Had a horrible experience with KiKi. She gave me the impression that she holds a lot of contempt for others in her heart, as she would rather take the chance to insinuate a lack of competence on my part than earn SGD120 from me.
I followed her instructions to reach her apartment. When I reached the floor, I realized that there were contradictions between her instructions and the unit itself. I then messaged her to ask for clarification. She then called and said: “房号都给你了你还找不到,算了!” (I’ve already given you the unit number and you still couldn’t find it, forget it!) She later had the audacity to message me the following: “我刚刚就开了门,我也听到你电话响了“ (When I just opened the door, I heard your phone ringing.)
In essence, she admitted that I arrived at the correct area and was close by. Yet instead of simply helping me by providing a little more information, she called off the appointment altogether. It appears that she would rather imply that I was too incompetent to find her apartment than be more patient so as to earn my money.
This is a shame, as I was actually looking forward to meeting her after reading several positive reviews about her. However, given what I have experienced, she may be taking a turn for the worst. Do think twice about patronizing her. Caveat Emptor (Let the customer beware).
Interesting. Her place is not very difficult to find type, and quite straightforward. Have known Ki Ki since she first arrived here and found her to be very polite and pleasing. She is in my regular rotation list and I have not seen her dropped her service standards even with the familiarity. Serving water and so on, so not sure what happened to you.
Hopefully it is not an exaggerated complaint. I can understand why ML will cut the customer off if the customer is a noob as any commotion will stir up the neighbours and she will need to move or worse invite unwanted attention. If she did open the door and can hear your phone ringing, then you must be super blur, talking on the corridor and hope everyone knows you are there type.
Just be a lot more considerate bro. Usually I memorise everything before approaching the gate so as to look less suspicious. This is to protect you and the ML.
I have not tried FJ for some time since I had ED the last time I tried. The issue is psychological though, as I can get hard through stimulation, but when I tried to enter, little bro turned soft. The FL also stunned like vegetable That's why I'm determined to get back to normal again.
It’s prob cause your grip is also way tighter than a pussy. Just stop jacking off for 2 months and you’ll be back to normal
During that period, absolutely refrain from PCC-ing and looking at sexy/nekkid pics and vids.. Find something useful and healthy to do also for distraction..
After 2 weeks up, find a ML who does CIM or COF.. Just settling for HJ alone will not do your imminent volcanic eruption any justice..
I'll be very thankful if I can be back to normal in 2 weeks. From what I read online, it takes around 2-3 months to "reset". I've stopped PCCing and watching any media that may edge or make me want to PCC. I only allow myself to release via female contact.
As for the CIM part, one ML that did BJ for me commented that her mouth would cramp first since I took so long to shoot, finished with a HJ
When a person does too much hj, the sensitivity of his dick will be reduced significantly. Unless he behaves like the porn actors who have to ram hard and fast to increase the stimulation and sensitivity of his dick, if not he will have difficulty in cumming when the ML uses slow pace and only up & down hj movements.
He has to look for ML with gd sensual skill and 5G roaming and maybe go for bbbj with CIM first and slowly switch to bbbj and cum in hj.
Exactly.. Is all about re-calibrating your brain to the human touch, especially from the fairer sex..
The “death grip” issue is a common problem and can only be solved if one stops PCC-ing for a few weeks, and after that is all about doing it in moderation..
At the end of the day, a kkj is supposed to be sliding in and out of a vag, and not by your own hands..
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I'll be very thankful if I can be back to normal in 2 weeks. From what I read online, it takes around 2-3 months to "reset". I've stopped PCCing and watching any media that may edge or make me want to PCC. I only allow myself to release via female contact.
As for the CIM part, one ML that did BJ for me commented that her mouth would cramp first since I took so long to shoot, finished with a HJ
If 2 weeks don’t work for u, slowly increase the duration as u see fit lor..
All the best in your journey.. The initial stages will be quite difficult as u will go through the “cold turkey” period, but once u clear that hurdle everything else should be smooth-sailing..
Do report back here next month to see if it works..
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feel for u bro. i think you are on the right track though. try to quit porn totally. i think continue to rtm the ML that can help u come well, maybe visit once or twice a week. see if can unlock so that u can naturally transit into fj (if it is possible). i don’t believe this will be solved so easily in just 2 weeks. i’m no sex therapist, but i think it will be a good idea to see one. there are also now many vids from such therapists on tik tok. many promote what u are trying to do now. but just see one to get good and proper advice once and for all.
Yeah, thanks for your advice, I'll see how it goes first by going "cold turkey" and RTMing MLs that I've built some rapport with.
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If 2 weeks don’t work for u, slowly increase the duration as u see fit lor..
All the best in your journey.. The initial stages will be quite difficult as u will go through the “cold turkey” period, but once u clear that hurdle everything else should be smooth-sailing..
Do report back here next month to see if it works..
Thanks! I believe you'll see the gradual improvements I made in my future FRs
Yeah, thanks for you advice, I'll see how it goes first by going "cold turkey" and RTMing MLs that I've built some rapport with.
do share your progress with all. i actually think your problem is not unique. i think there are many younger gen bros here who face the same problem. access to porn and settled with hand has become so much easier than chasing a girl to screw. can’t imagine when metaverse come then how sia. what u are doing is easier said than done. it also takes courage to say this out. and i think it will only help. sincerely wish the best for u!
do share your progress with all. i actually think your problem is not unique. i think there are many younger gen bros here who face the same problem. access to porn and settled with hand has become so much easier than chasing a girl to screw. can’t imagine when metaverse come then how sia. what u are doing is easier said than done. it also takes courage to say this out. and i think it will only help. sincerely wish the best for u!
Yeah sure, hopefully by sharing my progress I can help others who are also facing the same problem but didn't share or voice out. I contemplated whether I should share my condition here, but this is something that you wouldn't usually discuss with your family members or close friends, so I thought of sharing here to get some advice and support.
Alright, enough about me, let's go back to sharing FRs
It's not a good thing though, some MLs complained that their hands were tired from jacking me off but I still didn't cum. Sometimes I have to do it myself else the session will go into overtime.
The reason I can last so long without cumming is because I used to jack off to porn excessively. Now my brain is wired in such a way that I can only cum by my own hands while watching porn, so it's difficult for others to make me cum during sensual.
I have since stopped watching porn and masturbating recently, only relying on MLs for release. It could take several months to rewire my brain so that I'm normal again, but I'm determined to do it.
Train yourself to listen to your brother and climax when he tells you to.
Glad to be of help bro Of course, your experience may differ from mine since we have different preferences (like I don't mind smaller boobs for example), but I like to set the expectations right so fellow bros can decide whether to try or not.
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Bro, i was a super regular of Rui Rui before - to give you some perspective of things I look for other than boobies, hahahaha.
Anyway, it's your critical details that help most. I know YMMV, but at least I know what I may possibly expect in reality - because of your critical details. Too many "FRs" these days exclude details, only have "Wow!", "best I ever had", "bring me to the moon".... hahaha. You know, I know la.
big or small melons no doubt plays a strong part in the visual aspect, but end the day, the sensation response when tongue entwined with the nip and how the ML body reacts is utmost impt.
Train yourself to listen to your brother and climax when he tells you to.
Interestingly, when the ML is stimulating me, I can't cum unless I flick a mental switch. Even then, I'll still take a couple of minutes before I cum. If I don't flick the switch, I'll still cum eventually when little bro buay tahan, but it'll take much longer
When I'm PCCing, I can control exactly when to shoot
Location is good for drivers. Lots of roadside parking. Foot soldier not too sure.
Body: definitely not E cup.
Massage : NA. Straight to sensual after bath tgt.
Service : was really good thou. Very accommodating and hardworking. Total played tgt around 40 to 45 mins before I erupted in her hands. Shiok.
RTM: maybe when I'm in the area and in need.