Can't have sex because of Phimosis (foreskin cannot be retracted)

[muneo]

Hi fellow samsters,

I am almost 30 years old and still a virgin.
I have been reading so many wonderful FRs and wanted to try out this wonderful thing call sex but two things prevented me from doing so: My religion and Phimosis

Putting my religion aside, let's talk about Phimosis here.
Phimosis is a condition where the foreskin of penis cannot be retracted.
For my case, when I am at full erection, I can barely see the tip the tip of my penis. Therefore, at erection, my contracted foreskin cause trouble by hurting when an attempt is made to pull the foreskin back.

I am a masturbation addict and I HAVE TO masturbate at least one time per day to ease my high sexual tension. I can masturbate up to 5 times when I am alone at home on weekends. I do not feel pain during masturbation as I always hold my foreskin tight and make sure that my foreskin do not pull back while I rub the tip of my penis. However, I cannot do so when I trust into a vigina right? I tried that using Fleshlight sex toy (a cyberskin rellike vigina) with lots of lubricant applied, but my penis hurts so much that in the end I always have to use my hands to 'finish the job'. Whenever I thing of vigina insertion, the word 'pain' comes to my mind straight away.

I am not too sure of this but maybe it is a blessing in disguise.
Someone up there might just want to prevent me from sinning....

[no_faith]

bro, do u tink circumcision will help?
but yet again, after yrs in sbf and the temptations ard u could not lure u to consult the doctor and have a gd sex, imho, stay as virgin might be a gd idea.

[muneo]

True.. I've been in Sammyboy forum since 2002. On some occasions, the temptation was so great. Dun really wanna spend money and have my penis go under the knife because of this problem. Ouch! Is there a better solution?

[no_faith]

imho, it is the better solution.
in the long run, it solves ur prob for one time under the knife.
or u will be carry on of war u r now.

0.02

[muneo]

Dun really know now. I think I am fated to die a virgin.
A bit jealous of guys who can have sex.
Listing some pro and con for letting my foreskin remain intact.

Pros:
1) I can finally enjoy women love holes.

2) I can feel like a real man.

3) I will feel confident when approaching girls

Cons:
1) If I really go for the operation, I will be like a hungry beast just released from hell and will pound on every WL I can get hold of after almost 30 years of sexless life.

2) Large amount of my hard earned money will be use to satisfy my small head.

3) I will be going against what my religion taught me. Something to the effect 'My spirit is willing but my flesh is weak'.

Any bro here also suffering from unretractable foreskin problem?
For more information about Phimosis, can visit http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phimosis
Please share your experience.

[no_faith]

Pros:
1) I can finally enjoy women love holes - yeah

2) I can feel like a real man - yeah

3) I will feel confident when approaching girls - yeah


Cons:
1) If I really go for the operation, I will be like a hungry beast just released from hell and will pound on every WL I can get hold of after almost 30 years of sexless life - unless ur sperm can tahan

2) Large amount of my hard earned money will be use to satisfy my small head - no pain no gain

3) I will be going against what my religion taught me. Something to the effect 'My spirit is willing but my flesh is weak' - im free tinker, no comment

sum up, stay as vrigin.

[muneo]

Maybe I can be the real '40 Years Old Virgin' next time.
I am 28 years old now leading an extremely boring life, no girlfriend, no sex, always stay at home, work, work and just work... and of course playing with my dick whenever I have the chance.

[no_faith]

i also work home work home, no gf does not mean boring.
there are other ways to kill time. is u wanna do it or not?

i really dunno wich religion forbids follower circumise.

[xx87xx]

i have the same problem as u...but i can have sex... the point it.. u need lubricant... or wait till the girl's pussy is very wet...or ur dick very wet... u will go in easily without hurting ur foreskin...

another way is to use condom... condom has lubricant.....and help u hold the foreskin

[McMoogle]

See your doctor, ask about steroidal treatment. It's a cream.

[pfingo]

bro muneo if u follow the teach of religion then we cant tell u what to do. best is do what U want to

[vangerz]

eh i just realised i also have this problem.
but i pull my foreskin back before i erect, so the foreskin is behind the head when fully erected.
but i cant pull it back further once erected, very pain.
i scared so cirumsize, coz scared parents will know.
how?

[Disgusted]

Originally Posted by muneo

Dun really know now. I think I am fated to die a virgin.
A bit jealous of guys who can have sex.
Listing some pro and con for letting my foreskin remain intact.

It's not fate... You have a choice! Millions of guys in the world are circumcised! You choose not to. It's a simple and common procedure available to rich or poor people. If you want sex, just go for the op. As for religion, no one is forcing you to have sex, you can also choose to live your religious life...

[callmeh1976]

The foreskin is attached exactly to the tip of the head in these cases. So it can't be pulled further. I got the same problem. But i feel ok in FJ but very sensitive in bbbj. FJ is ok as long as you apply the condom over the foreskin slowly so that it remains intact. bbbj is really sensitive if the head is exposed completely.

For me the best option is a condom with the foreskin not fully retracted.

There are some very minor surgeries also which removes the attached area of the foreskin from the head. It's much easier/cheaper than a full circumcision.

cheers!

[beauthaiful]

Hi bro callmeh1976, long time no hear from you!

did not know you are active in this forum, providing advice