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Re: Do you regret not marrying a Singaporean Girl sometimes?
Just looking around and lost count of the numbers of divorcees in our social circle tells alot.
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Actually I would prefer a foreign wife.
Most of my friends who got, they have more lobang from their spouse country like buy house and do business. |
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Bro.. suppose you might be single, and need some statistic or reassurance to date a foreigner or settle with a Singaporean lady. That's why you asked such question.
Assuming this is not a troll, I shall give my more sincere answer. By the way, my wife is a filippina and we have been together for 14 years. Actually, most of us would want to date ladies with a marriageable prospect unless you are still at the fboy or looking around phase la. But this really calls for destiny and fate since every lady you come across will be unique and has her own personality and temperament. Though her culture does influence a bit of how she views the world and handles life, which will then affect your initial judgement of whether her value and belief system will align with your own, but don't forget that even we Singaporeans also have diverse ways of thinking and living our life. If outside people just use a set of labels to describe Singaporeans such as snobbish, kiasu, materialistic and pragmatic, do you think these descriptors are exactly who you are? I doubt so. And same applies to foreigners. You can only find out whether she's suitable for you after you have been with her and spend a good amount of quality time conversing and even living together. It's unfair to any lady you are considering seriously dating to go in with a set of presumptions based on what you have read, heard and even experienced before. Bro, give each relationship a clean slate and try to be your best so that your partner will be her best too. And then you decide whether that would be your potential wife. Anyway, no marriage is perfect la. As the saying goes, marriage is never a bed of roses. You have to constantly iron things out and you can never say you fully understand someone even after a decade together. Even if you truly understand your wife, there are certain differences that exist and these are unresolvable. Don't expect anyone to change. No one will change. Just change yourself. That's the easiest. Thus, you can only minimise the impact that differences cause by either compromising on your side or living with certain defects in your relationship. And when a child is in dynamic, it's a different ball game we ought to learn how to play. Adulting and parenting are continuous learning journey. We can never stop learning to be better in our roles. Last edited by lechlee; 03-06-2022 at 05:58 AM. |
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its true, well said.. no one will change, just change yourself. |
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SG may seem like a better choice, because of cultural reasons, understanding life in SG. This does not mean they are a better person. I see so many SG girls sleeping around behind their husbands back. They too marry for money. Marry a SG guy easier to get HDB. So I believe marriage we cannot say which country is better. It is who we are happier with. I have friends with foreigner wives enjoying their lives so much more fulfilling than friends with SG girls as wives. All boils down to think clearly, what the girl wants / needs , what the guy wants / needs , can both party fulfill each other, regardless of nationality. |
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you are right ! so it is about the connection not the country !
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i prefer thai and viet girls
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same ah but must find the kampong one for wife hahaha then they take care you like king !
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Yes, after i live in Europe and dated several european girls, i feel Singapore girl cannot match them in terms of beauty, interesting personality, hobbies, caring for partner etc
Now i regret marry so early. In fact now on dating app back Singapore for holidays, i have no matches, because i keep swipping left when I see singkee girls |
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this is my conclusion after dating a hei long jiang gal. |
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there is one chinese saying; 木门对木门。金门对金门。 |
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Then i have to say educated singapore men are actually 金门 but because of fkin environment set up by our gahrmen and stupid women's charter and many unfair practices, the singapore men are made to look like 木门 My suggestion is for educated singapore men to seek their partners or gfs or even flings away from Singapore. Go Europe best if you can, tbe girls are top notch- face figure conversations class...or other countries, we will be treated like the real 金门 that we are! |
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Does it give you enough reason to find other girls or FL or ML if your sex partner playing death fish all the time? Like not interested in sex at all.
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