Marrying A Thai ger

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by icecum

By the way my that frd have not told his 2nd gf that he's married.... what u guy/bro think should he tell his 2nd gf back in china tell her the true that his married?

Can only speak from experience, which I've none in this particular situation. The closest I have is once when I tried to "test" one of my PRC tirak/gf by saying that I'm married and even get another PRC (in Sg) who was beside me then to act as my wife while talking to her (she was in china) on the phone. After that, she really believe me and from then on NEVER hear from her again.

Before that, she was quite sticky; always call me from China, say she miss me, ask when I go over to see her again, etc. etc. When I was with her, she also behave like it's NOT after my money; go shopping say save money lah, don't want my money when I give lah, etc.

Maybe she really like me, but once she (or perhaps most PRC) know that you're actually attached, and didn't inform her upfront until after she falls "in love" with you, then she'll also "bite the bullet" to let you go and move on with live...

In you friend's case, sounds like the same. So better ask him to play his cards well to avoid loosing her suddenly.

Originally Posted by Mrxhub

...they like straightforward guys....even till now, I got gf, but still I got many gfs like me....haha....

Bro, this is one of the good strategy I employ with PRC too; good one Got as many PRC gf as me or not?

I'm also quoting this for our bro icecum; highlighting that PRC gals like to be straight forward with r/s.

Hey, this is a "Thai" thread, maybe we're OT too much liao.

[rapebill]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

965? I never hear before. So is it suppose to be between 999 and 916 gold?
You buy gold before in thailand? is it suppose to be more expensive than buying in sg?

thai gold is 965 if I am not mistaken.
no, buying thai gold in singapore is more expensive than buying it in thailand. About 30% more. You can go view at GM.

After I bought 916 and 999 gold for my wife, she said that if want to buy gold for her in future, to buy only thai gold for her as it can be more easily sold.

[icecum]

On behalf of my frd thanks for helping up...... if there it a thread on marring a PRC ger i'm sure the thread will be very hot too.....

So i sould tell my frd to tell that 2nd gf that he marry right.... and the rest it up to that 2nd gf right.....

[Evilectus]

Generally Thai gals are more conservative than their western counterparts. They won't say I lub u mak mak but will show it by their actions like put food on your plate during makan, buy cigarette for you when you are smoking the last stick...

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Beside saying "I LOVE U".

What other words or ways or actions your Thai wife express her love for you?

I recently met my tirak and we went holiday in thailand. Due to some communication problems, we had argument and she scolded me and show me black face. I thought she had changed and don't like me anymore cos she was seldom angry lst time.

When i came back to singapore, I kept thinking about those unhappy times when she scolded me and had doubts about the relationship. then later she called me and apologised to me profusely that she scolded me.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Beside saying "I LOVE U".

What other words or ways or actions your Thai wife express her love for you?

Depends on which part of "Thailand" she's from. she may also say "Hao Hard Su"...

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

I kana one time before I told her I leave.. then change my clothes about to go then she tell me ok you go then don't come back.... walao... stuckup situation.... then i sit there heads down think a while act sad.. but actually thinking how to step down... then heng heng she comeover and tell me ok don't go so late already....take off your clothes... and its another fun night.

you all got such exp? or how you react?

lol then u become her salve forever. I never do that when i qaurrel with my girl till very jia lak. i just pack up n walk out of the room and move into a hotel.

she call me and come find me.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

if she never call or find u how?

then find new one lar still talk so much for fark. thailand only 1 girl meh. if she really wants to be with u then she will call unless otherwise

[theUnforgotten]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

then find new one lar still talk so much for fark. thailand only 1 girl meh. if she really wants to be with u then she will call unless otherwise

Good one bro! 555 Seriously TG can be tempermental too.

Afterall this is thailand , not scared find another woman

[rapebill]

thai pple usually quite reserved and for them to show temper, either one did something very wrong or it's the culmination of several small wrongs or that one is simply hot-tempered. My wife actually listed out whatever wrongs that I had committed. For example it is a BIG taboo to climb onto the head of the bed ie where you put your pillow, your leg/foot should never go there. This wrong is strong enough to blow her up.

My wife is actually quite hot-tempered or at least with me only. She actually hit me hard sometimes when we quarrel. Of course, I did not retaliate no matter what because I so much more big sized than her. She may be very angry but if I talk to her softly and if she later still sleep with me, it means that the quarrel is almost over. Just initiate making love at the appropriate moment and then forget everything bad that had happened. If she avoid sleeping with me (it happened once albeit for a short time), it will mean that things have gone to the extreme serious end.

Also, you have to show that you love her by not saying "I love you" but by actions (which can be very difficult) such as trusting her (to be faithful to you) and unfortunately includes taking care of her family. Making love to her is not considered. Giving her money to spend is though. LOL

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

lol then u become her salve forever. I never do that when i qaurrel with my girl till very jia lak. i just pack up n walk out of the room and move into a hotel.

she call me and come find me.

This very familiar. Mine a bit different from yours.... Once upon a time, long long ago, I brought my regular f prc ger to Thailand to extend visa. Out of the suddenly in the middle of the night time, she kept on nagging and arguing, I was silent all the way. Suddenly I damn hot n buey tahan, packed my bag n left the hotel. Called me when I was in a taxi to another hotel, she apologised n all sort of craps. I boh hiew her n stayed in another hotel for a night. The next day, I went back n she treated me nicer.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

thailand only 1 girl meh.

Pii, hmmm when can u intro a tirak to me.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Pii, hmmm when can u intro a tirak to me.

mai lar u got so many liao lol those i keep for myself lei

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

..if she really wants to be with u then she will call unless otherwise

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

..if she never call or find u how?

On that scenario, on your concerns if she no call back or find you -excuse my saying, then it's either your insecurity or your r/s is on wrong footing (in 1st place).

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by yinyang

On that scenario, on your concerns if she no call back or find you -excuse my saying, then it's either your insecurity or your r/s is on wrong footing (in 1st place).

well do agree with u on this bro. but also depend on the person char and also how much the person willing to put into the relationship as what u said r/s maybe on wong footing.

of cos if there is a quarrle, we should actually sit down and talk or what n not just leave the way i said but i cannot tell pple this should be the best way to do.

but i always feel that, there comes a time u need to just stop the thing n move away n give sometime to each other then begging her to come back. if keep doing that once it reach a point u will get sick n tired.

i only can share that with the bros here. now adays whenever i quarrle with my girl. we will both back off n leave some space to each other. once after cool down then we start talking it either she call me or i call her.