any tips on meeting ex for sex

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by dooope

Thanks all who replied, it doesnt seems like an easy thing. Mine broke off with me cos she got bored and had another person. I guess chances are unlikely I get to meet her again. Then again while we were tgt she met up with her exes quite often, maybe just have to find a reason to meet up.

All the more you should text her ... Your chances are very high .

[junmin95]

i personally won't recommend fucking ex if she is still single unless you want to get back with her; because means high chance she want to get back with you.

Based on personal experience, best is wait till she got new bf/husband and the new person did something wrong / didn't give her the care/concern or honeymoon period over. Some more if she is your ex for long period of time, means you should know her personality.

I have one ex(i'm her first bf and we're together for about 3 years, 2012-2015) who still confide in me today when she got relationship troubles. In 2019, we met up, chit chat and one thing led to another and we had sex because she was upset about her bf meeting this other girl and spending more time on that girl than her.

[dooope]

based on what i hear from bros here, it looks like if she doesnt contact me first there are not much chance for us to bang again. and 2 years without contact i guess it is nvr happening

[lilmei]

Yes, obviously.

[junebaby]

You need to understand her situation first.

1. Is she in a happy relationship currently or have some problems? You may just be a temporary distraction.

2. Was she happy with you in the first place?

3. Was it an amicable breakup?

Of course if she contacts you first, and makes the first move, high chance is that she wants it.

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by junebaby

You need to understand her situation first.

1. Is she in a happy relationship currently or have some problems? You may just be a temporary distraction.

2. Was she happy with you in the first place?

3. Was it an amicable breakup?

Of course if she contacts you first, and makes the first move, high chance is that she wants it.

Very good advice here, cheers!

[marcussia]

Originally Posted by dooope

based on what i hear from bros here, it looks like if she doesnt contact me first there are not much chance for us to bang again. and 2 years without contact i guess it is nvr happening

Dont need wait for them contact, you go chit chat them up first...
If you try you got a chance, if never try no chance...
Take it in a light-hearted manner, start with normally chat, meet ups for meals, slowly build up etc

I also started chatting with my ex(s) just because I was bored.

• Some totally don't want any more contact
• Some want to continue to be friends
• Some still want to hook up