Totally agree. The thing is if we start to feel imbalance/jealousy brewing seeing/hearing our favourite ML being well doted, that is the tell-tale sign that we have invested emotions that shouldn't be present in this type of transactional companionship. Best to stop going to that ML or drastically reduce visit frequency. Else if sink too deep it's a world of emotional and financial hurt awaiting. We are all human, happens to most of us once a while be it seasoned or newbie. Gotta always remind ourselves once they RTC usually what awaits us are blanked WeChat accounts, unless she intends to come back so keep the "bond" alive. Even for those whom RTC for good and keep her WeChat alive with us, how many of us can really say we have a genuine friendship with them? Some may beg to differ but not gonna debate on that lah
No matter how the friendship is good in Singapore, what is done here will be left here by them. I had MLs that told me directly they will block me off once they return. And I totally accept that after all their life is back home and not here. Unless you are willing to resettle with them in China, otherwise, don't expect them to stay here and develop relationships. There are successful stories though, just that maybe out of 100 , 2 manage to settle down here. That's all. As long as you and her enjoy each other company, what happens in the room should remain there.
For successful vanilla MLs, they always have an X factor rather than just a pretty face. Just that they don't do hardcore stuff but "seduce" you in other ways. Some might be what we call extras or bordering extras. That is what makes them attractive enough to want to RTM. Of course a beautiful face is the key to start off but I won't return if she is just pretty and that's all. Nowadays there are too many vanilla ML doing hit and run business, to the point of repackaging. I just won't support these.
Actually those who book 2 or more hours REGULARLY for chat/companionship is common and been a trend all these while. This usually applies to the vanilla ML who needs to have certain quality in the looks department. They market themselves as minimal service/playability but high on GFE/KC and master in conversing. Some of the names I can think of (and heard them say plus see WeChat) are the likes of Donna, Aila, Qing Chuan, Song Song, just to name a few. As for whether they share it with us to "encourage" us follow trend or just as a topic to talk, I believe is the later lah. For these gals my max is 90mins and 1 HJ. I enjoy that interaction with lookers ML but to not get a release at all? Nah..
On their flipside, the comprehensive services kind like Xue Er, An An, Mint etc, how many man can tahan just book them talk cock lol..their arsenal of weapons are so complete, even if the chatting chemistry is sky-high, very fast sure escalate to sexy and naughty action liao.
My take is not many ML can attract customers to just splurge on them hours and just be lost in their eyes/voices. If the ML is good looking enough to have this stream of revenue, they will be more than happy to hook these customers for regular dosage of "easy money", which also explains why most of us regular joes tend to have a difficult time booking the pretty vanilla, coz we are 2nd class citizens lol. To each their own lah, its those bros money and not ours, so they are fully entitled to spend it as they deemed fit
very true and well written bro. the part about ML like Mint and escalating to naughty things just got my imagination, screw that, just jotted my memory of the time I was in her room........
There are some new listings like Xi Xi, sugar and tao tao. Anyone tried before? Looks like good potential.
If im not wrong (just my guess here) some of them de-listed a month back due to some site being featured. And perhaps after lying low for a month and things are opening up, they are now back on the site. I was also surprised to see so many new yummies
Didnt expect my comment to start off all these discussions
I am also guilty of bringing ML/FLs out for meals as well....but I always make it clear that I won't be "buying their time" and only the meal is on me. Doesn't happen often though since a certain level of chemistry/"friendship" is required. Still best to keep things transactional as KC game is playing with fire.
That to me is the acid-test, whether we kena double whammy (pay the hourly rate on top of FnB/ sightseeing expenses) or the "date" is more of a mutual understanding that we go and unwind half a day because the ML wants a breather and kinda enjoy the bro companionship, hence won't expect 买钟 fee.
To be fair, ML whom won't consider outing if not paid the hourly rate also not wrong imo, afterall most wanna maximise their income. But for those not so calculative? Then yah, there's definitely some healthy level of chemistry/bond that exists. Whether or not this is perceived as a blessing or a curse, that's the question lol. Get too attached, hearts will be broken when she RTC. While we always preach to others and self that keep it transactional, if and when we stumble upon one that really attract us and she reciprocate to some level, it will take a saint to not build up affection. Am sure we all have our fair share of hearts stolen experiences, some til now I still remember very fondly, and NOT because of their sensual related aspects haha.
very true and well written bro. the part about ML like Mint and escalating to naughty things just got my imagination, screw that, just jotted my memory of the time I was in her room........
That to me is the acid-test, whether we kena double whammy (pay the hourly rate on top of FnB/ sightseeing expenses) or the "date" is more of a mutual understanding that we go and unwind half a day because the ML wants a breather and kinda enjoy the bro companionship, hence won't expect 买钟 fee.
To be fair, ML whom won't consider outing if not paid the hourly rate also not wrong imo, afterall most wanna maximise their income. But for those not so calculative? Then yah, there's definitely some healthy level of chemistry/bond that exists. Whether or not this is perceived as a blessing or a curse, that's the question lol. Get too attached, hearts will be broken when she RTC. While we always preach to others and self that keep it transactional, if and when we stumble upon one that really attract us and she reciprocate to some level, it will take a saint to not build up affection. Am sure we all have our fair share of hearts stolen experiences, some til now I still remember very fondly, and NOT because of their sensual related aspects haha.
Am sure we all have our fair share of hearts stolen experiences, some til now I still remember very fondly, and NOT because of their sensual related aspects haha.
I also think back all the shiok and happy memories from pre-covid, but put them aside when I go home. At the end of the day, family is the one that really cares for you, not the ML.
That to me is the acid-test, whether we kena double whammy (pay the hourly rate on top of FnB/ sightseeing expenses) or the "date" is more of a mutual understanding that we go and unwind half a day because the ML wants a breather and kinda enjoy the bro companionship, hence won't expect 买钟 fee.
To be fair, ML whom won't consider outing if not paid the hourly rate also not wrong imo, afterall most wanna maximise their income. But for those not so calculative? Then yah, there's definitely some healthy level of chemistry/bond that exists. Whether or not this is perceived as a blessing or a curse, that's the question lol. Get too attached, hearts will be broken when she RTC. While we always preach to others and self that keep it transactional, if and when we stumble upon one that really attract us and she reciprocate to some level, it will take a saint to not build up affection. Am sure we all have our fair share of hearts stolen experiences, some til now I still remember very fondly, and NOT because of their sensual related aspects haha.
I guess those who stayed long enough will plan a off day weekly. But it's tough to choose when so many guys lining up to bring them out.
I rmb a recent ML, tell me book for 10am and 11am slot so we can go sightseeing at midnight after our last session then she can rest til 12. Should have accepted the offer, provided if I rest with her til 12. Hahaha
Have you submitted your bid to tender for her sacred last days slots or not haha? Highest bidder wins the coveted chance to spend time with her on her last days. Things like this is most absurd to me. Vying to be the chosen ones with working ladies. She is known to be well doted, the bid better be sky high to avoid disappointment.
19-08-2021, 01:55 PM
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