Marrying A Thai ger - Page 89

pussyman72 · #**1321** 11-06-2008, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by rapebill

I remembered I was offered to eat rat meat.
I tried to wriggle out but was scolded harshly by my wife,
in that if they can eat this food, I should eat also.

Now I just eat whatever they put in front of me
and I am grateful that my wife is also less critical.
She just ask me to try and if I don't like, I can skip it.

wah lucky my dear never force me to eat cos she also dont like :P anyway she know what i like to eat n dont like to eat. will always ask me i can eat this or ask me what i wanna eat.

her family n relative know i cant eat some their cooking so what they do is they fried egg for me.

suteerak1099 · #**1322** 12-06-2008, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Si Geena

Very sensible advice. Thank you.

hey, no worries... just simple suggestions... cant even consider it "advice"

Si Geena · #**1323** 12-06-2008, 05:03 PM

It's been crystalising in my head and I've come to this cold truth.

1. She doesn't love me.

2. She feels grateful to me.

3. She'll be careful with me as long as she feels grateful to me.

suteerak1099 · #**1324** 12-06-2008, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Si Geena

It's been crystalising in my head and I've come to this cold truth.

1. She doesn't love me.

2. She feels grateful to me.

3. She'll be careful with me as long as she feels grateful to me.

then i guess the ball is now in your court....... u decide wat's gonna happen next.

goodpartner · #**1325** 13-06-2008, 03:04 AM

TQ guys for your detailed replies

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

It kind of hard to answer u this bro. her family will not look down on u. if u get a hiso girl i really doubt the parents will accept their daughter sleeping with a guy in their house when they are not married.
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for viliage girl another diff story also. pple dont care but will think how the girl got to know a non thai. pple will start talking about u n ur gal for not getting married after sometime and said why this girl family allow the guy stay in the house when both of u are not married.

Lots of things I'm not aware... your mention of this "hiso" thingy led me search and found this blog which is quite informative : Hi-lo Society in Thailand

Ya, mine is a village ger, and I do get those weird stares and feel awkward in the midst of the villagers. However, her family is ok as they know how we got to know each other

I think they oredi regard us a one item even though I've insisted that we're oni BF/GF.

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Originally Posted by rapebill

I am not sure but issan gals seem to expect their hubbies to move in after marriage.

She not an issan gal, but sounds interesting that different parts of thailand seems to have difference culture.

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

modern ppl modern thinking, ppl arent as particular as b4 liao. decision to stay under which roof is subject to the newly weds lor.

Yup, I think it's this "modern" thinking her parent is having; I've no pressure whatsoever with them around, even as we display affections in the broad day light.

Guess it's really up to me and not have to be concern about what onlookers may think.

boyboi · #**1326** 14-06-2008, 11:36 AM

talking about marrying a thai gal, i was in close contact with a WL in GL..sometimes nothing to talk,so talk cock abt marrying her etc .she told me even her mum knows about it & her dad can even say,IF next time were to get married,he dont want any sinsot from me.i just need to built a house for her daughter can liao since they got a small pc of unused land..i was thinking ,wow..House sia..chin chai 1 small house also cost more than sinsot which is usually about 100k baht

really lion open big mouth

Alkano · #**1327** 16-06-2008, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Alkano

I would like to take this opportunity to thank the following brothers for their support, help and advice.
Norikansan55, JWNY, Rapebill, Suteerak1099 and Charmaine.
I can't thank u guys enough. Thanks brothers.

Thks for the above brothers for the moral support and advise.
Helping me thru the difficult times, it was not easy.
Thanks bro Norikansan for being the support for me, and bearing with me.
Anyway i am back on track, manage to resolve issues with my gf.
Thru every trials we go thru, we learn, grow and even wiser.
Even thought they are different from your regular girl, i have to agree that once that barrier is broken...the rest of the way will be even better.
So brothers out there who have thai gf, have patient and perserverence.
Enjoy your walk with your loves ones.
Cheers....

Si Geena · #**1328** 16-06-2008, 10:59 AM

Yes, yes. Pick yourself up. Work things out. Do it with a patient loving heart. Your goodness will shine through.

suteerak1099 · #**1329** 16-06-2008, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Alkano

....i have to agree that once that barrier is broken...the rest of the way will be even better.
So brothers out there who have thai gf, have patient and perserverence.
Enjoy your walk with your loves ones.
Cheers....

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Originally Posted by Si Geena

Yes, yes. Pick yourself up. Work things out. Do it with a patient loving heart. Your goodness will shine through.

everyone's given the conscience to weight the consequences, so, there's nobody to blame or account to, but oneself. good or bad, its your life, the choice is your's to make.

whatever the case may be, its all part of life's learning curve.

H9000C · #**1330** 23-06-2008, 01:44 AM

hi guys i need some advice from u all.... if i dont have the income tax statement for the past 3 yrs can i still apply the social visit pass for my wifey from thailand? i just started working full time last year... what are the requirements needed to get the social visit pass? i checked ICA website i fulfill everything except the income tax statement... pls advise

suteerak1099 · #**1331** 23-06-2008, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by H9000C

hi guys i need some advice from u all.... if i dont have the income tax statement for the past 3 yrs can i still apply the social visit pass for my wifey from thailand? i just started working full time last year... what are the requirements needed to get the social visit pass? i checked ICA website i fulfill everything except the income tax statement... pls advise

MAS stated requirement for annual income of 30k as pre-requisite for credit card application, of which only a very small percentile who fall below the benchmark get their cards. as for ICA, no joking matter- they listed the requirements not for fun/show. if u dont meet those requirements, then u just have to be prepared that your application is being rejected.

pussyman72 · #**1332** 24-06-2008, 03:51 AM

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Originally Posted by H9000C

hi guys i need some advice from u all.... if i dont have the income tax statement for the past 3 yrs can i still apply the social visit pass for my wifey from thailand? i just started working full time last year... what are the requirements needed to get the social visit pass? i checked ICA website i fulfill everything except the income tax statement... pls advise

my suggestion to u mate is to go to ICA and check with the officers there. diff pple will have diff outcome so best u go check it out urself.

my enginner's elder bro who was jobless for 3 yrs was able to get his wife down to singapore few yrs ago. so best to ask them then ask us cos we not working in ICA

Cheers

Nice guy · #**1333** 24-06-2008, 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by H9000C

hi guys i need some advice from u all.... if i dont have the income tax statement for the past 3 yrs can i still apply the social visit pass for my wifey from thailand? i just started working full time last year... what are the requirements needed to get the social visit pass? i checked ICA website i fulfill everything except the income tax statement... pls advise

The main thing is to proof your income. You can ask your company for a pay slip, it should work the same.