sex with partner/ spouse - how often?

[alea]

Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Soccer101

Just curious Why would women focusing on hubbies not have kids?

You must be quite a young fella, that's why you ask this question.

There are so many possible reasons why such women exist. The rare ones really don't want children for some reason - Type A personalities, successful and driven, and they simply don't want their lives to change. Women are natural control freaks, and having a child means you give up your entire life schedule and you sign up for many years worth of drama.

A few others are sterile or have had too many failures are IVF and natural conception to bother doing it again. Those are quite poor thing, because they hide their pain but they need to focus on something. Because the huge majority of women eventually want children, these sort of women tend to band together and if you find one then naturally you will find many others within her circle of friends.

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

[tommylim]

Our sex life have improved considerably since last year when we started WFH most of the time. My wife & I usually have sex about 3 to 4 times a week. We normally have a shower together followed by foreplay, passionate frenching before making love and is so enjoyable. I love her moaning & she will usually have multiple orgasms......

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

[Mr Honey]

Originally Posted by tommylim

Our sex life have improved considerably since last year when we started WFH most of the time. My wife & I usually have sex about 3 to 4 times a week. We normally have a shower together followed by foreplay, passionate frenching before making love and is so enjoyable. I love her moaning & she will usually have multiple orgasms......

Your wife must be sexy and pretty. You are such a lucky man.

[BroTrustMyWords]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

Agreed! Bro.

[mangoes49]

Originally Posted by alea

Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

Oh no..She needs to wcfh (work on your cock from home), not just wfh haha. But seriously speaking I do hear of so many wives who say they’re tired. Hope it works out bro.

[tess97]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

You must be quite a young fella, that's why you ask this question.

There are so many possible reasons why such women exist. The rare ones really don't want children for some reason - Type A personalities, successful and driven, and they simply don't want their lives to change. Women are natural control freaks, and having a child means you give up your entire life schedule and you sign up for many years worth of drama.

A few others are sterile or have had too many failures are IVF and natural conception to bother doing it again. Those are quite poor thing, because they hide their pain but they need to focus on something. Because the huge majority of women eventually want children, these sort of women tend to band together and if you find one then naturally you will find many others within her circle of friends.

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

Agreed. Other than my type A personality, I really just don’t like kids in general, seeing them as just a huge financial & mental burden

[lancerlution2]

Lol agreed I can get cranky and whinny if I didn’t have sex for 2 weeks or more. Like everything all wrong, slippers never put in rack also wrong, towel never spread out also wrong, no water also wrong, etc. Practically it’s like a baby without napping. Lol

Originally Posted by Penguin23

I meet my girl at her place 3-4 times a week we usually have sex every time we meet. It's not clockwork frequency, but as and when I want it, sometimes it is her that asks me for it lol.

I'm a lucky man, I know. This has been going on for over 2 years now. Sexual compatibility and understanding is key to a long-term success and I am glad that I made it clear to my girl from the start that I have a high sex drive so please try to accommodate my frequency (and she says, she is happy to do so)

I also tell her, quite explicitly that if I don't get sex for more than 2 weeks at one stretch my brain goes a bit haywire. I can tahan for a while doing self-service but not for that long

And long-time chiongsters will understand, that ultimately it is not the frequency but the quality of the sex. A short, but explosive and damn great session can keep you sexstisfied for very long.....much better than a long fuck where you somehow feel that your partner is a bit distracted and distant....

[lancerlution2]

Bro it’s normal all I can say. But when your kids get older and more independent it’s time to rekindle the forgotten passion, like go Cycling, sports, yoga, hiking, movies, and even buying her nice yoga pants and lingerie.

Originally Posted by alea

Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

[Soccer101]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

Interesting I din know that women have so much insecurities. For guys, life with children is when you looking outside for thrill

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by tess97

Agreed. Other than my type A personality, I really just don’t like kids in general, seeing them as just a huge financial & mental burden

You r 1 of the odd ones out babe...usually females r designed for motherhood, bear n raise children which like u said would be a huge financial n mental burden ...but it's ok...to each her own...nothing wrong if u don't like or want

[IamAStoryTeller]

After my wife got pregnant and gave birth..the number of times we had sex, 1 hand can count lol

jia lat..than we planning 2nd kid..think my tadpoles by the time we have sex on a regular basis will become frogs liao

BUT prior to that, every fri sat and sun we will fuck around the house

[itguy2008]

need you guys to help me with my imagination.

imagine you travel overseas now and kenna 3 weeks quarantine. Then so heng they allow your partner and you in the same room. Two scenarios.

Scenario 1 - If your partner is your wife, how many times do you think you will get sex in 3 weeks?

Scenario 2 - If your travel partner is your FB, how many times will you f**k her a day?

3 weeks kenna lock in the room.... quite boring.... wonder if it will increase the sex count with wife. Maybe 3 weeks can beat my record with her last year. hahaha. Last year sex count with wife..... 4 for the entire year.

[loki1688]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

need you guys to help me with my imagination.

imagine you travel overseas now and kenna 3 weeks quarantine. Then so heng they allow your partner and you in the same room. Two scenarios.

Scenario 1 - If your partner is your wife, how many times do you think you will get sex in 3 weeks?

Scenario 2 - If your travel partner is your FB, how many times will you f**k her a day?

3 weeks kenna lock in the room.... quite boring.... wonder if it will increase the sex count with wife. Maybe 3 weeks can beat my record with her last year. hahaha. Last year sex count with wife..... 4 for the entire year.

i cant answer the number of times for both scenario you've mentioned but i can assure you i will fug more times with my FB than with my wife if stuck in the same room for 2 to 3 weeks.

PS: unless my wife is those trophy wife that could stop guys in their traffic and would fantasize about then obviously i be banging my wife more than the FB.