Relationship advice...

[ANowhereMan]

Bro, saw you share in another post before.. Well, if you really like her and see yourself spending the rest of your life w her, why should the past hold back the future?

Just my 2 cents.

Rgds

[hi2u]

It is up to how both of you, and both your families view about this religion issues.
It is like, Christians should not marry a non-Christian.

[Booker]

It may not necessary be just an issue between you and your gf.
It could potentially be an issue of 2 families.
1) what are ur family views on this, since chinese family typically see the son as the line carrier, by converting and taking on a malay name, can your family accept that.
2) are u prepared to convert and observed the ways of a muslim? Praying, not pork and other stuffs.

If u have plans to move over with your gf and stays there, then your option of converting is more necessary, since u have to face her family day in day out.
But if you manage to convince your gf that u still stay in singapore, then u may still go the civil marriage way as mentioned by one of the bro.
But no doubt that may then caused strain between you and your gf family.

Either way, its going to be tricky. So ask urself if you are really serious in settling down before you kick-start all these processes.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

Funny that I have to post here...
Keen to bury my past behind me, and anybody that digs it up too.

Currently in a relationship with a Javanese girl in her 20s.
She's sweet, traditional and takes care of me..
Her father is a well-connected senior government official back home.
She is also Muslim, and quite devout at that.
Religion is a thorny issue, as I'm Chinese.
Conversion would be problematic, to say the least.
She views the relationship seriously, and I'm in love with her.
Any advice would be appreciated....

Bro, ask urself first thing 👉R u a PLAYER??
Most of the players dun intend to settle dwn or settle dwn so early!!
How long is this relationship? Juz started? If juz started, everything is so 新鲜! 你们还沐浴在爱河当中. Mayb the sparkle of passion let u feel deeply in love. Give u n her ample of time to understand each other better b4 rushing to marriage!! Nt need so rush for marriage if the relationship juz started, everything is still nt stable. When time to talk abt marriage then consider the matter of convert.
If u r those big player, dun wish to settle dwn, better show ur intention to her 免得累人累己,误人时间!

[karimasong]

Originally Posted by xinahma

@TS, you knew the answer and yet came here ask for opinion.

Need double confirmation

[tora]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Bro, ask urself first thing 👉R u a PLAYER??
Most of the players dun intend to settle dwn or settle dwn so early!!
How long is this relationship? Juz started? If juz started, everything is so 新鲜! 你们还沐浴在爱河当中. Mayb the sparkle of passion let u feel deeply in love. Give u n her ample of time to understand each other better b4 rushing to marriage!! Nt need so rush for marriage if the relationship juz started, everything is still nt stable. When time to talk abt marriage then consider the matter of convert.
If u r those big player, dun wish to settle dwn, better show ur intention to her 免得累人累己,误人时间!

Somewhat agreed with you.

[cassano10]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Bro, ask urself first thing 👉R u a PLAYER??:

You are being very kind by calling him a player.

Read his previous posts and you will realise he's a rapist.

[hundu]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

Bro, ask urself first thing 👉R u a PLAYER??
Most of the players dun intend to settle dwn or settle dwn so early!!
How long is this relationship? Juz started? If juz started, everything is so 新鲜! 你们还沐浴在爱河当中. Mayb the sparkle of passion let u feel deeply in love. Give u n her ample of time to understand each other better b4 rushing to marriage!! Nt need so rush for marriage if the relationship juz started, everything is still nt stable. When time to talk abt marriage then consider the matter of convert.
If u r those big player, dun wish to settle dwn, better show ur intention to her 免得累人累己,误人时间!

Somehow agreed with you.

[luckystrike8888]

Originally Posted by TKee

Which is more important to you? Religion or love? That is the solution.

He may not even know difference between love and like.

[ddog]

Bro into submissive gals easy pick, easy to please and have
Ddog like strong, spicy very smart gals intellectual conversation in cozy cafes
To each own but is bro willing chop tail? no chop then forget girl, since easy replace

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by luckystrike8888

He may not even know difference between love and like.

Love or purely LUST??

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by luckystrike8888

He may not even know difference between love and like.

More like puppy love

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by cassano10

You are being very kind by calling him a player.

Read his previous posts and you will realise he's a rapist.

Rapist??
From his previous post......he seems like to inseminate n impregnate those gals.....dun knw if all these r juz a story he wrote or real?? If real 1, then he say he wish to bury the past is understandable why.....毕竟那是不堪回首的过去!!! Hope tat this gal is a true love for him to really settle dwn!! But all these need time to tell!

[strikeback4]

Oh ya... I recall TS is the fucker who have been going around forcing FL to do RAW

https://sammythe.guru/showthread.php?t=285573&page=108

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by strikeback4

Oh ya... I recall TS is the fucker who have been going around forcing FL to do RAW

https://sammythe.guru/showthread.php?t=285573&page=108

Is a true incident??