Marrying A Thai ger

[pussyman72]

[QUOTE=The Oracle;2807015]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

mr loser can teach other ppl thai when his own thai is fuck up big time.

btw, no body spoke thai like you one...or rather the one who teach you thai is likely not a thai. you want me to teach you the correct version or not?

hehehe i never said my thai is good right. is u who said my thai is good xie xie sure why not, can meet me n teach me i no problem. lol seems that u sound expert in thai lang then i dont mind to learn from sifu.

hehehe unless u are mr norisan sifu or is he or u trying to polish each other ass kekekekeke. dont worry i dont mind pple insult about my language cos im still learning. so if i dare to put on my signature i also dare to let ppe tell me is wrong u telling me that when u learn thai also so expert teach one time u know liao ah lol

[pussyman72]

personally i feel that alot of bors have given or share their advices and exp to all the bros here. if the bros thinks there is still things worth to rescue. thinking u just have to try harder then bo bian liao. as one of my bro's use to sayd to each his own

we not trying to push pple to listen or heel our advices but alot of pple still do not understand how a thai girl behave or think.


anyway as i always said it takes 2 hands to clap since the person wanna choose to clap it then later pls dont blame anyone or point finger at the girl. she cheat u.

Chokdee na krup.

[Charmaine]

I realise that our Thai gurus like to engage with friendly banter (like the above) without malice. The taunts often sound threatening and even condescending at times, but is always taken with a smile and harmless counter taunts. Is it a culture here or something, or are you just such good friends that you know there's no harm intended?

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I realise that our Thai gurus like to engage with friendly banter (like the above) without malice. The taunts often sound threatening and even condescending at times, but is always taken with a smile and harmless counter taunts. Is it a culture here or something, or are you just such good friends that you know there's no harm intended?

well mate sometime there are losers who always trying to be funny in the forum asking stupid question or ask a question over n over again, etc etc....

just pay ignore our flame war heheheh once awhile u do see it.

[rapebill]

Originally Posted by Alkano

Don't know what to say....
Tough times ahead....

bro Alkano, you are not alone.
I know it's not easy to take things easy but it seems to be the way (for now).

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Si Geena

It takes 2 to clap. If she doesn't want a relationship, and that's for you to discover, then no matter how hard you try, there's no point. It's just investing more feelings and money into a black hole.

And the most sound advice then, would be to break it off. Short pain, better than constant uncertainty.

The other direction, which is highly inadvisable, would be to wait for her to come round to the idea of a relationship. That's going to take time, effort and alot of heartache.

well bro alot still dont understand. where got cold war for 2 weeks without any contacts.

If really so concern then better fly up n see for himself what is happening. dont need to call her to tell her u coming. just fly up and see for urself then talk to her. if cannot then should know what to do...

as u have said bro. short pain better then long pain. it all depend on the person. i myself have tasted it long long ago. when i first involve with a thai girl. i dont want to cut off keep hoping for the best. in the end pain for few yrs.

well i not trying to tell my sad story to anyone. just in case pple use it to attack me heheheh what im trying to said is whether the person can handle or accept when it turn out to be bad.

as for hoping turing ard the relationship n hope for the best. everyones wants to do that. then one should ask himself whether is there any chance to put it together again. he should knows it very well by now the last 2 yrs relationship is what kind of relationship his having and also dont forget it a long distance realtionship anything can happen over nite.

[rapebill]

as for me, my dilemma is whether I should stay in thailand with my wife.
Getting her over to stay is not a viable option.
But if I go over to stay, I would not have a reliable source of income.
Wondering what I should do...

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by rapebill

as for me, my dilemma is whether I should stay in thailand with my wife.
Getting her over to stay is not a viable option.
But if I go over to stay, I would not have a reliable source of income.
Wondering what I should do...

bro i think maybe u should go thai visa forum take alook what other the things u can do over there. alot of bros who stay there always go to thai visa forum to look for business idea there.

i too in the forum. i remember 1 bro i know he actually help his thai family there do bull frog business there. not really earn alot of money but it a source of income for his in laws. he also go thai visa forum to see how to do bull frog business.

[Alkano]

Originally Posted by rapebill

bro Alkano, you are not alone.
I know it's not easy to take things easy but it seems to be the way (for now).

I know but it is not to think about it.
It is affecting my work.
We had plans but somehow the $$ is affecting this relationship.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by Alkano

I know but it is not to think about it.
It is affecting my work.
We had plans but somehow the $$ is affecting this relationship.

well bro u old enough to sort out relationship n work. i know say is ez do hard but u just have to know what is important.

Remember No Money No Honey. No Work = No Money. so when no money do u think ur girl wanna be with u????

this the real world mate. so be more realistics.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

as i have said to u before. wanna talk talk dont wanna talk then fark it. if 1 to 2 weeks still like this then fark it n move on. fark bkk so many girls only her ah.....

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Good Advice!!!

Dont understand why some people just want to stick to one girl and afraid to break up with them...scared they too ugly cannot find another girl??

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Alkano

1. This is the lst time. We know each other for over 2 yrs2. Arise from $$ issue and keeping the promise of providing
3. Try to talk to her but to no avail...she very stubborn and always keep quiet when things not right.
4. I am being transparent as much as possible to her but she is not.
5. lst time having this cold war.

I think it's highly possible she got a new tirak.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

This is a trait in Thai women I'm extremely uncomfortable with to be honest. This approach offers no closure and technically speaking no explanation is ever needed when she just decides one day to end a relationship by a snap of her fingers. Wouldn't you be entering into a relationship with a Thai constantly feeling jittery? She might just get out of bed and decide to freeze you out of your life and there's no recourse - after all the time, money, effort and emotion you have sunk yourself into, this seems a very immature, let alone cowardly, way to handle a relationship.

That is why people like to have flings with thai girls. If they found out that you have another girlfriend, they just break up with you, no need to explain so much.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Alkano

Don't know what to say....
Tough times ahead....

Go find another girl. Is it really that difficult for you?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I realise that our Thai gurus like to engage with friendly banter (like the above) without malice. The taunts often sound threatening and even condescending at times, but is always taken with a smile and harmless counter taunts. Is it a culture here or something, or are you just such good friends that you know there's no harm intended?

well, it really depends how 1 perceives. some ppl take cyber life serious to the core, such that their life revolves around the online persona.

no harm pointing out 1 another's mistakes, since everyone's a keen learner somewhere down the line. i recall nt too long ago, there was some disputes in the thai language thread... the critics (i'd prefer calling them jesters) seemed to have fallen mute, after they consulted their long hair dictionaries.

at the end of the day, who's right, who's wrong, who cares...?? we share, so to learn off 1 another's mistakes... that's life anyway.