Marrying A Thai ger

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[rapebill]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

(500 baht of credit finished within a week; tell me that's fast!)

500 baht is really a lot. Likely to be overseas calls/msgs. One overseas SMS is about 20 baht!

Hmm, she has free incoming calls rite?

[rapebill]

Originally Posted by JWNY

To them, nothing is a problem until it is a problem.

JWNY

This is indeed a word of wisdom.
Bro Jon, how would you have reacted in this situation?

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

So I'm supposed to sweep everything under the carpet even though the suspense is killing me?

Would I do well to apologise? We haven't talked since - it's our first big fight since we got to know each other 9 months ago. I feel she is really offended by my insinuation. But I just don't feel right "ignoring" these obvious suspicions.

Handle the relationship like any other.

If we discussed about the previous post, I cannot see how significant that THB 500 was?

Are you asking because

- you were upset the credits finished quickly
- you were upset the credit were finished quickly but not utilised on you?

You need to ask yourself and her, what you expect from this relationship. At the same time, you have to give her more trust and time to adjust. We think like we do...the Thais think like they do.

JWNY

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Handle the relationship like any other.

If we discussed about the previous post, I cannot see how significant that THB 500 was?

Are you asking because

- you were upset the credits finished quickly
- you were upset the credit were finished quickly but not utilised on you?

You need to ask yourself and her, what you expect from this relationship. At the same time, you have to give her more trust and time to adjust. We think like we do...the Thais think like they do.

JWNY

Thank you for your reply, JWNY.

It's not about the money. How much is 500 baht anyway? I'm upset because 500 baht worth of credit should be able to last her 25 text messages (based on your estimate of 20 baht per sms) to me. I've received less than 10. I'm even fine with her using my credit to call other people - as long it's not to other guys and she's being honest and upfront with me about it. Right now she's refusing to even entertain the thought of answering that question.

Her exact sms to me was "You are so childish. I don't want to talk to you. Are you playing games with me?"

I want to trust her so much, but I also need to know that the trust I bestow unto her isn't a blind one. Look, I'm paying for her bloody phone bills; is it really too much to ask what exactly she's doing with my money?

Or am I just childish?

[theUnforgotten]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

what bro unforgtten said is also very true. it not just WL n FL that is why i said i dont like to use WL n FL as example but again the chances is higher then decent girls.

Yes , it also the fact that most of us are in this commercial sex forum due to our hobbies and environment, thus majority of gals we encountered falls into the WL/singer/dancer/coyote category.

But then again ,if we want to look for girls to marry ( whether Thai, malaysian, PRC, viet) try not to look in these areas, unless one is prepared with plenty of Money ,time and wants the heartache as part of the experience, then ok go for it.

Bro Charmaine, I think u are upset because she is making up excuses to avoid calling u or picking your call , and I hope it's not about THB 500 baht worth of credits , in the grand scheme of things ,thats worth only SGD21++ .dollars

Dude, look for an alternative to take your thoughts off her, perhaps a new hobby ?? how about learning a new thing to enrich your mind, Latin or basic embedded C# programming , anyone ??

take care and always remember , tough times don't last only tough people do

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Handle the relationship like any other.

If we discussed about the previous post, I cannot see how significant that THB 500 was?

You need to ask yourself and her, what you expect from this relationship. At the same time, you have to give her more trust and time to adjust. We think like we do...the Thais think like they do.

JWNY

1st the 500 baht. when topup phone the topup cash not just use for sms also can make call. so sure finish ma.

2nd if so worry this n that. really wants her so much then get her over here n marry. full stop the rest is up to both to maintain the marriage when together liao.

3rd if is just play play never think of being together then what is the use of jumping around?

so long u not paying her daily $$$$ or we call it as feeding her n her family what right do we have to control her. on the other hand by giving her $$$ does it mean she cannot do everything, knowing thai it going to be hard. even not thai also hard cos no ones wants to be controlled.

[Thai_Traveller]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

..........
Or am I just childish?

Bro Charmaine, long distance relationship is very difficult to maintain especially the other party is a thai gal . The sooner you get over with it, the better it is for you, just my 2 baht.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Look, I'm paying for her bloody phone bills; is it really too much to ask what exactly she's doing with my money?

You need to re-look this part bro Charmaine. You do not own her, she does not owe you an explanation. Simply because if you're not paying for her bills, someone else will and that person will also be "short-changed". If it upsets you, you should not pay for her phone bills anymore..since incoming is free.

This is the part i had mentioned earlier, we think alike...but the Thai, think like Thais

JWNY

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Thai_Traveller

Bro Charmaine, long distance relationship is very difficult to maintain especially the other party is a thai gal . The sooner you get over with it, the better it is for you, just my 2 baht.

Don’t not stereotype all Thai girls, there are many who are decent enough to beat Sing girls hands down, Do try to understand their culture and most importantly when and where you know them and their back ground as well.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Ask vmtech!

One of my tirak also a tai-yat... holding Myanmar p/p but they think they are thai ppl, if not for those historic wars around the borders.

haha me again?

[Charmaine]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Don’t not stereotype all Thai girls, there are many who are decent enough to beat Sing girls hands down, Do try to understand their culture and most importantly when and where you know them and their back ground as well.

I would agree. Thai girls already has an immediate advantage over Singapore ones because their country is rich with culture, history and tradition. We've got nothing. I've met hi-so Thais who can hold their own, and even surpass, local girls by virtue of their well-traveled lifestyle, maturity and demenour, not to mention their approach to life and physical attraction.

On the contrary, many Singapore girls are still shallow, materialistic and naive.

[vmtech]

Originally Posted by nael

Anyone here know how to marry A girl whom is Thai race but is from Myanmar in Singapore? I may need to seek for any solutions or ideas? I am run short of solution actually.

has to be a tai-yai (shan) girl again lol. seems to be flooding with them eh.
what u mean short of solutions, 1stly, im sorry for being blunt what is her background for a shan to be in singapore? since u are posting in SBF, i'll just take it as she is from the working class.

liddat cannot marry la, cuz most likley she is holding a thai passport that is fake.

marry her in thailand/Yangon when she has her real passport and when she finishes her term of service in SIngapore.

i married mine in thailand, pretty easy, and please use the search function if u planninhg to ask for the steps. it's only a few pages from the end of this thread

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Thank you for your reply, JWNY.


I want to trust her so much, but I also need to know that the trust I bestow unto her isn't a blind one. Look, I'm paying for her bloody phone bills; is it really too much to ask what exactly she's doing with my money?

Or am I just childish?

All bros, I think JWNY is concerned that whether the ger is cheating on him despite all he had done for her... Any normal guys would worry. Dont tell me that you dont mind if your thai ger spend yor $$ like water and in the end dont know where it goes....No one is so openminded until can share someone that you love with others... So bro JWNY... I know yor concern.

Anyway you are not wrong to ask. Better ask now than suffer later when she told u to fxxk off after she is tired of u... On the other hand, look on the bright side. If she choose not to be with you, then it is her lose. You on the other hand can look for someone who really love you.

Why should u worry days and nights for someone who cheated on you yet pretending to love you for the sake of $$?

Love is not meant to be that way leh...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I would agree. Thai girls already has an immediate advantage over Singapore ones because their country is rich with culture, history and tradition. We've got nothing. I've met hi-so Thais who can hold their own, and even surpass, local girls by virtue of their well-traveled lifestyle, maturity and demenour, not to mention their approach to life and physical attraction.

On the contrary, many Singapore girls are still shallow, materialistic and naive.

spot on! many tend to see themselves as raised on a pedestal, thinking/ believing themselves to be high n mighty over other nationalities. when in fact, most r like frogs in the well, who've never set foot into places where they perceive/stereotype to be backward countries.

some even think that by attending our local varsities, sets them a scale above other graduants in the region. i guess they 4got that its the students that make the grades, not the education providers.

some live to believe everything the media broadcasts on the tv, which in most times/cases r just myopic... micro lil details/news blurbs. ie: a critic that i know of, once told me that in thailand, majority of thai gals r involved in vice, particularly in prostituition or adult entertainment.

bt theoretically its just a truck load of crap. cos by that sweeping statement, it'd mean that there'd be virtually a big vacuum to fulfill other day to day occupations that makes the nation function. ie: home-makers, nurses, teachers, office staff, simstress, bank tellers, retail attendants, cabin crews... n the list goes on.