Having 2 gals in a relationship at the same time

[VanGogh]

Originally Posted by brotherly

I will never wanna go through this again..

Bro, not forgetting u need to hide Birthday Cards / Gifts / deleting SMSs .. .. also, u cannot go for a Long Holiday with either 1 of them.. .. no photos in your bedroom of either 1 ... .. Bro, come to think of it, really scary.. .. my worse fear was in Chinese New Year... .. reunion dinner how ?? need to eat 3 times... .. 1) at home 2) GF1 place 3) GF2 place... .. Bros, writing it all down now still gives me goosebumbs... .

Bros, after I self destruct, I swear never to go into such mess again... .. and bro, after I self destruct, the feeling of hurt is double as I lost both of them... ...

[brotherly]

Originally Posted by VanGogh

Bro, not forgetting u need to hide Birthday Cards / Gifts / deleting SMSs .. .. also, u cannot go for a Long Holiday with either 1 of them.. .. no photos in your bedroom of either 1 ... .. Bro, come to think of it, really scary.. .. my worse fear was in Chinese New Year... .. reunion dinner how ?? need to eat 3 times... .. 1) at home 2) GF1 place 3) GF2 place... .. Bros, writing it all down now still gives me goosebumbs... .

Bros, after I self destruct, I swear never to go into such mess again... .. and bro, after I self destruct, the feeling of hurt is double as I lost both of them... ...

yes...yes..CNY !! I swear..that was the worst holiday..i need to shopping for clothing for both..and hving them buying for me..aiyo...must remember to wear the right shirt and hiding the others..man stress stress stress..
Bro..i luckier one of the GF is now my wife

[tigerprawn]

Originally Posted by stacy

This is like the Chow Yun fatt show with Sally Yeh and sharks, whats the other ger's name ....

The other girl is Wong Joyin or Wang Zhu Xian.

When i was a kid watching that movie I thought wa Chow Yun Fatt so cool, when I grow up I also want like this so fun. And by a strange twist of fate in life, totally unintended I ended up in this similar situation. It is anything but fun. There is really a lot of wisdom in the old saying: be careful what you wish for as it may really come through one day.

[soccergod]

Stick to one gal instead of two...

[tigerprawn]

Originally Posted by stacy

This is like the Chow Yun fatt show with Sally Yeh and sharks, whats the other ger's name ....

The other girl is Wong Joyin or Wang Zhu Xian.

When i was a kid watching that movie I thought wa Chow Yun Fatt so cool, when I grow up I also want like this so fun. And by a strange twist of fate in life, totally unintended I ended up in this similar situation. It is anything but fun. There is really a lot of wisdom in the old saying: be careful what you wish for as it may really come through one day.

[MaxC2000]

Well, I never had more than 1 gf at a time, but I've had multiple relationships at the same time.

A few years back for a one year period I had:
1. "A" - Hot MILF (divorcee) who was a pure FB; used to call each other up and meet for an hour or two just for sex (about once every 2-3 weeks)
2. "B" - Horny career woman who was a great friend with "benefits"; we hung out, talked business, had lots of sex (about 2-3 times a week)
3. "C" - Lonely married woman who was incredible in bed (about 2x a month), sort of affair/FB - a bit unclear
4. "D" - Young horny babe (about 2 times a week), FB relationship

They didn't know about each other, except for B knowing I was sleeping with D at the same time.

A couple years back I had:
1. GF - a hot babe gf who was working overseas (she gave me the green light to fool around, so long as she didn't know about it) (met up once a month for 1 week of hot non-stop sex)
2. "F" - a SYT with huge natural boobs, she wanted me as her sugar daddy, but I was only interested in FB relationship (about one weekend a month)
3. "D" - same girl from from above - FB relationship (once a week, except when GF was around)
4. "A" - the hot MILF from above - FB relationship (once a month)

"D" knew I had a GF and didn't care.

[laziness]

No wonder you so little post since you join in 2001 ... where got time left to do anything

[kitty79]

Originally Posted by sadbuttrue

I have, for 2 years, still ongoing. But more like one is main and the other is "mistress" and the "mistress" knows about the main but the main knows nothing. This way, the "mistress" knows her place and knows that I cannot spend as much time with her as main. I love both deeply, both love me deeply. Given a choice i'll marry both but no such possibilities in our society. Ya, I'm a greedy guy.

Hah! Hmz...my guy cheated on me while I was away on a business trip a couple of years back. Well, I guess I couldn't "provide" him the "freshness" or rather crudely, the GOOD SEX she could, since I was with him for close to a decade. But rather than blaming him for all that has happened, I think I have to thank him 'cos I've learnt a lot from all the shit he's "given" me. Rather than dwelling on betrayal, guess I'm trying to work on the issues that could've driven us apart. Just like you guys who think more with your "ah-hem there" guess gals think more with the heart & try to see if our TLC can bring you back. OK, just a silly female here voicing out but I guess if you have a problem trying to choose which gal to be with try this:
"Try to illustrate both gals you like (be it physical or emotional) - when both gals start crying, which gal would you most want to pacify first?"
If there's an answer GOOD - you know which one is FB & which one is Wifey If no answer, hahaha, urm...maybe an excuse for you to go KTV & enjoy more.

Haha, maybe flowerpod is better forum for you .... but thanks for your input .. kuku jiao always think differently

[VanGogh]

Originally Posted by fever

Haha, maybe flowerpod is better forum for you .... but thanks for your input .. kuku jiao always think differently

Well said bro fever.. ...

Many Horny Chi Ko Pek here

I am 1 of them .. ..

[bangbangben]

Sometimes I really envy ppl like MaxC2000, can have woman give green light and be ur FB when they noe u got GF.


Will SBF turn Flowerpotish?

[XX26]

I think a number of bros here managed to keep 2 gfs over 2 YEARS Mark, any manage to cross the 3 YEARS Mark? ...

I had a 'misstress' who was aware that I was attached, she understood and make things easier for me during special occassion. But that doesnt mean I am the happiest man on-earth w 2 gals.

It still feel lousy whenever she go dating with other man, and really, she needs to have those activities as I was not always available for her as I have a main one to serve.

So guys, 1 at a time is the best. Too many unnecessaries to deal with in time to come.

[哀兵必胜]

Really envy these people who can juggle like that without the gers knowing ... just hv SG GF and a GF from KTV already a big headache last time for me .... nowadays, cant be bothered.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

2 gals in a relationship is really not easy...
esp when it's festive seasons..then u will hope there's 2 of u..
but what to do when u love them equally deep...?

[sadbuttrue]

Originally Posted by XX26

I think a number of bros here managed to keep 2 gfs over 2 YEARS Mark, any manage to cross the 3 YEARS Mark? ...

I had a 'misstress' who was aware that I was attached, she understood and make things easier for me during special occassion. But that doesnt mean I am the happiest man on-earth w 2 gals.

It still feel lousy whenever she go dating with other man, and really, she needs to have those activities as I was not always available for her as I have a main one to serve.

So guys, 1 at a time is the best. Too many unnecessaries to deal with in time to come.

Bro, my current situation seems same as what u described. I totally know what u mean, i am going through this right now. My "mistress" is now on holiday with another man she just started dating. Feels like shit. So how did it all end? Or is it still ongoing?