Marrying A Thai ger

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Fat Shearer

whatever lah.. stranger,stalker,friend,acquaintance or enemy

im sure we not enemy lol i dont sabo my bros de ma so how to have enemy maybe part time lover b4

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Fat Shearer

Will meet again when there is an opportunity

How are the rest....hangout where nowadays?

sure bud im sure we will meet again most of us have our own things to do liao seldom cheong liao. all cool down liao lol. but got chance still kekekeke

[Alkano]

Hi fellow bros, sharing something here and hope to hear yr views.
My thai gf has a rather perculiar behaviour whenever she is sad or angry, she is like no response to whatever i say.
Like don't want to say anything and keep silence all the time.
Kinda stuck or lost when dealing with such situation.
Another thing is does thai gers throw tantrum easily?
Coz mine does..haiz..
When i choose to ignore her, she can ignore me too....wtf..
Anyway i reckon this is part and parcel of a relationship, just accept her for who she is...
Cheers...

[<<<SUCHINDA>>>]

Originally Posted by Alkano

Hi fellow bros, sharing something here and hope to hear yr views.
My thai gf has a rather perculiar behaviour whenever she is sad or angry, she is like no response to whatever i say.
Like don't want to say anything and keep silence all the time.
Kinda stuck or lost when dealing with such situation.
Another thing is does thai gers throw tantrum easily?
Coz mine does..haiz..
When i choose to ignore her, she can ignore me too....wtf..
Anyway i reckon this is part and parcel of a relationship, just accept her for who she is...
Cheers...

this type of behavious not exclusive to thai girls lah.....from your post i can see you havent been in a relationshop b4.....steep learning curve LOL

I am not teaching you to abuse your gfs/wives but sometimes these womenfolk needs a firm hand to make them come to their senses if you get what i mean

[<<<SUCHINDA>>>]

Originally Posted by Fat Shearer

Will meet again when there is an opportunity

How are the rest....hangout where nowadays?

Hello Alan how cum you kena -25? Mass zap victim or clone? If it is the former then you have my sympathies & condolences

[xilverzap]

Originally Posted by Alkano

Another thing is does thai gers throw tantrum easily?
Coz mine does..haiz..
..

NORMAL. From some of my past experience, approx the 1st 3 months the relationship will always be the best. Loving, caring, concern, taking care of your every need while you take care of hers. Beautiful. You will be in wonderland wondering how you can be the luckiest man alive!!

Then slowly, relationship will take a turn, she will slowly lose all those affections you been receiving. She become much more easily aggitated and soon you will find yourself wondering, wtf am I doing all these for... Thats when the REAL her surfaces and thats the REAL her you are going to spend your entire life with.

I think this is normal for all relationships. But for the thai girls, somehow, I do tend to agree that they change pretty extremely sometimes after a while.
You just have to accept it, or chop it. For me, I guess I am quite numb to these kind of things, what I do is just choose to ignore it till she feels better and come talk to me. If you carry on trying to please her even when she is pissed, my guess is she will be pissed all the time and wait for you to give her something sweet be it a gift or money or whatever she wants. Then you are finished.

xilver

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Fat Shearer

whatever lah.. stranger,stalker,friend,acquaintance or enemy

hehehe i think i know who are u liao. bukit batok right?

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by <<<SUCHINDA>>>

Hello Alan how cum you kena -25? Mass zap victim or clone? If it is the former then you have my sympathies & condolences

hmm u seems the same lei what happening

[Alkano]

Originally Posted by <<<SUCHINDA>>>

this type of behavious not exclusive to thai girls lah.....from your post i can see you havent been in a relationshop b4.....steep learning curve LOL

It is not that i have not been in a relationship b4, it is that when i compare the girls i know and thai girls.
Thai girls tend to be more extreme...Something i have not seen or enocunter b4
That is why i am posting here to see if any bros encounter the same as me.

[Alkano]

Originally Posted by xilverzap

NORMAL. From some of my past experience, approx the 1st 3 months the relationship will always be the best. Loving, caring, concern, taking care of your every need while you take care of hers. Beautiful. You will be in wonderland wondering how you can be the luckiest man alive!!

Then slowly, relationship will take a turn, she will slowly lose all those affections you been receiving. She become much more easily aggitated and soon you will find yourself wondering, wtf am I doing all these for... Thats when the REAL her surfaces and thats the REAL her you are going to spend your entire life with.

I think this is normal for all relationships. But for the thai girls, somehow, I do tend to agree that they change pretty extremely sometimes after a while.
You just have to accept it, or chop it. For me, I guess I am quite numb to these kind of things, what I do is just choose to ignore it till she feels better and come talk to me. If you carry on trying to please her even when she is pissed, my guess is she will be pissed all the time and wait for you to give her something sweet be it a gift or money or whatever she wants. Then you are finished.

xilver

Oops, seem that what u mentioned...i am goin thru it all...
Those slient treatment from her is damn irritating...
It is as if i owe her....wtf...
Now i am learning but still it is something not normal...

[rapebill]

it seems that thai gfs can like communicate with their bfs only once a week, esp for long-distance relationship. For eg, my thai friend (in singapore) chat with her thai bf (in thailand) only once a week. Other than that, not even msn. Of cos, she wishes that her bf will call more often but phone calls are expensive.

I also heard from other men that their tiraks will only call once a few days and esp when need money. As for myself, I try to communicate with my wife at least once daily. Of coz, when we quarrel, she would just hang up the phone and became unreachable for quite some time. But luckily now quarrel less as I become more indifference to her indifference and not make a fuss of it.

[Alkano]

If they just give us the silent or piss off attitude, what do we next?
Call them back and sweet them?
Or just sit back and see?
Kinda lost now about what to do.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by rapebill

it seems that thai gfs can like communicate with their bfs only once a week, esp for long-distance relationship. For eg, my thai friend (in singapore) chat with her thai bf (in thailand) only once a week. Other than that, not even msn. Of cos, she wishes that her bf will call more often but phone calls are expensive.

I also heard from other men that their tiraks will only call once a few days and esp when need money. As for myself, I try to communicate with my wife at least once daily. Of coz, when we quarrel, she would just hang up the phone and became unreachable for quite some time. But luckily now quarrel less as I become more indifference to her indifference and not make a fuss of it.

no leh, i communicate with my wife, at least 3-4 times a day, even before we got married
anywya now sg has so many kinds of cards , making a long distance call isnt expensive, is you bother or not only.

and in thailand there is the sawadee deedial service, which is as cheap too.
let alone for those internet savvy couples, voip and msn chat etc are free...

long distance r/s is not hard to maintain.. only the physical attendance is hard, but once a month on a budget weekend trip, not unachiveable

if we quarrel, she dare not kup my phone or become unreachable 1.. cuz before tt she already noes i hate people kupping my calls. so it's a mutual understanding and respect btwn couples as well.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by rapebill

Of cos, she wishes that her bf will call more often but phone calls are expensive.

I also heard from other men that their tiraks will only call once a few days and esp when need money.

But luckily now quarrel less as I become more indifference to her indifference and not make a fuss of it.

i have a thai friend who have a thai bf studying in NUS. initial few mths always call each other n talk. after yrs pass bf also seldom call. hear from her is like every 1 to 2 weeks then call her. dont even msn. long distance relationship usually very hard to maintain.

loneliness slowly sets in and then slowly get to know another person blah blah sure got.

well if we are feeding the girls, many times we will feel it when the girls start talking to us about $$$ need this need that. we just have to make it a stand that we dont have much and cant give it to her.

the more u give the more they us. if the girl really love the guy she wont keep asking for $$$.

as for ur less quarrle bro rapebill. i know how u feel. lol me also like this i see something i not happy i kp like fark. then later me n my girl sure have big quarrle. the most she cut my line off when i call back she will still answer.

sometime we quarrle liao she angry with me she wont answer my call for 10 to 15min later when i call she will answer back. else i dulan no call and she will call.

anyway i learn to be bo chap liao. see something not happy also dont said. see something that dont want her to bang wall also dont want to said cos said liao said i nag nag. best let them be they will just run to u and ask u how. lol

i only tell my girl u dont come create problem give me else i sure kp so better think 2 x 3 x 100x b4 do if u no think n go do things without asking me n get into shit i sure kp

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Alkano

If they just give us the silent or piss off attitude, what do we next?
Call them back and sweet them?
Or just sit back and see?
Kinda lost now about what to do.

best to ignore n walk away. she dont call u dont call. of course said is ez. but at least few hrs u can try not calling her.

when she do call then just talk normal and dont bring up the quarrel things lol else u will have another expensive call.

if u are with her then if she angry, make alot of noise just move away dont ask too much questions.

thais dont like pple talk n ask so much. this their char.

oh another thing if she really love u no matter what after awhile she will still talk to u unless she dont then u know already what to do. some girls can dulan for few days some only few hrs n cool down. so u have to see it urself nobody can tell u how to see it. only can tell u just press ignore button and let things cool down.