she'd have weird rashes etc.

I got worried when I heard about it. I wondered for months if she had gotten HIV before we started having raw sex. Did I get it too?

Have I been sick recently? Any bouts of unexplained fever or flu? Hmm.... You know, come to think of it, I do feel kind of unwell...

Eventually, I went for a blood test and STD tests. The day before my results were due, I was so stressed out, I couldn't sleep. I kept thinking of my family, my job, my future... How? All ruined!

I would intermittently forget about it, then suddenly remember, and get an anxiety attack, with my heart racing from 60bpm to 140bpm within seconds. Then I'll try to calm myself down by thinking of something else, until the next attack comes.

Eventually the results all came out negative. I breathed a huge sigh of relief.

It's seriously not worth the high for that few minutes.

[owenfang]

jus think of consquences

[Singaporeaura]

I agree with the bros here. I myself did a few times raw with FLs during NS days.
Once in Geylang and twice in Phuket.
Same as you with strong urge for raw but the after thoughts and stress is definitely not worth it but during that time dun really care.
Seriously do think twice before you strike.
Even recently, one FL tried to get me to do raw with her. Temptations are there but your will power must be stronger.

Keep the faith bro!

[snowbunny]

Hi TS!!!

I've a really gd way...think of your dick rotting, pussing and warts growing all over...if thats isnt enough..go download pictures of std..it should do the trick